Raising children alone and working hard for her career, Wen Jing's hard work is in everyone's eyes. In the middle of every helpless night, she would also think angrily, why did she have to live with this electrician who was always away from home? There were so many people chasing her at that time, and there was no shortage of rich and powerful people. But in the most difficult year, she persistently waited for him, who had parted ways at that time, instead of finding someone to marry, why?

However, as soon as the sun dawned and the sun came out, she was not angry when she saw her lovely son and then saw the message from the electrician. In the words of a friend, she is married to love, to the person she loves most in her life. It's a little bitter, but it's very happy. If she had to do it again, she would still make the same choice.

Although the time spent with his wife and children is very short, Qiao Nan has also been a father for a year and a half, and he knows that it is not easy to take care of children. A child is not a computer program that works according to pre-programmed codes, but in his fragile infant life, he is a bug-ridden little devil who can never predict what will happen to him.

The most impressive time should be in October 2014, when Qiao Nan came home occasionally, just in time for his son to be sick and crying in his mother's arms. He was looking forward to the scene of his wife and children having a good time, and he also imagined that his wife would cook him a lot of delicious food, but his illusion was shattered all of a sudden.

Wen Jing is too busy with her children to take care of her husband who has just come home. The little commander was hot, his hands and feet were blistered, his mouth was ulcerated, he couldn't eat anything, and he couldn't express his pain except crying. Qiao Nan had never seen a child cry so much, he held the child, his heart was like a knife.

Wen Jing was also a little broken, when she was preparing medicine for her son, she slapped herself and cried: "It's all my fault, if I found out that he had a fever earlier, I would have gone to the hospital as soon as possible, maybe I wouldn't have contracted this disease." ”

Qiao Nan was even more uncomfortable, holding the child in one hand and his wife in the other, and comforted: "It is normal for children to have hand, foot and mouth disease, what's wrong with you? Don't blame yourself anymore, hit me if you want to." ”

Fortunately, when the little commander was the most ill, Qiao Nan went home, and Wen Jing was relieved. That night, the little commander slept for a while, woke up for a while, and cried when he woke up. Qiao Nan was afraid of waking up his wife, so he walked back and forth in the study with his son in his arms, pointed to a map of China to show him, and told him: "Grandparents are here, aunts and aunts are here, and our family is here." ”

The little commander was very interested in geography, and although it was very uncomfortable, he still leaned on his father's shoulder and gradually stopped crying. Qiao Nan saw that this trick worked, so he pointed to the map and said: "Dad went to college here, and when he just graduated, he participated in the drill here and met his mother...... In 2010, I caught a lot of bad guys here......"

The little commander liked his father very much to point to the map and tell him stories, and when he was tired of listening, he fell asleep on his father. As soon as he put him down, he had to cry again, so Qiao Nan kept holding him. Although he had a lot of arm strength, he was also tired enough.

On that difficult night, he thought over and over again, fortunately he caught up, if only their mother and son were left at home, what would they do?

The feeling of guilt permeated my heart again, because I was so guilty that I didn't know what to say. When he left home, Wen Jing comforted him: "Our son is very strong, and he usually doesn't make much trouble, and the nanny says that he is very easy to bring." This is a special case, so don't take it too seriously. ”

"Wenwen, or I'll ......"

"If I choose to marry you, then I won't hold you back. Don't forget how much it hurts when your eye hurts

Bitter, so you don't have to discuss work with me, follow your heart, no matter what, I support you. ”

Qiao Nan thought that Miss Wen should cry and splash at him, should drag him out of the barracks by dragging his hair (although he shouldn't be able to pull him up), and should smash pots and bowls to scold and vent his dissatisfaction...... But she said she supported his choice.

can get such a wife, he saved the entire universe in his last life, right?

The first thing he did when he left home was that he called the nanny and discussed with the nanny to add another 2,000 yuan a month to let her be a live-in nanny, so that Wen Jing would be accompanied 24 hours a day. That Aunt Chen happily agreed, and she was also willing to continue working in such an owner.

Wen Jing was taken care of by a nanny as soon as she was born, except for the years when her father fled Southeast Asia. After returning to Beijing, there is still a special nanny to take care of her diet and daily life, so she is very familiar with various types of nannies. After being in contact with that "Chen Xian" (but Wen Jing is still used to calling her Aunt Chen) for half a month, Wen Jing knew that she didn't have to deliberately set up rules and serve the master's shelf, this Aunt Chen would take care of the little commander.

She made a few requests to the nannies, that is, not to watch TV, and not to play with mobile phones in front of the children, and these nannies did all of them. After working in Qiao's house for a month, one day she took the initiative to tell Wen Jing that she had beaten the little commander that day.

Wen Jing was taken aback, Aunt Chen tugged at the corner of her clothes, and said nervously: "I cut a piece of apple for him in the morning, and as soon as I turned around, he threw the plate away...... I reprimanded him twice, and he was still smiling at me, and I couldn't get angry, so I spanked him twice. ”

The little commander was still playing with toys heartlessly, and it seemed that those two strokes did not leave him any psychological shadow. When a child is disobedient, it is really annoying, and Wen Jing will be angry when she is forced to be anxious. When he was tortured by his son and had no choice, Qiao Nan would also say indignantly, how could I make such a thing as you.

Of course, as long as the son smiles, or shouts "Dad" sweetly, Qiao Nan will be overjoyed, glad to have given birth to such a "thing", or where to find such a cute child? As long as it is his own child, he can always be easily forgiven. But the nanny is not a parent, and no matter how good her temper is, sometimes she can't bear it.

Aunt Chen was afraid that Wen Jing would dismiss her, and explained: "The little boy is naughty, I don't blame him for this, but if you waste food, I'm in a hurry!"

"Wasting food, it really should be beaten!" Wen Jing took Aunt Chen's hand and said, "If I were at home, I would beat him too." Auntie, if he makes such a mistake again in the future, he should still be beaten. But he's still a little baby, and he's not sensible, so just spank him twice. ”

Aunt Chen was so moved that she wiped her tears and said anxiously: "How could I really beat him? He is so cute! I regret beating him, but if I don't beat him, I am afraid that he will not have a ......long memory."

Although Wen Jing is used to eating and drinking, her mother and grandfather are still very strict with her, so after she became a mother, she was also very strict with the little commander. According to his current level of cognition, Wen Jing doesn't have many requirements for him, but he can't waste food, he can't disrespect his elders, and if his son is really stubborn, she will also take action to educate him.

The nanny has been with her for a long time, knows her temperament, and sighs that she is a very measured mother. Qiao Nan felt that his wife was sometimes too strict, but Wen Jing said "a loving mother is a loser", so he didn't say anything.

Wen Jing is very compatible with the nanny, and if she lives at home, it will indeed save her a lot of effort. but

In this way, there is one more item of family expenses, and Qiao Nan has no military salary left every month.

When Wen Jing's income is good, she easily exceeds 10,000 yuan a month, but doing business is unstable, not to mention that she is still just starting. Qiao Nan's salary card has to repay the loan, take care of the family's expenses, pay the nanny's salary, and moonshine every month. But he insisted on letting the nanny live at home, he usually couldn't go out, and his parents couldn't help by his side, so if he could find a reliable nanny, then he should use it, and the money should be spent.

When Qiao Nan bought a house, he studied the map for a long time. In Wen Jing's opinion, he seems to be specifying a battle plan, how many troops to deploy at which alley, which high-rise building to arrange snipers, and which way to retreat safer...... After studying it, he said, "That's it!"

It turned out that he was calculating the distance to Lao Feng's house and Su Xue's house, as well as the distance to the nearest general hospital, in case Wen Jing encountered any emergency, Lao Feng and Su Xue could support them in the shortest possible time. For them at this stage, the hospital is the most needed public facility, so the distance to the hospital must be shortened as much as possible.

Qiao Nan's brain is still the same as before, running at a high speed all the time. Wen Jing said that he should engage in infrastructure construction, and the things created will definitely benefit the vast majority of people, and they can be used for a long time at a time.

In fact, Qiao Nan's decision was correct, Wen Jing did reach a certain degree of tacit understanding with Su Xue, the two military sisters-in-law often helped each other, and often complained about their husbands who couldn't go home. Under Qiao Nan's careful arrangement, Wen Jing had more and more time to work hard for her career, and at the end of 2014, they saved a sum of money, took out another loan, and bought the first car after marriage.

With a house and a car, and an improvement in her career, Wen Jing is floating, and she dares to discuss the topic of having a second child with her husband. Qiao Nan reasoned and refused: first, it was too dangerous to have a child last time, and he didn't want his wife to take risks; second, although their economic situation has improved, they still have a lot of loans on their backs, and their life is not easy; third, Qiao Nan can't take care of the family, and Wen Jing raises two children alone, which is too stressful.

Wen Jing listened to it and said, "It's so slippery, these words should have been prepared for a long time, right?"

"That's ready to report to the leader at any time!"

Wen Jing laughed and scolded him for being poor, but she still insisted on her opinion. It's not that she hasn't thought about what Qiao Nan said, but there are always more ways than difficulties. She even moved out of her late mother, saying that her mother had dreamed and hoped that she would have another child.

Qiao Nan laughed: "How is it possible? Even my mother can't bear to let you have a second one, let alone your own mother?"

The lie was exposed, Wen Jing was a little uncomfortable, she quarreled with her husband irritably, and said: "In my father's house before, I was the most helpless one. The two women and their respective sons were making a fuss, and they were deliberately making trouble for me, but in fact, the atmosphere in our house was very depressing. I deliberately made them uncomfortable, I wanted them to stop, but I also made up my mind that if I had my own home in the future, I would make the house lively, and the children would make a mess at home, and my husband and I would be busy happily, and that would be the real home. ”

Miss Wen didn't mention the past in the capital for a long time, Qiao Nan didn't speak for a long time with her arms on her pillow, and then she took her wife into her arms and said, "Then let's push back a few years and then have a second child, okay?"

"Why? Now young, good recovery after giving birth......"

"I'm probably going abroad this year, and I'm going to have a year and a half for training and a term. Qiao Nan didn't want to tell his wife so early, he said thoughtfully: "I have good English and experience, but I may not be sent there." But be prepared, too!"