148, catch too much, aren't you tired? (ask for subscription)
In fact, Gu Meng didn't want to enter the Huang family's compound again, not because of the Huang family's attitude, but because of his weak heart.
Several bigwigs in Aoyama-in knew that he had a style problem, and he had a foreign girlfriend who worked in the embassy, and he was also subjected to two political censorships for this.
Old man Huang must know it too.
Old man Huang has always regarded Wang Ya as the daughter-in-law of his granddaughter Huang family, and now he has entered the Huang family as Wang Ya's boyfriend, how embarrassing!
When he was in the Huang family, he was restless, like sitting on pins and needles, and his curiosity and exploration of everyone were only perfunctory.
Fortunately, after a meal, everyone dispersed, and when he left, Old Man Huang accompanied him to the front yard, and after Wang Ya was separated, he really talked to him about it.
"Hey, it's okay to be young and romantic, but it's not right to deceive the girl's feelings, the paper can't hold the fire, what if the girl knows one day?"
Huang Lao asked solemnly.
Wang Ya is the granddaughter of an old comrade-in-arms, she is well-behaved and cute, he has several grandchildren, but no granddaughter, so he has always treated Wang Ya as his own granddaughter, in Wang Ya's emotional problems, he does not force Wang Ya to marry Huang Yi, only hopes that she can marry a man who is really good to her in the future.
A few days ago, I heard Wang Ya say that she had found a boyfriend, and the relationship between the two was very good, he asked Wang Ya to bring it to see if he was a good man, he couldn't deceive his eyes, and when he saw that the person who came was Gu Meng, he was a capable boy, and the two would not be wronged when they were together.
Gu Meng's style is problematic.
This matter has always been a joke used by the old people in the hospital to make fun of Gu Meng.
Everyone was young, and it doesn't matter if you fool around before you get married, no one will look into it.
He didn't want to bother with it.
This happened to his juniors, and he couldn't help but ask.
Gu Meng sighed, "Grandpa Huang, I was wrong about this matter, I am not a single-minded person, nor am I a man who can live a stable life, I shouldn't deceive Wang Ya's feelings, it's just"
It's just that he doesn't know what to do.
Confess?
Let go?
He was a little reluctant, and the daughter he had raised with great difficulty let it go easily, and his heart would bleed.
Continue to hide it, drag it out?
There will always be times when it can't be dragged on, once things explode.
Bang
What will be the result, as expected, the damage will be heavier.
In terms of emotional issues, he will not deal with it in his last life, and he will not be in this life, is it because his emotional intelligence is not high enough?
Talking to the old man about it, he really wanted the old man
People can give themselves a piece of advice.
In terms of foresight and physical strength, he is superior.
In terms of insight and wisdom, even if he has lived two lifetimes, he is not as good as an old man who has experienced war and turmoil.
Now that the old man knew about it, he thought about opening up.
"Are you going to marry Wang Ya, can you get married before the age of twenty-five?" asked Huang Lao bluntly.
This question is too difficult to answer.
In his previous life, he had no experience of marriage.
In fact, there are no plans to get married in this life.
When you are married, it means that there is a woman who can interfere in her life openly and justifiably.
For a person with a rich private life, that kind of life is scary to think about.
He often wondered what marriage meant to him.
Survival cooperation?
Ethnic continuation?
Love sublimation?
He has no shortage of partners in life and business, nor is he short of women who are willing to bear children for themselves.
As for love?
How could he ever love someone with all his heart?
Tie the knot?
Maybe when more things happen, I feel that marriage will bring greater happiness, and maybe I will consider getting married, but it's just maybe.
"Grandpa Huang, I don't want to lie to you, I haven't thought about this matter yet. ”
Huang Lao sighed slightly, "You are only eighteen years old, so it's normal that you haven't thought it through." ”
The two walked silently for a while, and walked around the small garden in the front yard, where the green branches were luxuriant, and a few bushes of dwarf blue chrysanthemums were blooming brightly, with blue petals, and a touch of snow white on the top of their heads, Shanshan was lovely.
"Gu Meng, let me make a suggestion, would you like to listen to it?"
"Grandpa Huang, please speak!"
"If you are willing to marry Xiaoya, I bless you, I really hope to have a capable junior relative like you, if you don't plan to marry Wang Ya, you don't plan to live a stable life with her, it's better to take advantage of Wang Ya's going abroad for a few years, let it go slowly, time and distance, even life and faith can be consumed, not to mention ignorant feelings?"
This is true.
The current Wang Ya is simple, dependent, and not yet mature.
What happens when you go abroad?
No matter what happens, she will definitely grow up rapidly in the past few years, what kind of person will she become, and what kind of character will she think?
Gu Meng couldn't expect it either.
But his own flowers snuggled in other people's hearts, how about him
He suddenly remembered an article from junior high school:
is also a good negative worm. When you encounter things, you will take them, and you will lose them. The heavier the back, the more sleepy the drama is. Its back is very astringent, and the accumulation of things does not disperse, and the servants cannot get up. People may pity them, in order to remove their burdens. If you can do it, you can do it, and you will take it as before. He was so high that he was so strong that he fell to the ground and died.
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How similar is he to Liu Zongyuan's writing?
Reborn I, he doesn't want to let go of every opportunity, once he encounters it, he will always grasp it tightly, no matter what.
"The Fierceness of the Blacksmith of Rebirth"
If you burden too much, will you be crushed to death in the end?
How do I let go?
How to choose?
He raised his head and wanted to ask Huang Lao for advice, and Huang Lao walked to the backyard with his hands behind his back.
"Gu Meng, what did Grandpa Huang tell you?"
Wang Ya walked over and asked with a smile.
Gu Meng looked at the delicate person in front of him, sighed secretly, and said with a smile: "The sports meeting is coming soon, Grandpa Huang wants me to cheer for the country and win glory for the country!"
"Haha, okay, you must take a few more gold medals this year and give me a collection, okay?" Wang Ya shook his arm.
Gu Meng shook his head, "Not good!"
"Why?" Wang Ya pouted, a little unhappy.
Gu Meng lightly nodded the tip of her nose, "Of course the best is given to you, what is the gold medal in the Asian Games, I will give you the Olympic gold medal." ”
"Hee-hee"
Wang Ya was happy, "Whether it's the Asian Games or the Olympics, I want it, okay?"
"Okay, why not, everything you want is yours. ”
"Haha, that's what you said, I want your time. ”
"Okay, how can I give it to you?"
"I'm going to leave in a few days, you don't have to do anything these days, you have to stay with me until I think you're annoying, okay?"
"Haha, good!"
"Let's go, call Huang Yi and my brother, and let's drive out to play." ”
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148. Aren't you tired of catching too much?