Chapter 16 The Three Sisters Talk About Life and Love

Xu Huimin, Ma Lixia, and Hou Junyan came back from the supermarket after buying good things, Xu Huimin put down the things in his hand, sighed and said, "Oops, I'm tired, I feel that my energy is completely exhausted." ”

Ma Lixia looked at Xu Huimin and said with a smile: "Do you think it's easy to eat?"

Xu Huimin grimaced at Ma Lixia, then walked around the living room, and just took a few steps to hear the dog's voice, and asked suspiciously, "Where did the dog bark?"

Hou Junyan, who was busy in the kitchen, replied: "I have a Satsuma dog, you go to the balcony of my bedroom and let it out, it probably wants to come out to play." ”

Xu Huimin said excitedly: "Okay, let's go right away." ”

After Xu Huimin finished speaking, she pushed Ma Lixia to Hou Junyan's bedroom, and when "Xueqiu" saw someone coming, she immediately screamed. After Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia saw the "snowball", they praised the cuteness of the "snowball" in unison. Xu Huimin opened the pet cage, and "Snowball" immediately walked out of the pet cage, and then walked to Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia with their tails wagged, and they squatted down and touched "Snowball".

Hou Junyan, who walked to the balcony, saw this scene and also squatted down, "It's called Xueqiu, what do you think of the name?"

"Snowball? Xu Huimin glanced at Hou Junyan and said with a wicked smile: "Honestly recruited, who gave it to you?"

"You don't know you either. ”

"That's... Is it a man who gave it to you?" Xu Huimin continued to ask.

"Yes, you guessed it. Hou Junyan stood up after speaking, "Don't you just care about snowballs here, and don't you eat?" Hurry up and go to the kitchen with me to help." ”

Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia stood up and followed Hou Junyan to the kitchen, the three of them were busy talking and laughing in the kitchen for a long time, and finally they were ready to cook.

"Xu Huimin, you and Ma Lixia bring the chopsticks to the table, and put the rice on the table, and I'll go to the room to get drinks and cups. ”

After Hou Junyan finished speaking, she went to the room to get a drink, while Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia went to the kitchen to work.

"Come, toast to our reunion. Hou Junyan raised the cup full of drinks and said.

After the three of them raised their glasses and took a sip of their drinks, Xu Huimin looked at the food on the table and picked up the chopsticks, "There are so many dishes, it looks like every dish is good, I don't know which dish to eat first." Well, eat this braised pork first. ”

Hou Junyan looked at Xu Huimin, "How is it, is it delicious?"

Xu Huimin showed a very satisfied expression and said with a smile: "Hou Da Beauty's cooking skills... It has to be delicious. ”

Ma Lixia, who had eaten a few bites of food, made a very good gesture with her hands, "It's delicious, it's not a boast, it's really delicious." Hou Junyan, your cooking skills are really amazing. ”

Hou Junyan, who was praised, looked at Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia, and then touched her face with both hands, "I'm a little embarrassed for all of you to praise." Then, pick up the chopsticks, "Eat more if it's delicious, don't be polite, eat and eat." ”

"Ma Lixia, are you single or do you have a partner now?" asked Hou Junyan.

Ma Lixia slowed down the pace of eating, "I'm still a single dog? I think I'm fine to be alone now, what about you?"

"I'm a single dog, too, but there's a guy chasing me right now. ”

Xu Huimin immediately shouted, "Is it the one who gave you the snowball?

Hou Junyan nodded and said, "I confessed, but I think we haven't known each other for less than a month and don't know each other, so I haven't replied yet." ”

"Do you know what kind of person you want to be with, or what are your criteria for choosing a mate?" asked Ma Lixia.

Hou Junyan put down her chopsticks, thought for a while, and then said: "First of all, I hope that the other party is an enterprising, family-oriented, and not machismo." Also, you can't be too possessive, you can't control me all the time, I think two people should give each other a space when they are together, after all, everyone is an individual and has their own small circle. ”

Xu Huimin took a sip of her drink and said: "I agree very much with the last point you said, I don't like possessive men either, I think with this kind of person, there is no space for myself at all, and I don't have my own little secrets." Because he wants to know all your things, he wants to control all your information, and this kind of man likes to be suspicious, as long as you are in contact or contact with the opposite sex, he will think that you have a problem. ”

Ma Lixia immediately denied Xu Huimin's statement, "In fact, possessive men don't necessarily like to be suspicious, I think whether it is a boy or a girl, you must be calm and rational about your feelings, not too impulsive, I think impulsiveness is the most terrible in the relationship." ”

Hou Junyan sighed suddenly, Xu Huimin took a bite of food, and held her eyes at Hou Junyan, "Why are you sighing? Do you think you are very impulsive in the face of feelings?"

Hou Junyan shook her head, "I'm sighing at the young people now, do you know?

Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia said in unison: "I don't know." Then he looked at Hou Junyan with a blank face.

"Fifteen years old. ”

"Ah, so small?" Ma Lixia wondered in surprise.

"Yes, I've taken over seven or eight girls under the age of eighteen to have abortions. Speaking of this, Hou Junyan put down the chopsticks in her hand and slapped the table, "Do you know? The most infuriating thing is that some girls have had this kind of operation more than once, and these girls are so stupid that they don't learn a lesson at all." Most of them are afraid to tell their families, some are still in school, many of them stop contacting these girls after the men find out, and boys with a little conscience will give money for surgery, and some girls borrow money for this kind of surgery. ”

Xu Huimin said angrily: "It's so hateful, the current girls really can't protect themselves." Also, why are there so many young love children now, and the blame is that the Internet is too developed now. Although the Internet has brought a lot of convenience to people, the spread of unhealthy information is also very powerful. In addition, is the current national education to strengthen this kind of knowledge of the protection of girls, this kind of gender education, China sometimes has to learn from the United States, Britain and other developed countries. ”

Hou Junyan applauded after hearing this: "I agree with your idea." By the way, how have you been with your personal problems lately? Do you have any new goals?"

Ma Lixia covered her mouth and smiled: "She? She recently fell in love with a boy in our company. ”

Xu Huimin immediately interrupted: "I don't know if he is single?"

"You are so thick-skinned, do you have the intuition to ask people?" Hou Junyan said jokingly after eating a mouthful of food.

"What's the hurry? I'm not in a hurry to marry myself off right now. Xu Huimin took a bite of food and stuffed it into her mouth, and continued: "I am highly educated, my salary is okay, I can cook, I am willing to bear hardships and stand hard work, I have a cheerful personality, I am lively and generous, and I have a good looks." I have to enjoy my single time, I have to keep my eyes open and pick a man who I think is worth marrying, otherwise how can I be worthy of such a good me? How can I be worthy of me who has worked hard?

After Hou Junyan and Ma Lixia listened, they raised their hands in approval, and Hou Junyan applauded: "Huimin, what you said is simply incisive and perfect. ”

Xu Huimin patted her chest, "You too, we have worked hard to cultivate ourselves so well, and our parents have worked hard to raise us for so many years, but not to let us marry a man who can't give us happiness, we have to marry a man who makes us happy." ”

Ma Lixia suddenly remembered the years she had been alone in Shanghai, and couldn't help crying. Seeing this, Hou Junyan, who was in a daze, glanced at Xu Huimin and asked, "She, what's wrong?"

Xu Huimin shook her head, and then, approaching Ma Lixia, one hand stroked Ma Lixia's back, "What's wrong? I was fine just now, why did I cry all of a sudden?

Ma Lixia took out a piece of paper, wiped her tears, calmed down, and said: "I just think of my life in Shanghai alone in the past few years, and I feel that it is not easy. I'm not like you who have studied in Shanghai for a few years, so when you are looking for a job in this city, you will naturally be familiar with it, and you have classmates here, which will be a little helpful. I'm not like you, I didn't know anything about the city when I came to Shanghai. For the sake of my dreams, I wandered in completely unfamiliar places, looking for a job, renting a house, moving things, etc., and I solved every bit of life by myself. Do you know what's the biggest fear of me when I'm out there? It's not that I lose my job, because I can find it again, it's not that I'm afraid of being tired, because it's not easy to live anywhere, it's not that I'm afraid of being lonely and having no one to accompany me, because I feel okay when I get used to it. I am most afraid that I will not be able to take care of myself when I am sick, for example, when I have a very bad cold, I have a high fever that I can't walk a few steps, and I don't even have the strength to stand up, I will feel very helpless and painful, because I am very fragile at that time, I can't take care of myself at all, and I don't dare to tell my parents, for fear that they will worry. ”

Ma Lixia said and cried on the table again, Hou Junyan saw this, and also approached Ma Lixia, and kept touching her head, "Don't you have Huimin and me now? We are your family and friends in Shanghai, in the future, the three of us must take care of each other, and we will get together more and talk more when we have time." Don't cry, good!"

Ma Lixia raised her head, took the tissue Xu Huimin handed her, and wiped her tears, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to, it affected your mood, I'm sorry." ”

"Look at you, you've cried all the makeup you painted today. After speaking, Xu Huimin took out a piece of paper to help Ma Lixia wipe her tears, "You should be happy, because you have made one more friend today." ”

"Hui Min is right, you are happy today. After Hou Junyan finished speaking, she poured some drinks into everyone's cups, and then raised her own cup, "I'm very happy, thank you Huimin for bringing Ma Lixia today, so that I have another good friend." Come on, come on, toast to our friendship and celebrate. ”

Everyone raised their glasses and touched them, and said in unison, "Cheers to our friendship." ”

After putting down the cup, Hou Junyan said while eating: "Everyone hurry up and eat, we can't waste this table of good dishes, let's clean up a little after eating, and then go to the nearby shopping mall together." ”

After Xu Huimin and Ma Lixia listened to Hou Junyan's words, the two of them picked up the chopsticks and began to eat.