Chapter 39: This Is Not a Marriage, This Is a War
Gu Hao also realized that he was too weak, and straightened his back: "Okay, since you don't believe me, our marriage has lost the foundation of trust, and there is no need to continue, just leave, and stop torturing each other." The child belongs to you, and the property is divided in half. ”
Although Jiangbian hated Gu Hao's begging for mercy very much, when Gu Hao became serious, a trace of unbearability and hesitation flashed in her heart, but when she heard the division of property, her heart hardened a little: "Half of it? You are also embarrassed, you are the party at fault! Gu Hao, in the love of husband and wife, it is good to divide one-fifth of you, you still want half, why don't you go to heaven?"
"Jiangbian, don't be impulsive, think about it again, give them another chance, they are not hopeless, and they can save and save ......" Sheng Chen wanted to make peace with the mud.
was interrupted by Fang Shanmu.
"Sheng Chen, don't persuade me, if there is no even the most basic trust between husband and wife, it is not interesting to be together, except for suspicion is to be vigilant. Even if this matter barely passed, the seeds of distrust were still planted, and every time they quarreled in the future, they would be turned out of old accounts, and they would accumulate over time, and sooner or later they would have to explode. Long pain is better than short pain, and now it is not a problem for one person, they have tormented each other for many years, one wants to fight for freedom in every possible way, and the other wants to control everything by all means, this is not a marriage, this is a war!"
Sheng Chen was angry: "You did something wrong, don't you let people say a few words?"
Fang Shanmu immediately retorted: "Yes, even if Gu Hao and I did something wrong before, it is just a normal disagreement, not a matter of disagreement." But in this matter, Gu Hao and I are completely slandered, and we need your support and comfort, not falling into the ground. By doing this, you are not only in the hands of others, but also make us feel extremely cold!"
"Fang Shanmu, shut up, I'll settle accounts with you later, I'm talking about me and Gu Hao now. Jiangbian slapped the table, his face full of anger.
Fang Shanmu was not afraid of her: "I don't have any accounts with you, don't slap the table at me, I'm sorry, I'm not used to your stinky problems." Jiangbian, if you have to divide the property on the grounds that Gu Hao is at fault, well, you can file a lawsuit, unless you can come up with definite evidence that Gu Hao is the party at fault, otherwise, the court will sentence the property to half of the person. ”
"You ......" Jiang Bian stood up angrily, thought about it, and slowly sat back, she really couldn't show evidence to prove that Gu Hao was at fault, and her tone softened a little, "One person and half will definitely not work, Gu Hao, how much do you want?"
"I want ......" Gu Hao glanced at Fang Shanmu, "I want to discuss it with Lao Fang first." ”
Out of the conference room, Fang Shanmu and Gu Hao came to Sheng Chen's office, closed the door, and Fang Shanmu asked, "Are you really planning to leave?"
"Leave!" Gu Hao gritted his teeth, "I'm fed up, I can't go on like this anymore, or I will be tortured to death by her sooner or later." The psychology is already very perverted, no matter how unhealthy the body is, what is the point of living? I have figured it out, Lao Fang, now that I am divorced, I can still make some requests, if one day I really become at fault and she is caught and left, I guess I will have to go out of the house. ”
"There is no provision in the Marriage Act that the offending party must go out of the house. No, why are you so unproductive, you have to be the fault party?" Fang Shanmu couldn't help but laugh and sighed, "Both say persuasion and don't persuade to leave, but judging from the current situation, even if you pass the current level, it will be difficult to do it in the future." Say, what is the bottom line of the division of property that you can accept?"
"A third. ”
"A third is estimated that Jiangbian will not agree, and my suggestion is a quarter plus an additional clause......" Fang Shanmu lowered his voice.
In the conference room, Jiang Bian also calmed down a little: "Sheng Chen, what do you think, do you want to divorce Fang Shanmu?"
Sheng Chen hesitated slightly, and then instantly made up his mind: "I have a three-year contract with him, and now it's only been a year, and I can't break the contract first." ”
In fact, Jiangbian had already seen that Sheng Chen didn't want to divorce, and she sighed: "Sheng Chen, you are too soft-hearted, if it were me, I wouldn't have lived with Fang Shanmu a long time ago." ”
"You are not me, you and Fang Shanmu will not get married, you are not all the way at all. In fact, there was a sentence that Sheng Chen didn't say, she knew Fang Shanmu, with Fang Shanmu's character, it was impossible to look at Jiangbian, even if Jiangbian was good to him and tempted him with a good job and a villa, he would not compromise.
Fang Shanmu is a person who has a firm position, and he will never do anything against his will.
"How much property do you think Gu Hao has is appropriate?" Jiang Bian returned to her own affairs, although she wanted to persuade Sheng Chen to divorce her with her, but the words came to her lips and swallowed back.
"Between one-third and one-quarter, depending on how you discuss. Sheng Chen had no concept of the division of property in the event of divorce before, but now that she has learned a lot of relevant knowledge, she also understands a lot, "A lot of property in your name was given to you by your parents before marriage, and it can be calculated separately." I believe that Gu Hao doesn't account too much, husband and wife, get together and break up, don't be too embarrassed. ”
"yes, I don't want to make a fuss and be embarrassed. Jiang Bian sighed heavily, "If Gu Hao's request is not too much, I will promise him, no matter what, he will always be the father of my child." ”
Sheng Chen was deeply touched by this: "Sometimes I think about it, children are really a bridge between husband and wife, and if there are no children, the divorce rate will definitely rise a lot." The child alone connects the blood of two people, which is the crystallization of love and the testimony of marriage. ”
After being silent for a while, Jiangbian gritted his teeth: "I thought about it......"
Returning to Sheng Chen and Jiangbian, Fang Shanmu had mixed feelings in his heart, he didn't want one day when he and Sheng Chen would sit together like this to discuss the division of property. Property is easy to divide, and love is easy to separate, but what can never be separated is the child, and it is the life years that condense the love and marriage of two people.
Gu Hao's face was calm, no longer showing weakness as before, and there was a trace of suppressed unwillingness and released anger in the calm. Jiangbian's heart jumped, how many years, she has always missed Gu Hao's pride and calmness when she was chasing Gu Hao, and now she finally saw Gu Hao she admired the most, but it was when they were about to divorce.
Women are sometimes really conflicted, clearly hoping that their husbands will come home early, but when their husbands come home late because of overtime, they complain and complain instead of comforting and encouraging. Whining and complaining will only bore the man and make him reluctant to go home. When a man goes home, he hopes to relax and empty himself, and no longer face problems at work and disputes between colleagues, but if he is faced with complaints and coldness when he goes home, he will look for an outlet elsewhere.
Similarly, when a woman is in love, she often likes a man's bravery, aggression and responsibility, but after marriage, she wants to control the man and let the man live and work completely according to her plan. If the man does not agree, she will feel that the man does not love her. If she agrees, after a long time, she will think that men have lost their due masculine charm, and they are no longer brave and responsible men, and they want her to call the shots in everything, and no longer inspire her to have the illusion that men have the courage to take on everything, what is the use of her wanting men?
Then she will accuse men of not being enterprising and ambitious, too incompetent, but they will not reason in reverse, and the root cause of men's nests and incompetence is actually in her.
Of course, men have the same problem. In order to take care of the family, the wife needs to sacrifice her work to give it her all. Slowly, the man's social status rose and his income increased, but he found that his wife had become a full-time wife who only knew the shortcomings of the family, knew nothing about the changes in the outside world, and no longer learned and accepted new things. But the problem is that the wife's duty is to be a full-time wife, and the question she considers is not the family's shortcomings, is it a national matter?
She has become the wife you want, and after you have successfully reformed her, you dislike her for not being intellectual enough and not understanding social communication, haven't you thought that all this is the result you want?
Therefore, men and women must not think about how to transform each other, whether it is in love or marriage, transforming a person is always a matter that harms others and is not beneficial to themselves. If the transformation fails, you will be depressed and dissatisfied. If the transformation is successful, the other party will slowly lose its freshness and attractiveness, and it will attract your dislike.
Man, always repeating in freshness, attraction, transformation, insipidity and disgust, but never drawing lessons from them.
"Have you thought about it?" a trace of sadness flashed in Jiangbian's heart.
"Think about it!" Gu Hao's heart was extremely calm, and there was a hint of happiness and relief in the calm.
"How much do you want?" Jiang Bian tried to put away the emotions he shouldn't have, and returned to his senses, "Gu Hao, don't blame me for not reminding you in advance......"
"Can you not preset the premise in the future? Jiangbian, do you know what your biggest fault is? Always presuppose that everyone else is a bad person, and negotiate under the premise that everyone else is a bad person, can you have a good negotiation atmosphere?" Gu Hao interrupted Jiang Bian coldly, his tone was very stiff and stubborn, "Put away your self-righteousness, don't think that everyone else is the same as you! Remember, what kind of person you are, what kind of world you see in your eyes." If you think there are many bad people in the world, it means that you are a bad person yourself!"
"You ......" Jiangbian wanted to shoot the case, but Sheng Chen pulled her sleeves and sat down again, she realized her gaffe, "Don't talk nonsense, hurry up and talk about your conditions." ”
"One-third of the property, one-fourth of the shares in your name. Gu Hao first threw out the first plan.
"Fart......" Jiangbian was ignited with anger again, and wanted to scold Gu Hao for being greedy, but was stopped by Sheng Chen's eyes.
Sheng Chen was a little disappointed in the irritability of the riverside, the irritable person is easy to be controlled by the opponent, and the irritable person is okay with the people around him, because the person who loves you will accommodate you and tolerate you. But not in front of your opponents, who are the ones who will always spot your shortcomings and attack your vulnerabilities.
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