Chapter Twenty-Three: Start by Changing Yourself (Ask for Collections and Recommendations!)

Fang Shanmu cast an approving glance at Cheng Peng: "Hu Pan, whether it is at work or in life, you will meet people you don't like but have to socialize, if you don't like it, you won't cooperate, it's a sign of naivety and immaturity." Sometimes you can distinguish between distant and close relatives, and some people can only be friends and not talk about cooperation. Some people only talk about cooperation and don't make friends. Some people can be friends and partner in a career. As long as you position yourself clearly and draw a line, you're good to go. ”

Hu Pan nodded thoughtfully: "Okay, maybe for me, enduring Gu Hao's obscenity and working with him is also a necessary hurdle in the process of growing up." I'll give it a try, and if I fail, Uncle Fang remembers to give me another chance. ”

Gu Hao pinched his nose and said dissatisfiedly: "You are also a stumbling block in my growth, and when I kick you away, I will improve." ”

"How old are you and still growing? You're too ripe to ripen, and you're going to rot soon. Hu Pan scoffed at Gu Hao.

"Live to learn all the time, and to be honest, I'm not yet 40 years old, just in the right age, don't laugh, Hu Pan, your youth is shorter than mine. Gu Hao was not to be outdone, he straightened his chest and continued to fight, but suddenly noticed that Fang Shanmu's eyes were not good, and he was busy changing the topic, "The treatment and requirements of recruiting employees, Mr. Fang will make it clear." ”

Fang Shanmu did not have too clear instructions, let Hu Pan and Gu Hao adjust themselves according to the market situation, he believed that with Gu Hao's experience and old success and Hu Pan's rich experience in working in many companies, he was fully qualified for the job. Of course, he did not have any requirements, and put forward a focus: focus on recruiting men in the 80s, and then women in the 80s.

Seeing that the meeting was about to end, Gu Hao got up and diligently helped a few people clean up the water cups and the garbage on the table, and smiled: "I was very enthusiastic, I don't want to say anything frustrating, but entrepreneurship itself is the line between life and death, especially Internet entrepreneurship, death is the norm, and life is accidental and lucky." So don't be too optimistic, be mentally prepared for the death of the battle, and think of a way out. ”

"You can think of a way out first, we don't need to, we're still young. And ......" Cheng Peng glanced at Gu Hao with disdain, "I am not short of money, I can bring in investment at any time, even my own money is enough for the company to operate for several years." ”

"Capital is just an accelerator and magnifying glass between life and death, not that if you have money, you will definitely succeed, young people, there are many problems in the world that money cannot solve. Gu Hao smiled sneeringly, "You still have too little experience and think you know too much, like me and Jiangbian, are we short of money? No, what we lack is love and trust." Just like Mr. Fang and Sheng Chen, they have been in love with each other since they were in college, and now they have been through ups and downs for nearly 20 years, one is virtuous and virtuous, the other has a successful career and loves the family, but they still came to the point of divorce, why?"

"I'm still young and I've never been married, how can I know why?" Cheng Peng Peng saw Gu Hao asking her a question, she was a little unhappy, tilted her head and thought about it, and smiled again, "I understand, I figured it out, you and Uncle Fang have the same problem, they have known each other for too long, there is no freshness and excitement, and for both of you, there is no longer a function and space that can allow each other to grow, so you have made trouble to the point where you are now." ”

"Don't talk nonsense, I'm not. Fang Shanmu hurriedly denied it, "I'm different from Gu Hao, he was caught harassing the little girl outside, and I was too restrained and didn't get tired of it." ”

"Don't explain, we don't want to hear it, the main reason is that you must not be right. Hu Pan blinked his eyes and smiled happily, "Uncle Fang, don't look at you and Gu Hao are much older than me and Peng Peng, but in fact, you haven't figured out what your problem is." ”

"Where?" Fang Shanmu pursed his lips disappreciatively, "It's as if you understand feelings and life better than we do, hum." ”

"I said, don't underestimate us 90 girls, haha. Hu Pan laughed, "Day by day, I always use my experience to pressure people, but I just can't find the reason for myself." Life is a process of growth, and everyone we meet can help us grow. However, if the other party no longer has the function that allows us to continue to grow and we do not know it, a conflict will arise. After a long time of conflict, they will break up, whether it is a husband and wife, a lover, or a friend. Just like me and Jiang Chengzi, I can also promote his growth, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't agree or accept it, and at the same time, he has no way to drive my growth anymore, so I proposed to ......break up."

I have to say that Hu Pan's words are very reasonable, so that Fang Shanmu can't help but look at her with admiration! He and Sheng Chen do have a similar situation, for him, Sheng Chen no longer has the motivation to let him continue to grow, on the contrary, it has become an obstacle for him to move forward, so their contradictions are getting deeper and deeper. But Sheng Chen did not repent, and he came to the point where he is today. And for Sheng Chen, it is still a ladder of growth or a help, but unfortunately, Sheng Chen does not accept growth.

And Gu Hao and Jiangbian are the same. For Gu Hao, the riverside is completely a constraint and a wall, not to mention growth, it would be good if it didn't go backwards. Jiangbian was also immersed in the wall, just wanting to carve out a sphere of influence, not letting Gu Hao have half of the behavior, and never thought of changing himself.

Anyone who only wants others to change to adapt to their own ideas will become an obstacle to their own growth.

Of course, Gu Hao is really not worry-free. But in Fang Shanmu's view, Gu Hao's lust and shamelessness certainly need to be corrected, and Jiangbian's discipline methods also need to be adjusted. Men are like kites, they fly away if they fly too far. But if you pull too close, you will also fall.

Although Sheng Chen and Jiangbian have the same purpose, they are both to restrain and control their own men, but the starting point of the two is different, Sheng Chen is unreasonable, is too sensitive to make trouble, although there is the original intention of prevention, but the behavior based on the premise of the presumption of guilt has a substantial impact and harm to Fang Shanmu, and destroys the foundation of trust and the premise of common growth of the two.

In fact, Jiangbian's control of Gu Hao was based on his distrust of Gu Hao from the beginning, but the sad thing is that although Jiangbian tried everything to prevent Gu Hao from cheating, Gu Hao still tried every possible way to use all the gaps to seize all loopholes to tease and seduce the little girl. It can be seen that some men don't care, they will naturally love their daughters-in-law and family, and they will not like others and will not cheat. Even if some men are tied to their side and don't let them leave a foot away, his eyes and thoughts will fly to other girls.

Fang Shanmu is not an absolute person, although he is disgusted with Sheng Chen's vexatious trouble, he is not opposed to mutual restraint and responsibility between husband and wife. Marriage is like a company, and the two major shareholders can only continue to operate if they have a restraint mechanism and a spirit of responsibility.

But for how to discipline a naturally lustful man like Gu Hao, it is obvious that Jiangbian's method has failed. The reason why he kept Gu Hao in the company was that there was indeed no one available, and secondly, he also wanted to try what way to transform Gu Hao successfully, so that he would no longer be so lustful and like to mess with flowers and grass!

If Gu Hao can be trained to become a good man who devotes his main energy and time to work and family, the growth game APP can use Gu Hao's example to launch a new life line, which will definitely be liked by female players!

Of course, there are other deeper purposes for leaving Gu Hao, which is a later story.

"What to eat at noon, Uncle Fang, I'll help you order takeout. ”

Fang Shanmu's thoughts were interrupted by Hu Pan, seeing that Hu Pan opened the mobile phone takeaway APP and was about to place an order, he waved his hand: "Don't order takeout, today is the first plenary meeting since the establishment of the company, go, go to the music restaurant, I have a treat." ”

The company is in an industrial park, surrounded by all kinds of large and small companies. Because of the large number of companies, many restaurants with different characteristics have been built near the industrial park, among which the music restaurant is opened by one of the well-known choral musicians, which is quite atmospheric and has a unique flavor.

"Wow, that's great, long live Uncle Fang. Hu Pan jumped up happily, "Uncle Fang has a treat, you can let go of your belly and have a big meal." ”

Fang Shanmu smiled very tolerantly and generously, and kicked the ball out while talking and laughing: "What is the standard, Peng Pengding, after all, she is the vice president in charge of money." ”

Although Cheng Pengpeng is a rich woman in size, most of the properties under her name are real estate, and there is not much liquidity. The work of collecting rent seems to be lofty, but in fact, it is all small money, even the micro-business business she usually works part-time, and it is also a small profit, and she has developed the habit of being careful in budgeting.

"The music restaurant is too expensive, starting from 100 per capita, and in the early stage of the business, the company dinner in the future cannot exceed 50 yuan per capita. Cheng Peng squinted his eyes and counted the accounts, looking like an iron rooster, "In the future, the company will spend more money, and now 1 million has been invested, and I haven't even seen a splash." We must be mentally prepared to live a hard life and fight a protracted war. ”

"What's the difference between 50 yuan per capita and takeout?" Gu Hao was so angry that he sat back again, "Don't go, I'll order takeout myself." ”

Hu Pan also wanted to complain a few words, but when she saw Gu Hao express her dissatisfaction first, she was happy again: "Great, Gu Hao, you can order takeout in the company yourself, let's go." ”

When a few people walked to the music restaurant, when they just found a seat and sat down, Gu Hao, who didn't come with him, came out of nowhere like a shadow, he diligently moved a chair for Fang Shanmu, and set up chopsticks for Hu Pan and Cheng Pengpeng.

"I just found out that I have no cash on me, no change in my WeChat wallet, and my secondary credit card has been deactivated, so according to my current situation, some of them are good to eat, and it is my fault to be picky eaters. Picky eaters are naΓ―ve, and I'm a mature man. ”

"Knowing that mistakes can be corrected shows that you still have room to grow. Cheng Pengpeng, who was looking at the menu, threw the menu to Gu Hao, "Come, you are responsible for ordering, remember, you pay for the part that exceeds 50 per capita." It doesn't matter if you don't have money, it will be deducted from your future salary. ”

Gu Hao glanced at the menu and smiled bitterly: "I'm too difficult......"