1094 It's a Small Thing, It's a Big Thing (3/3)

On Monday, Yang Yi sent Xixi and Lan Xin to school, and after coming back, not long after, Lanzhou Kai brought Wu Jingjing over, and the sorrow between the two eyebrows, even Murphy could see it, she hurriedly replaced Yang Yi and went to boil water and make tea.

"Brother Lan, what's wrong?" Yang Yi frowned slightly and asked with concern.

Lanzhou Kai's usual style of doing things is the same as his body type, as stable as Mount Tai, even if there are any small problems in business and on the amusement park construction site, he can deal with them calmly, and almost never complains to Yang Yi.

Today's state is indeed a bit abnormal.

"It's not a big deal," Lanzhou Kai said with a sigh......

However, before he finished speaking, Wu Jingjing next to him grabbed the conversation dissatisfiedly: "It's not big, shouldn't such a thing be taken seriously?"

"I want to say later, it's not small...... Lan Kai explained.

"What the hell is going on?" Yang Yi felt more and more strange.

"Isn't it Xin'er, I came back yesterday and looked at her homework, and I almost looked stupid!" Lanzhou Kai said, took out his large-screen mobile phone, and flipped out a photo to show Yang Yi, "Look at this diary she wrote, as well as the teacher's comments." ”

Lanzhou Kai is not easy, he didn't think about how to deal with this matter, so he didn't talk about it, last night Lan Xin came back from Rongcheng, he didn't say a word, and now he waited for Lan Xin to go to school, and then told Yang Yi about it.

At first, Yang Yi thought it was just Lan Xin being lazy and not writing a diary or something, but he leaned over to look at it and couldn't help but be stunned.

"I'm hungry this morning, I don't have anything to eat, Xixi doesn't have anything to eat, fortunately I'm very smart, haha, I'm in the back of the classroom, and I secretly took the small biscuits that the class leader bought for Xiaoya to eat! Xiaoya doesn't eat biscuits, but I think it's delicious!"

That's all there is to the diary, of course, there are a lot of pinyin in between, and this is just the full version translated.

Seeing this, Yang Yi knew why Lanzhou Kai was worried......

Petty theft, that's not a good habit!

Compare your heart to your heart, and change Xixi's words...... Yang Yi felt that when Lanzhou Kai saw this diary yesterday, he should have been in a state of collapse.

My God, with billions of dollars of property in your family, what do you want, and you actually ran to steal other people's cookies to eat because you were hungry? Can Lanzhou Kai's head not explode? Can Wu Jingjing just not lose his temper?

It's also Lanzhou Kai's calm personality, and when Lan Xin came back last night, she didn't hang her up and beat her!

But then again, Lanzhou Kai is right, it's not a big deal. Because children will always make mistakes of one kind or another, and they have not formed a correct worldview, and they cannot be characterized because of one thing.

Yang Yi looked at the lower end, this diary was for the teacher to check, and sure enough, Li Ruolan also responded, she left a line of red letters underneath.

"Next time, you can't eat other people's snacks, if you feel hungry, you can come to the teacher, the teacher has brought apples, and you can share half of them!"

The understatement suddenly calmed Yang Yi's somewhat frizzy mind just now.

Li Ruolan obviously understands and knows that if such a thing is handled too bluntly, it will bring shame to the child that may be unforgettable for the rest of his life!

Maybe Lan Xin doesn't feel anything now, if she grows up and is sensible, she remembers that she was once called to the office by the teacher and reprimanded in front of many people, so that she understands that she should not secretly take other people's or Xiaoya's snacks, and it is estimated that she will have to carry a heavy psychological burden in this life.

"Thankfully, Teacher Li didn't do this, and I think her comments are well written and can solve the problem!" Yang Yi explained to Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing, "You see, on the one hand, she told Lan Xin that she shouldn't do this, and on the other hand, she also encouraged Lan Xin to have such a problem, you can go to her to help solve it, not just to say that Lan Xin can't do this when she is hungry, but also gave a solution to the problem, so that Lan Xin doesn't have to worry about her stomach being hungry." ”

"When she's hungry, can we let her bring something to school to eat! No matter how bad it is, she also has pocket money in her schoolbag, and she can buy food at the school commissary, how do she want to get other classmates' cookies, alas, I really don't know what she thinks!" Wu Jingjing patted her thigh a little irritably and said.

"Sister Jing, don't be in a hurry, let's find a way to solve it together. Seeing this, Murphy added some hot tea to her and persuaded, "You drink some tea first to dissipate your anger." ”

"This past thing, just let it pass, didn't the teacher already help us handle it well? We don't have to pursue too much, in fact, you see that Xin'er usually comes back, and she is all fine, which means that she has accepted the teacher's guidance and will not do it in the future." Yang Yi smiled, "You are in a hurry to get angry now, but the child feels very scared, which has a certain impact on her mental health development." ”

"This matter, having said that, I'm just worried, she thinks that the teacher is not the right thing, and we parents are not the same thing, and I still have a big grin in my heart, I think it is very smart to do this, what if she encounters something different from now next time? Does she also want to use this method to solve it?" Lanzhou Kai was not as anxious as Wu Jingjing, but he was also very worried in his heart, and slowly explained his worries to Yang Yi.

Yang Yi couldn't help but fall into deep thought, and Lan Kai's words also made sense. Moreover, these words reminded him of a case in a children's education book he had read before.

Although many years have passed, Yang Yi still remembers it vividly.

It is said that a teacher in the upper grades of primary school investigated that student A stole student B's pocket money, and spent it on buying a small hamster. But the teacher was very friendly, she didn't want student A to be too embarrassed, so she privately gave student A a corresponding amount of money, and asked him to secretly return it to student B first, and then student A wanted to use his pocket money to return it to the teacher, and student A agreed.

If this is the end of the story, then everyone is happy, and the chicken soup is full of flavor!

However, later, when the teacher talked to Student A's homeroom teacher about this incident (this teacher was only the teacher in this class), he was shocked to find that it was not a matter of once or twice that Student A stole other people's things......

This kind of thing makes the elementary school teacher who tells this story confused, she feels that she is indeed good for this child, but doing so can also be said to help him cover up his mistakes, perhaps, he will feel at ease and become more and more presumptuous!

Lanzhou Kai's worries just hit the nail on the head!

Just when Yang Yi was pondering, Murphy also felt that this was a big problem, and also opened his mouth to persuade: "Yang Yi, you can help Brother Lan and Sister Jing think about how to tell Xin'er, I think although it is a small problem, isn't it said that the old saying goes? ”

"Yes, Xiao Yang, you have the best way to teach your children, help us think about what to do!" Wu Jingjing said.

Lanzhou Kai also nodded, he and Wu Jing sat there quietly, and a gloomy atmosphere was permeating.

Yang Yi nodded lightly, he continued to think for a while, and then said slowly: "As for me, I still think that this matter has to be solved from two angles, first, this matter in Xin'er's diary, we will follow the teacher's method, don't mention it, let it pass." Second, on the basis of not mentioning this matter, let me come, I will find Xin'er and Xixi together, tell them a story, and in the story, teach them these principles of how to behave in the world, okay? Don't put too much pressure on the children!"

Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing still trusted Yang Yi, and when they heard him say this, they felt a lot more at ease, and quickly nodded happily.