Chapter 208: Home

"Since you like fruit so much, why don't you eat my fruit assortment with me?"

"I'm really reluctant to spend money on fruit to eat. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have bought it! Natsui Makoto replied bluntly.

"You said that the fruit here is like you don't want money. For the same quality of fruit, it will be more expensive here than if you buy it back home. Kishimoto said with a smile.

Natsui Makoto naturally knows that this is a simple truth. However, there will be a different effect psychologically, just like the difference in perception between paying cash and swiping a card.

She was not polite, and took his share in front of her with one hand and started eating. It is precisely because she knows that the other party is not lacking that she will behave like this.

I was born as a bitter child, and I have lacked everything since I was a child. She is the one who grew up in an environment of material scarcity.

Masayoshi Kishimoto looked at her current happy and intoxicated appearance, and knew that she would not take the initiative to buy fruit for herself to eat on weekdays, just as she said.

The fruit stored in the refrigerator was also taken out by him when he came, so she would take it out and use it. Otherwise, Natsui Makoto should not have such a performance.

Her reaction is like that of many of China's post-80s ancestors, even if they have money, they are reluctant to spend more, and still maintain a simple lifestyle. They are really hungry people, and what is ingrained in their bones is that spending money indiscriminately is equivalent to sinning, and there will be a sense of guilt in their hearts.

"After you're done, shall we go out for a walk, take a turn, and have a look, or will we just start soaking in the hot springs?" said Kishimoto as he put the choice in her hands.

"Tell me honestly, are you trying to do anything bad to me again?" Natsui Makoto blurted out when she looked at him.

"Am I that kind of person? After soaking in the hot springs and eating kaiseki cuisine, it is a rare pleasure in life. You're thinking like this, I'm afraid you want to do something shameful to me!" While Kishimoto Masayoshi resolutely refused to admit it, a Zhu Bajie played a nail rake and hit a nail rake.

Makoto Natsui didn't speak and continued to eat fruit. In Japan, mixed bathing was considered normal, and that was before the Meiji Restoration.

After the Meiji Restoration in Japan, the Japanese gradually accepted Western ideas, and then began to feel that the custom of mixed bathing between men and women was very barbaric and backward.

As a result, the government issued a series of explicit regulations to reverse this bad tradition of the people, and since then there have been separate men's and women's baths, and it is strictly forbidden for men and women to bathe together.

Mixed bathing between couples, husbands and wives, and family members is a different matter. A mixed bath between family members is called a parent-child bath.

As for mixed bathing between couples and couples, there are in any country and nation in the world. In China, it is called the Mandarin Duck Bath.

Masayoshi Kishimoto took the initiative to stand up and go to another room to change into bathing clothes. The biggest difference between yukata and kimono is that the former is not as cumbersome and gorgeous to wear as the latter.

In fact, yukata is a simplified version of kimono, which belongs to everyday wear. The yukata is easy and light to put on, and even if you take it off, it is convenient.

Kimono is a formal dress used by the Japanese for formal occasions, and it is troublesome to put on and take off. If you don't do a certain amount of necessary learning and help from others, you will either not be able to wear it, or you will dress indeformably.

A standard traditional Japanese kimono that has a lot of pieces to wear at the same time. In addition to that, there are a bunch of side goods.

After Kishimoto got dressed, he walked out. He raised his arms, turned in a circle and showed them to Natsui Makoto, and said happily, "How is it, not bad?"

Natsui Makoto put his right palm in front of his mouth and sneered, "Stinky beauty." ”

"You women always like duplicity. For example, you want to, but you have to say no. Masayoshi Kishimoto lowered his arms and laughed.

"If we women express our intentions directly, you men will count us for not being reserved enough and too casual. Natsui retorted.

Some people find it troublesome to fall in love, so they simply don't fall in love because of this. "Kishimoto is not in a hurry or slow.

"It's hard to guess our minds, as if you could guess your minds. Natsui Makoto pouted.

Masayoshi Kishimoto sat cross-legged on the tatami mat again, drooped his head and said, "Let me ask you a question, why do Japanese women also like to have a house for their marriage partners?"

Foreigners who don't know the situation in Japan still think that you don't want a house, and only Chinese women and Korean women are so obsessed with it. ”

"You're just generalizing. Although I admit that it is the reality of Japan, most girls also have house requirements for their marriage partners, but there are exceptions to everything.

For example, me. In the first place, I didn't have a formal relationship with you because you had a house. Actually, I think girls who want a house also have their practical reasons.

Rent in Tokyo is so expensive, and without your own house, you always feel insecure. Since they are married, they plan to spend their lives together.

In the future, it will be easy to raise children if you have children. Even girls who don't have requirements for the house will be unwilling to make concessions to the other half in terms of economic strength.

Raising children is a hassle, and if parents are willing to help, that's the best. Parents are reluctant to help, and it basically falls on the housewife alone.

Without the stable support of the family's economy, how can I get by? I know the hardship of not having money best. Natsui Makoto analyzed from a woman's point of view.

Kishimoto knows that although Japanese parents do not have a high proportion of their children to bring about the next generation like Chinese parents, there are many people who will help. As long as their children open their mouths, they are willing to lend a hand. Not only to contribute, but also to contribute.

He couldn't help but think of the Japanese drama "Home on the Ramp" with a Douban score of 9.1 points. Although it is only a short six episodes, it reflects how difficult it is for women to take care of children, as well as the various contradictions caused by the family's economic pressure.

"It seems that you women want a low-risk marriage. Of course, Kishimoto knows that love is built on bread, and marriage is even more so.

"Divorce is not a good thing after all. People generally yearn for holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son. "Natsui Makoto is serious.

Kishimoto fully agrees with her. The fact that the marriage rate in Japan is declining year by year is not due to the fact that the domestic economy has put too much pressure on young people.

Many of them are afraid to fall in love, get married, have children, or even die (they can't afford to die), after all, the price of cemeteries is rising year by year.

Japan is a country where ordinary people are unemployed, and it is difficult for them to survive. Women earn only half or even a third of what men earn. As a result, the poverty rate is much higher for women than for men.

He naturally thought that the reason why the birth rate in China's three eastern provinces was lower than that of Japan and South Korea was not due to economic pressure.