Chapter 490: Heart's Voice
The reason why Kishimoto likes to come to such a place is that he can get the real voice of ordinary salarymen up close and first-hand.
What is real life? It's not like giving you a slap in the face, and then there's going to be a candy to eat, or a rub to rub you.
In real life, for ordinary people, many times it will be after being beaten with a stick, and before you have recovered your nerves, you will be given a mallet again. That is what people often say, the house leak happened to rain overnight.
All of this will be of great benefit to Kishimoto in managing his subordinates in the future, as it will allow him to develop a lower-middle-class perspective. An outstanding manager is one of the qualities that must be possessed.
After drinking some wine, Masayoshi Kishimoto sighed with a lot of emotion: "Although women are the most troublesome creatures in the world, sometimes, men really can't do without them.
If your ex-girlfriend is willing to be your lover, you should treat her well! Not to mention that you are not without a little affection for her. ”
"What if she doesn't want to?" Miyazaki asked directly.
"Then you will marry her. Masayoshi Kishimoto blurted out directly without even passing his own brain.
"Boss, it's easy to say, but it's hard to do. There are two issues that need to be addressed. For one, she may not be my first choice as my wife in the future. Second, is she really willing to marry me?" said Miyazaki slowly, drinking.
"Are you not confident in yourself? or are you not seeing your ex-first girlfriend clearly. What is a woman? If a man has no money and no career, she will often dislike you for not having the ability and not being able to make money.
The words they hear the most from their mouths are probably someone else's husband, or someone else's boyfriend. As for you alone...... She was blinded by lard in the first place to fall for you.
When men have money and careers, they will be suspicious all day long, always worried that you will have an affair outside behind her back, or cheat. Masayoshi Kishimoto said with a bean in his hand.
"Yes, it's really hard to be a man. Miyazaki Ryui said with feelings.
"Women get together and like to babble about the men's wrongs, and how great they are, and how they have made sacrifices of one kind or another.
However, how many of them are one who earns money outside to support the family? They are generally the breadwinners of the family, and if something happens to the man, the whole family basically collapses.
There will be a sharp decline in family income, resulting in family life gradually falling into difficulties. Who let the burden of providing for the family fall on the shoulders of men?
People who have never really worked outside will never understand how difficult it is to make money. Ordinary office workers were scolded by their bosses and customers, and they didn't dare to say anything.
Have the women at home ever thought about the difficulty of their own men? There is also the fact that every day they squeeze the bus and subway, and the whole person is like a sardine in a can, and the taste is so uncomfortable.
Overtime is always one of the lives that salaried people have to face. Did they ever sympathize with the hardships of the men, who always complained to us as weak, victims.
Otherwise, we women are required to do it, so what do you men do? Or it's a double standard, and if it's good for them, don't squeak.
On the negative side of women, they shout for equal rights for men and women. Dating AA system, women will find men stingy. Without a good job, women will feel that men have no future.
Without a house, women will still feel that they are insecure and men are incapable. Men who can't get a promotion and a salary increase will also think that you have no future at all. Masayoshi Kishimoto put himself in the shoes of a man and spoke for him.
Miyazaki Ryuai opened his eyes and stared at him, his face full of incredulity. He felt that the person sitting across from him was not the boss, but a man who had experienced the vicissitudes of life.
Masayoshi Kishimoto saw his surprised expression and said, "Did you think I was drunk?"
"No, no. Boss, I never expected you to say such a deep understanding of life. Even I sighed to myself. Miyazaki said seriously.
"You don't have to experience everything to have a deep experience. Another way to get this is to listen and think about the personal experiences of others by carefully observing.
In this way, you can enrich your own experience, so that your personal experience is no longer so single. Other people's difficulties are often just not what you don't know.
Why do these people come here to drink and decompress after work? It's not all due to the stress of real life and work. Kishimoto looked sideways at the others in the izakaya and said calmly.
"It's not just them who have the pressure to live and work, but we also have the pressure in these areas, even more so than theirs. Miyazaki said with emotion.
"That's right. Instead of frowning, Kishimoto smiled.
"After people's hard work, there is a certain reward, and there are not so many negative emotions. The problem is that people often don't get the rewards they expect after working hard.
If you don't get such a reward, you have to continue day after day, year after year, until the end of your life.
What is the purpose of this life?" Miyazaki Tatsui unconsciously began to introduce the topic into a certain philosophical category.
"To eat and drink. Kishimoto nodded with his right index finger on their table and said with a light smile.
Then, Miyazaki Ryuai also laughed and said, "That's true. ”
As soon as he finished speaking, he raised his glass. The two of them are a pair of drinks. After they had drunk, they put their cups back on the table.
"The two of us are so much like men who are unhappy and complaining in life and work. Miyazaki Ryui couldn't help but laugh.
"This is the most real life of ordinary people. If you deprive them of even this one outlet for venting, they will inevitably die of depression.
So, the depressing side of Japan is in broad daylight. Once it's night, Japan is a place where you can vent and de-stress everywhere.
In addition to drinking to relieve stress and vent, you can also go to a custom shop, play baseball...... History has proven countless times that channeling is better than blocking. Kishimoto said slowly.
"I remember a foreigner once said that the Japanese are exactly two people and two faces during the day and at night. Miyazaki nodded in response.