Chapter 75: Helpless Parents

It's really amazing that a six- or seven-year-old child can have such a detailed observation ability and can still express it in his paintings.

Rob "tsk": "You draw so well." ”

The little boy was very happy when he heard this, "I like to draw!"

Rob nodded: "If you like to paint, you can draw more." ”

"But my mother wouldn't let me draw, she told me to count and let me memorize poems......"

Liang Yu looked at Rob, afraid that she would say something like "I want to reason with my mother and do what I love", but as a result, Rob said: "Then you hurry up and finish memorizing, hurry up and calculate your homework, or you will be able to draw!"

Liang Yu: "......" Why didn't she find out that her friend's logic was so peculiar before!

The little boy listened to Rob's words and nodded seriously, "Hmm!"

Liang Yu was complaining in his heart, and Rob's mobile phone suddenly rang.

Rob saw that it was Zhang Nan's call. "Ms. Zhang, how are you doing over there?"

Zhang Nan's tone was full of relief: "My husband is fine, but he is too emotional, his blood pressure is a little high, and we will be able to go back in a while." ”

Rob also breathed a sigh of relief when he heard this, "That's good, you guys pay attention to protection in the hospital, we're waiting for you to come back." ”

"My son he ...... Didn't make a fuss, did you?"

"No, he's pretty good!"

"That's good, I'm sorry for you, let's go back! Thank you so much for today's event!"

"You're welcome!"

Hung up the phone, Rob continued to exchange painting skills with the boy, and it didn't take long for Zhang Nan and his family to come back, and when he opened the door, he was a little stunned when he saw the scene in front of him, and said embarrassedly: "My son is not sensible, pestering you to play with him, right?"

Rob shook his head: "No, he is very sensible, he saw that we were bored here, so he took the initiative to play with us." ”

"Huh?"

Liang Yu on the side explained with a smile when he saw this: "It is indeed him who played with us." ”

Just look at the level of drawing to know who is playing with......

Rob held up the little boy's drawing and said, "You see, he is really talented in painting, much better than me!"

Zhang Nan shook his head helplessly: "If he can be so attentive to his studies, I won't have to worry about anything." Don't you know, I used to think that the sisters around me were hypocritical, and teaching children to do homework can be exaggerated like this? But since my son entered the school gate, I finally know that those jokes on the Internet are really merciful. ”

"Is it that serious?"

Hearing Rob ask, Zhang Nan's husband Xu Xingzhi said: "I didn't understand my wife before, but today I understand." Teaching children to write homework, only if you have experienced it yourself, you will know that those jokes on the Internet are not just jokes, there is no most collapse, only more collapse. Why are you sitting here, come in and I'll pour you water. ”

Rob said: "No need, it's inconvenient for us to walk back and forth, you still need to disinfect, we just sit here." ”

Zhang Nan felt embarrassed, but Rob repeatedly insisted that she would not force it, and said: "My son belongs to the typical kind of can't sit still, just from kindergarten to primary school, he is still in the fugue state of kindergarten. Other classmates sat obediently in the classroom, and he could run to the playground to play alone. Even if you are in class, your mind does not follow the teacher's pace. The teacher asked him why, and he was right: I don't want to go to class! When the teacher told me, I was so old that I almost spurted out a mouthful of blood. ”

Liang Yu laughed: "There is still this kind of operation?"

When I was a child, my parents were watching TV and I was doing my homework, but now when I come home from work, I am still doing my homework as a parent. ”

Zhang Nan didn't know what he had done wrong, and he had to help his children with homework.

Xu Xingzhi took the mineral water and gave it to Luo Bu and Liang Yu, and said, "Once, I saw one of our elementary school classmates in the army of parents of the first-grade freshmen of our child's school. When we met again after many years, we were actually in the group of parents who picked up their children, which was simply an accident and a surprise. I said that we haven't seen each other for so many years, and now we are actually reunited, it is really fate, let's go out to eat and chat together on Saturday. ”

"Unexpectedly, my classmate said that he was too busy on the weekend to have time to party. I asked you what are you busy with? He said he had to help the kids at home. To tell you the truth, I felt very complicated when I heard this, he didn't finish in the bottom five in every exam when he went to school, and he also tutored his children in their homework? This heart is big enough! Now that I think about it, I was forced to do nothing! I was too naΓ―ve!"

Rob listened to the helplessness in his tone, and mentally wondered how much you were really tortured by this pair of parents. "After two years, when the child is older, it should be fine. ”

Zhang Nan shook his head, as if he had no hope at all: "When I was in kindergarten, my father and I were busy with work, so I handed it over to his grandparents. The old man with children, the child is not so high, some good habits have not been formed, playful, homework procrastination, he will also grasp the old man's doting psychology, all kinds of conditions. ”

"I had agreed to go upstairs at 5 o'clock to do my homework, but at 5 o'clock, he would say that he would play for another 10 minutes, and after 10 minutes, he would ask for the last 5 minutes. Slowly, procrastination manifested itself especially in him. When the two of us came to take over in the first grade, we found that the problem was really tricky. ”

"I argued with his dad several times, and his dad was also concerned, analyzed his performance, and agreed that training his attention was the first step. Every day when we come home from school, we accompany him to do his homework, let him focus on his studies themselves, and remind him decisively when he shows signs of desertion. Of course, we will also agree on a reward and punishment policy in advance, and affirm his progress with small favors. ”

"In the beginning, when he was doing his homework, I sat next to him and put tangible pressure on him as a supervisor who didn't speak. When I wanted to be distracted, I looked up and saw that I was as steady as a clock, so I had to lower my head and continue to do my homework. With such a human flesh to write, his homework can usually be completed at eight or nine o'clock in the evening, and I can breathe a long sigh of relief. ”

"But it's not a long-term solution at all, we have to go to work during the day, and we are already tired at night, so I relaxed a little bit and he relaxed. Homework that can be done in two hours is usually done, and by almost ten o'clock, he is still there playing and doing. ”

"Every day, his dad is in charge of picking me up and dropping off from school, and when I get home, I grab a few bites of food, and it is the most exciting moment of the day when I am helping my son with his homework. Except for sleeping at night, the rest is working hours, either for the boss or for the son. ”