Chapter 65: Love Is Not Controlling and Taking
Gu Hao didn't reply to the WeChat phone call, and made it clear that he was determined not to look back. After Jiangbian's parents found out, they also blamed Jiangbian for not getting a hasty divorce, although Gu Hao had such a thing, but the rumors and rumors will always pass, and if it hurts people's hearts, it can no longer be repaired.
Jiangbian also knew that he was too deeply hurt by Gu Hao at that time, and he shouldn't have wanted to break off his relationship with Gu Hao in the first place.
There was a roaring sound from the riverside next door, Sheng Chen sighed, the mood swings of the riverside in the past few days are too great, and she is always angry at people inexplicably, she just finished talking about a customer, and she came to the office by the river when she was temporarily free.
Jiangbian's anger did not subside: "Sheng Chen, you quickly fired Zhao Song, you are too ignorant, your ability is too poor, you don't have any eyesight, and none of the things you explain are done well, hurry up, I'm annoyed when I look at him." β
Zhao Song is a newly recruited college student, and he is indeed a little clumsy, but the young man is honest and diligent, down-to-earth and hardworking, and over time, he must be a rare talent, and Sheng Chen is reluctant to be fired. Don't look at the countless college students who graduate every year, but it is difficult to choose the talent who is truly satisfied.
Now the riverside is just looking for trouble, if it is up to her temperament, the company will be empty in three days.
Sheng Chen made a cup of coffee and handed it to Jiangbian: "Drink something, don't be angry, what haven't you experienced?" and was so excited, too naΓ―ve." β
Jiangbian took the coffee and sighed: "Why is Gu Hao so ruthless? I was angry at the time, he gave in and begged for mercy, maybe I was angry, why did he agree to come down? You say, did he want to divorce for a long time?"
Sheng Chen didn't know what to say, so after thinking for a while, he still said honestly: "Actually, you know in your heart what the reason for this matter is, over the years, it was you who bullied Gu Hao too hard, and he was ignited by you at the critical point." β
"Is there really no way to get it back?" Jiang Bian grabbed Sheng Chen's arm, "You say, how can I make him change his mind? Yes, I dragged it and didn't get the certificate, see what he could do, if he didn't get the certificate, he would still be a husband and wife in law, if he messed around outside, it would be cheating, and he would have to go out." β
"What if he wasn't even afraid to go out cleanly?" Sheng Chen was a bystander, and it was she who knew Gu Hao's true thoughts from Fang Shanmu's mouth, "Now that the divorce agreement has been signed, it is equivalent to having completed the prerequisites for divorce, and obtaining the certificate is only the last step of the procedure." You have to recognize the agreement, and it is also legally valid. So strictly speaking, if Gu Hao is in love now, even if he goes to court, the court may not find that he cheated in marriage. β
"I don't care, I'm going to drag him to death anyway, I can't make him feel better. Jiang Bian slapped the table angrily, "Sheng Chen, your family Fang Shanmu definitely didn't have any good ideas, if it weren't for his support, he wouldn't dare to divorce me with 100 guts from Gu Hao." You and he are gone, you deserve him!"
Sheng Chen was slightly bored in her heart, and Jiangbian's pampered personality has not converged for so many years, indicating that she still encounters fewer setbacks. She also knew that it was not good to hide the truth, but Fang Shanmu said, don't tell anyone the truth that they are just fake divorces, anyone, including Jiangbian.
Sheng Chen and Fang Shanmu's so-called divorce did not have a divorce agreement, let alone a certificate, but the two announced their divorce in a unified voice. At the beginning, Sheng Chen couldn't understand what Fang Shanmu was doing, why did he want to learn from Zhou Xiao, no, they were different from Zhou Xiao in that Zhou Xiao was a hidden divorce, they were pretending to be divorced.
Later, she figured it out again, Fang Shanmu did this, firstly, to relieve the pressure from the outside world, in the surging doubts and abuses from the outside world, he didn't want the dirty water to affect her, he was out of the starting point of protecting her and her family. The second is to confuse the opponent and make the opponent think that his conspiracy has succeeded, and in one fell swoop, the families of Gu Hao and Fang Shanmu will be broken. The third is also to appease the riverside, after satisfying the first two points, if it can still play a role in making the riverside psychologically balanced a little, it can be regarded as an unexpected gain.
"Jiangbian, you really don't want to be like this anymore, the work still has to be carried out, and life has to go on, why do you have to hold on to the past?" Sheng Chen said bitterly, half of Jiangbian's unwillingness comes from reluctance, half from anger, in the final analysis, it is still grievances and anger, if there are always grievances and anger in love, it means that love is not pure, and there are too many social attributes attached.
"I don't want Gu Hao to beg me, crying bitterly in front of me, begging me to forgive him......"
"If he did, would you really forgive him?"
"I don't know. Jiang Bian was in a state of confusion and stood up, "Sheng Chen, what do you think I should do next?"
"Work with 80% of your energy to build a great company that succeeds. Then spend 20% of your time living with your heart, and if you meet the right person, talk about a gentle love again, that's all. Sheng Chen patted Jiangbian's shoulder gently, "It's time for you to let go of Gu Hao and let yourself go, even if he changes his mind, even if you forgive him, the rift between you that once divorced will always exist, and you will often think of his unreliability and everything he has done, as well as the things in the rumor-mongering article......"
"It's not a rumor-mongering article, it's the truth!" Jiang Bian was angry again, "Sheng Chen, do you think that Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao have done nothing? You have been deceived, they must have done everything." They divorced us so quickly because they felt weak and guilty. β
Sheng Chen got angry: "I believe that Shan Mu is not that kind of person, I ...... with him Divorce, not because of that article. Jiangbian, I hope you don't make irresponsible comments about our family's affairs in the future, because you don't know what kind of experience I have with Fang Shanmu!"
"......" Jiangbian looked directly at Sheng Chen for a long time, and suddenly slapped the table, "Okay, you all go, you all squeeze out me and dislike me!"
Sheng Chen turned around and left, walked to the door and stood again. It was easy for her to leave, but it was difficult to persuade Jiangbian to let Jiangbian untie the knot. Escaping is something that everyone can do, but solving problems is something that only a few people can do. Now she is no longer angry and complaining when she encounters trouble like before, but she has to face it calmly and do everything she can to solve it.
"There is a big customer who wants to come to the company at noon, and we will have lunch with him at that time. I'll introduce you to him, he might bring business to the company, and there will be unexpected surprises. Sheng Chen calmed down and took a few deep breaths.
Jiang Bian was stunned, she thought that Sheng Chen was angry with her again, but she didn't expect Sheng Chen to regain her composure so quickly, she was slightly stunned: "Who is it?"
"Monville. β
Jiangbian has seen Meng Wei a few times, and she has a good impression of Meng Wei, and she has also privately said to Sheng Chen that Meng Wei is the type of man she admires more, she was stunned for a moment, and the anger in her heart was extinguished a lot: "Okay, let's eat together." β
Sheng Chen smiled secretly, and his mood suddenly felt much more relaxed. Back in his office, he searched for Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao on the Internet, and found that there were still many web pages that kept their scandal articles. She clicked on one casually, and found that the comments below were unsightly, abusive, attacking, ridiculing and even cursing, she was angry and quickly closed the page.
Why are there always so many keyboard warriors on the Internet, who don't know anything but think they know everything? The three stages of life, I don't know I don't know, I know I don't know, I know I know, most people keyboard warriors and melon-eating people stay in the primary stage of not knowing what they don't know all their lives, their common characteristics are that they are dissatisfied with everything, hate the rich and hateful everything, and believe that behind any event is a conspiracy.
Conspiracy theories allow the uninformed crowd to fully satisfy their ignorance and panic.
Sheng Chen opened the forum of the growth game again, and saw that the comments in it were relatively pertinent, and the message of a player named Drifter made her sigh for a while.
"The founder of such a meaningful, positive and positive game with a positive guiding effect, I don't believe in the accusations of his character and private life on the Internet. A person's character is linked to his works, and the three views will be projected into the work, from the growth game, what we see is inspirational, is to make up for regrets, is to think about life, rather than obscenity, omnipotent plug-in and the spirit of the king exudes invincible dog blood. It shows that Mr. Fang Shanmu is a sensible, thoughtful and responsible person for life, and I don't think the article about his personal style and life is credible and a rumor. I don't know Fang Shanmu, and I don't have any interests with Infinite Love, I'm just an ordinary gamer, out of love for growth games, and I don't want growth games to die under the blows of some saboteurs with ulterior motives. β
"I also hope that Mr. Fang Shanmu's wife and family will not be affected by some specious articles. A person who does things seriously and makes products with both business acumen and feelings will not be a person who has no bottom line and is irresponsible. From the growth game, I saw the care of infinite care for the society, so in the same way, Mr. Fang Shanmu must also be a person who is responsible for the family. The sense of responsibility is inseparable, and it is impossible for a person with a strong sense of social responsibility to not take responsibility for the people closest to him!"
Sheng Chen's eyes moistened when she looked at it, she didn't know enough about Fang Shanmu before, it was better for an outsider to be able to understand Fang Shanmu's psychological process just through a growth game! Could it really be that the two people were too close, but it would affect the judgment because the light was dark? The more she thought about it, the more she felt that she was too wrong, and her distrust of him was the root of the contradiction between them, she picked up her mobile phone and sent a voice to Fang Shanmu with tears in her eyes.
"Yamaki, I'm sorry, there were many things I did wrong before, and I shouldn't have suspected that you didn't trust you. Now I solemnly apologize to you, and I hope you can understand that all the doubts and distrust of you are not because they really don't believe in you, but because of too much love. Now I understand a truth, love is not control and demand, but acceptance and respect! I hope that in the years to come, we can all become companions on each other's growth path, share weal and woe, and stand together through thick and thin!"
As soon as the message was sent, almost at the same time, I received Fang Shanmu's WeChat.
It should be a WeChat sent by two people at the same time.
What Fang Shanmu sent was text.
"Sheng Chen, in fact, to today's situation, both of us have problems, okay, I admit that the root of the problem is first of all in me, I shouldn't have excluded you from work, only give you 40% of your life, as a husband and wife, it should be at least 80% shared. As a man, you should be generous and apologize to you first. But you also have to admit your mistakes to me, and you shouldn't suspect that I don't trust me. Hopefully, starting today, we will start anew, get to know each other again, reconcile with the world again, and start a new journey. β
As soon as Sheng Chen finished reading the text message, Fang Shanmu's phone call came in.
"Your message was sent one second earlier than mine, so you admit your mistake to me first. Fang Shanmu's voice revealed a little excitement and happiness.
"A big man, thinking about these small details, really makes a difference to you. Sheng Chen also smiled happily.
"Equality between men and women, all theories that men should give way to women, are pseudo-feminism. Fang Shanmu laughed, "Sheng Chen, the next step is about to enter the decisive game, maintain concentration, stabilize the morale of the army, defeat the opponent in one fell swoop, and win the final comprehensive victory." β
"I'm for you, is there anything I need to do?"
"Yes, help me arrange for another person to your company. β
"Who?"
"Hu Pan!"