Afterwards, Fang Shanmu did not ask about the matter, and Sun Xiaozhao tacitly did not mention it. In the workplace, the scene is true or false, with Fang Shanmu's old spicy and Sun Xiaozhao's cleverness, both of them tacitly know that it is just for work. Outside of work, the two have basically no personal contact.

That is, after the singing incident, Fang Shanmu guessed that Sun Xiaozhao had someone in his heart. But Sun Xiaozhao has always claimed to be single, and he does not refuse to welcome the pursuit of many of his peers, and he is very Buddhist and indifferent to every suitor, neither rejecting people thousands of miles away, nor enthusiastic and active, and always maintaining a lonely but not self-appreciative attitude.

Sun Xiaozhao is nicknamed Snow Lotus in the company, which is both high and sacrosanct, and not as unattainable as the moon. But the road to the snow lotus is rugged and long, and there are many dangerous sections in between, and many people say that the cost and price of picking the snow lotus is too expensive, and it is enough to admire it from afar, and it is not necessary to get it. Not to mention that it is possible to fail after spending a lot of effort, even if you get it, it is not cost-effective compared to everything you give.

Men nowadays are much more realistic, unlike before when they could love a girl like crazy, now they will calculate the sunk cost and time cost. You are the moon, and the man absolutely just appreciates and does not act on it, because he knows very well that he can't catch it. You are a flower at your fingertips, and he won't reach out to pick it, because it's too easy and there is no sense of accomplishment. You are the Tianshan Snow Lotus, and most men will also be discouraged because the giving is disproportionate to the gain.

Only the distance between the near and far ends of the world is the space that men are most willing to pursue and willing to try.

Gu Hao saw the interaction and tacit understanding between Fang Shanmu and Sun Xiaozhao, and chuckled: "Day by day, there are quite a lot of little secrets." Okay, you can when I don't exist, please continue your common memories. ”

Sun Xiaozhao wiped away a handful of tears and turned the wine glass in his hand: "Mr. Gu, if you go to the movies and find that the movie is not good, what will you choose?

"Test me?" Gu Hao smiled proudly, "In life, there are sunk cost traps everywhere, for me, whether to go or stay, there are two factors to decide, first, if I watch the movie by myself, I will leave decisively." Second, if I accompany someone to watch it, and they think it looks good, I will also accompany her to see it. ”

"There should be a third ......" Fang Shanmu deliberately teased Gu Hao, "You watch the movie by yourself and find that there is a beautiful woman next to you, no matter how ugly the movie is, you will stick to it to the end." ”

"Old Fang!" Gu Hao suddenly became annoyed, and his voice raised an octave, "You don't know me too well, if there is a beautiful woman next to you, and it is a person, I will strike up a conversation." If the conversation fails, leave. I'm not going to sit for two hours with a beautiful woman who has no chance of intersecting with me, even if she's as beautiful as a fairy, what do I have to do?"

"Pragmatist, kudos to you. Fang Shanmu sacrificed Gu Hao to ease the atmosphere, if he guessed correctly, Sun Xiaozhao should have encountered emotional trouble. Originally, he asked Sun Xiaozhao to dinner to understand the truth behind the acquisition of Huatuan Technology from the side, and he didn't want to be disrupted by Sun Xiaozhao as soon as he came up.

"Xiaozhao, I didn't hear that you have a boyfriend, why did you suddenly fall out of love?" Fang Shanmu handed over another tissue, "At your current age, it is easy to fall into emotional misunderstandings, and you will be caught in a sunk cost dilemma, let's say, what troubles did you encounter that you can't face alone?"

"I left the company. Sun Xiaozhao took the tissue, tears welled up again, she didn't wipe it, let the two tear stains flow along her cheeks, she bit her lip, "I just went through the resignation procedures three days ago." ”

Gu Hao was extremely shocked: "Didn't I hear that you are going to be promoted to director, and you are expected to become the youngest director in the company's history, why did you leave?" You young people in the 90s are really incomprehensible, not active in work, no motivation in love, no courage to start a business, just want to stay at home, too sad." ”

"Don't talk nonsense if you don't know about our 90 young people, Mr. Gu, your thoughts are just your personal biases. Sun Xiaozhao knocked Gu Hao lightly, "My resignation is my personal matter, and it does not represent the young people of the 90s." ”

"Okay, you are young and reasonable, let's say, why do you want to leave?" Gu Hao quietly glanced at Fang Shanmu, seeing that Fang Shanmu was also surprised, knowing that Fang Shanmu was the same as him, he also knew about Sun Xiaozhao's resignation, and couldn't help but balance a little in his heart.

"Because of Zhou Xiao!" Sun Xiaozhao said almost through gritted teeth, his eyes angry and desperate, "He is an authentic scumbag!"

"Smack!" Gu Hao's chopsticks fell on the table, and his mouth opened wide, "No, isn't it?"

Fang Shanmu also heard the rich information hidden in Sun Xiaozhao's words, and he was also shocked and didn't know why, isn't it, Sun Xiaozhao has always regarded himself as single, and it will be Zhou Xiao behind him...... He couldn't believe it: "Zhou Xiao is not bad, at least during the period of working with me, whether it is a business or a private matter, he can basically be fair and just, and the company respects him very much, how could he cheat on you?"

Fang Shanmu asked directly, and Sun Xiaozhao replied simply: "He is not cheating, he and I have a normal relationship, he is single! I will never meddle in other people's families, and I can't break through the issue of principle." ”

"Single?" Gu Hao slapped the table and laughed, "The funniest joke this year, Sun Xiaozhao, I'll give you full marks." If Zhou Xiao is single, I will be an innocent teenager. ”

"He is indeed single, no joke, his marriage with Yang Mei has long ended, and they have been divorced for more than three years. Sun Xiaozhao took a big sip of wine, looking both painful and happy, "It was his hidden divorce that made me fall into his charm unconsciously, and I couldn't extricate myself when I found out." ”

"Divorced and still pretending to be together, window marriage?" Gu Hao's jaw was about to fall to the ground, "I've known him for so many years, but I didn't know that he had already divorced, no wonder he has been refusing to take Yang Mei out, it turns out that there is something behind it." Zhou Xiao is too hidden, he is simply an actor. His marriage to Yang Mei can be regarded as the sixth type of marriage, right?"

Fang Shanmu nodded in agreement: "The five types of marriage we used to talk about are no longer suitable for the development needs of the times, at least three more types of marriage must be added." ”

The five common types of marriage are habitually conflicting, losing vitality, negatively pandering, energetic, and holistic.

Marriage is a kind of torture and consumption, but in the torture and consumption, the husband and wife are constantly growing and maturing.

The loss of vitality type is emotional numbness, and the marriage exists in name only, but it can be maintained, which is due to habit and family affection.

Negative pandering is a shell marriage, which is a kind of marriage of interest and has to be together because of inertia, children, common life and economic considerations.

The energetic type is a relatively perfect marriage full of emotional colors, in which the husband and wife are in love with each other, cooperate tacitly, and each seriously assume the responsibilities and obligations of the marriage.

A holistic marriage is similar to a dynamic marriage, but with richer connotations, the husband and wife are not only emotionally close, but also have the same pace in their careers.

Once upon a time, Fang Shanmu and Sheng Chen's marriage was a vibrant type, not only did it not evolve into a holistic type, but now it has degenerated into a lifeless type. Fortunately, it hasn't completely become a passive pandering type.

In Fang Shanmu's view, the marriage between Gu Hao and Jiangbian belongs to the habitual conflict type, although on the surface Jiangbian is strong and domineering, scolding Gu Hao and Gu Hao does not dare to fight back, but in fact, Gu Hao has been secretly resisting, the conflict between the two is not on the surface, but behind the scenes, he thinks that it should still be classified as a conflict-type marriage.

Zhou Xiao's marriage is not one of the above five categories, his marriage has been dissolved, but it is still maintained on the surface, and Yang Mei also cooperates with him, obviously the two parties still have common interests to maintain the illusion of marriage, just like a model displayed in the window for people to see, so it is called a window marriage.

However, now is not the time to discuss a new type of husband and wife relationship, Fang Shanmu nodded at Sun Xiaozhao: "You can almost guess the beginning of your story with him, you are a person with strong principles, and not interfering in other people's marriages is your bottom line, and you can't break through, so you have no defense in your relationship with Zhou Xiao, because he is a married man." You never thought about what to do with him, and since he's a superior, you don't have a defense against him. Of course, it also has something to do with his decency, if you change Gu Hao, you will stay away......"

"Can you do it? I'm a stepping stone every time, right?" Gu Hao couldn't help but laugh.

Fang Shanmu ignored him and continued: "In daily contact, you are slowly attracted to him and have a good impression and liking for him, but you will also tell and remind yourself again and again that your good impression and liking of him is just a normal feeling between colleagues, not the relationship between men and women. You have never had the slightest idea of crossing the line with him, you have been hypnotized by yourself, you have been led off the rhythm by yourself, and even after you really find out that you like him, you will deny it, insisting that you only have a good impression and admiration for him. ”

Sun Xiaozhao was overwhelmed by alcohol, and she was a little drunk, she gave Fang Shanmu a thumbs up: "Mr. Fang's demeanor has not diminished back then, and he still has the company's most prestigious love style." ”

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