Eating and beer were sent back and forth several times by a clerk at a Korean fried chicken restaurant, and were successively delivered to the tables of Masayoshi Kishimoto and Nao Fujie.

Nao Fujie raised his beer glass and headed towards Masayoshi Kishimoto, and said with a smile, "Cheers." ”

Masayoshi Kishimoto also raised his beer glass and clinked glasses with her, and said with a smile: "Cheers"

The two of them looked up and drank in unison. In the cultural interaction between men and women in Japan, if a man and a woman drink like this alone, it means that there is more or less sexual innuendo.

If a boy is chasing a girl, it means that the girl is willing to officially become boyfriend and girlfriend with the other party and fall in love. If it is a relationship between a man and a woman, it has the meaning that a woman can sleep with each other.

Therefore, the BBC's documentary "The Shame of Japan" and the victim's own book "Black Box" by Shiori Ito, although they talk about some unsightly social dark sides, they deliberately avoid the unspoken rules of Japanese society that a Japanese woman should understand.

Shiori Ito's claim that she was raped has been questioned by some outsiders, and it is not unreasonable to say that she is using her color to seek a good job for a job transfer.

She revealed that she was raped by Keiyuki Yamaguchi, which does not mean that she is completely innocent. In any case, as a Japanese woman, she would not have understood what it meant for men and women to drink together alone.

Even if it is the most fair and objective point of view, being unfair to women does not mean that it is unreasonable. Japan is a patriarchal society, and it is only natural that men will enjoy more privileges.

The many privileges enjoyed by Japanese men are not the distorted ones of the "Chinese pastoral dogs", but they also shoulder their due responsibilities.

Nao Fujie put down her beer glass and said with emotion, "It's so happy." It's been a long time since I've had such a good drink. ”

Masayoshi Kishimoto held the beer glass in his right hand and said, "Not really!"

Fujie Nao leaned forward slightly towards her and said, "You didn't believe me. Although I drink almost every day, and the wine I drink is indeed much more advanced and expensive than the one we drink now, I don't know how much more expensive it is, but I really don't have the pleasure of drinking alone with you tonight.

As far back as I can remember, we used to have separate dates and we were all sitting down and eating ramen. It's the first time we've been alone together on a drinking date like this. ”

Masayoshi Kishimoto slowly put down the beer glass and said, "That's right. It is not difficult to be rich for a while, but it is difficult to be rich for a lifetime. Otherwise, it will become money earned by luck and exported by strength. ”

"I have no doubt that you will be rich for the rest of your life, and you will still get richer and richer. Fujie Nao said with a smile.

"Why do you women like to take things for others? Men don't have to be rich to be masculine. Kishimoto said bluntly.

"Because you're not a woman, you don't really understand how difficult it is for women to be in society. Especially those vulnerable women. Nao Fujie put his right palm in front of his mouth and laughed, "If a man is rich and in good health, then it will be better." ”

Looking at her like this, Masayoshi Kishimoto couldn't help but think of a Korean feminist "Kim Ji-young Born in 82", which was later made into a movie of the same name.

It is said that women see tears and empathy one by one, while as a man, they see all kinds of discomfort, and they only feel that women are too hypocritical.

The feminism and film of "Kim Ji-young Born in 82" played a role in seriously dividing Korean society in later generations. Not only Korean men, but also some Korean women have made all kinds of curses about it.

As a result, in addition to the collective boycott of Korean men, there was also a remake of "Park Zhengtai born in 82" and other rivalries.

It is not easy for men to not only serve in the military, but also to shoulder the financial burden of a family.

Men don't have a house, women don't marry. Even if you buy a house, you still have to bear the pressure of repaying the mortgage for 20 or 30 years. Again, it all fell on the man.

When dating a woman, if you take the initiative to propose the AA system, you will inevitably be disliked by women in various ways, and you will be considered stingy, useless, and not responsible, and you are not a man at all......

In many ways, Korean women and Chinese women are really too similar. Even if they are also deeply influenced by Confucian culture, Japanese women are really different from Chinese women and Korean women.

Japanese men and women date together, and the AA system is normal. Of course, if a Japanese man takes the initiative to bear all the costs of dating, he will naturally win a lot of favor and bonus points from women.

Even if a man takes the initiative to propose the AA system, Japanese women will not feel anything. Therefore, the reputation of Japanese women for their gentleness and kindness will spread far and wide.

In fact, even if a Japanese woman accepts the AA system in dating between men and women, it does not mean that she is virtuous. The vast majority of Japanese women are still uncompromising on men's annual earnings and specific jobs.

In terms of mate selection, it is necessary for men to earn at least 4 million yen per year, and it is best to work as a full-time employee of a major company, a civil servant in a government department, and so on.

In Tokyo, the average man in his twenties and thirties in Japan earns 210,000 yen a month before taxes, and the tax is just over 190,000 yen.

Even if you add two and a half months of bonus, it is generally an extra 2 or 3 months of basic salary, and it will not exceed 3 million yen.

What is the real concept of 4 million yen in Japan? The company where an ordinary Japanese man works does not go bankrupt or go bankrupt, and the efficiency is okay, and the system of seniority is practiced, and it looks like he has worked until he is forty or fifty years old.

Japanese men in their forties and fifties who can get 6 million yen are generally regular employees of some big companies or government officials.

Minami Takahashi, the chief superintendent of AKB48, once officially said that the requirement for the other half is that the other half is under 40 years old and has an annual income of 8 million yen or more.

When she said this, she was in her twenties. At first glance, it doesn't seem like much. In fact, an annual income of 8 million yen or 10 million yen is the watershed that separates the average person from the elite in Japanese society.

In later generations, there are really "too many" people who earn millions of yuan a year at every turn in Chinese society. In contrast, the Chinese earn much less overall than the Japanese.

Even if the exchange rate is used, the yen corresponding to one million yuan must be about 16 million yen. In Tokyo, Japan, people who can get this annual income are not ordinary people.

The male protagonist in "Tokyo Men's Illustrated Guide", Japan's first-class trading company, an elite veteran employee in his thirties and forties only got an annual income of 12 million yen, and has become the object of covetment of many women.