Chapter 31 The Concept of Independence

The colleagues around her are almost gone, and Xu Huimin is ready to pack up and get off work. Before Xu Huimin packed up her things, she first sent a WeChat message to Ni Jiacheng, and then turned off the computer and packed up her things and went to the first floor of the company to wait for Ni Jiacheng. Xu Huimin didn't wait for a while, Ni Jiacheng arrived. Ni Jiacheng came to the first floor and couldn't help laughing when he saw Xu Huimin, maybe this is love, maybe it's the emotional performance when he sees the person he likes in front of him. Ni Jiacheng walked in front of Xu Huimin, who was indulging in the world of mobile phones, he cleared his throat, maybe he was too involved in playing with his mobile phone, Xu Huimin still didn't raise his head to look at Ni Jiacheng. So, Ni Jiacheng patted Xu Huimin on the shoulder and said with a smile: "What are you playing?

Xu Huimin raised her head and looked at Ni Jiacheng, and then said in a very disdainful tone: "Are you sure you are a handsome guy?"

Ni Jiacheng stroked his hair and put on a cold expression, "Is there any problem? With my height and appearance, and this figure, where does it not meet the standards of a handsome guy?"

Xu Huimin made a vomiting motion, "I've seen thick-skinned people, but I've never seen a thick-skinned person like you." ”

"This lady, how can you say that about me? I'm a former school grass? This is not my own boasting, when will I have time to take you to meet my high school friend, and then you can confront me face to face, how about it?" Xu Huimin rolled his eyes at Ni Jiacheng, Ni Jiacheng touched Xu Huimin's head when he saw this, and said with a smile: "For the sake of your good behavior today, Young Master Ben will not worry about you about this problem that I am very handsome." Remember, you'll have to talk to me before you get ready to leave work and before you leave home in the morning. ”

Xu Huimin glanced at Ni Jiacheng, "Boring." Tell me quickly, why did you ask me to send you a WeChat message after work, and said that I was waiting for you on the first floor, is there anything wrong?"

Ni Jiacheng looked at Xu Huimin and smiled, then put his hand on Xu Huimin's shoulder, Xu Huimin quickly removed his hand away, and said angrily: "Why do I think you are a very unserious person, can you give me honesty with your hand, one day you annoy me or when this girl is in a bad mood, be careful that this girl I chop your hand with a knife." After speaking, he made a chopping motion.

"I'm so afraid! Please raise your noble hand, spare the villain, please spare her life. Ni Jiacheng made frightened movements and expressions, then looked at Xu Huimin with disdainful eyes, and then tapped her forehead with his hand, "I said can you be gentle, even if you are a little gentle, you have already taken off the list." I'm telling you, if you continue to do this and don't change it well, be careful that no one will beat you for the rest of your life. ”

"You need to take care of it, Raven's Beak. Besides, I don't care what happens to you if I fight a bachelor for the rest of my life. After Xu Huimin finished speaking, she glanced at Ni Jiacheng, "Is there anything in your way?" I am willing to live alone for the rest of my life. If you are okay and this girl is gone, please stand aside for me, don't get in the way of this girl, and be careful that I get rid of you. ”

Ni Jiacheng saw Xu Huimin walking towards the place where the company was waiting for the shuttle, so he put his hand on Xu Huimin's shoulder again and pulled her into his arms. Xu Huimin was defenseless, and fell into Ni Jiacheng's arms at once, and they looked at each other. Xu Huimin looked at Ni Jiacheng, her inexplicable heartbeat accelerated, at this moment Xu Huimin found that the man in front of her was so handsome, and his eyes were so gentle and affectionate, Xu Huimin's voice in her heart was telling herself: The man in front of her is still the type he likes, sunny and handsome, although sometimes he is a little unreasonable and likes to do things to himself, but his nature is still not bad, and sometimes he has a sense of humor, the key is that he is a handsome guy.

"This beauty, are you comfortable lying in my arms?" asked Ni Jiacheng.

Xu Huimin immediately stood up and pushed Ni Jiacheng, "What do you want to do? You almost knocked me down, if this girl has three long and two short, you will be fully responsible." ”

Ni Jiacheng stroked his bangs, "What do I want to do?" This girl, please don't think too much, you are so fierce, even if I think about you, I don't dare, the key point is that I am not interested in you." I just want to send you home, don't ask me why. The reason is very simple, our two families are very close to each other, I am very bored driving alone, and I want someone to accompany me to nag and nag, so you Xu Huimin will be with me when you commute to and from work in the future, you know?"

"May I ask you, who Ni Jiacheng am and what do you have to do with me? Why do I have to listen to what you say, so I don't want to take your car. ”

After Xu Huimin finished speaking, he turned around and walked towards the place where the company was waiting for the shuttle, Ni Jiacheng held Xu Huimin when he saw this, "I'm sorry, this lady, I, Ni Jiacheng, have taken a fancy to you, you are single again, I am doing this now, one is to protect the woman I like, and the other is that I want to pursue the woman I like." Then he took Xu Huimin and walked to the place where he parked, no matter what Xu Huimin said and struggled, Ni Jiacheng always maintained the domineering president Fan and took Xu Huimin to the place where he parked. Xu Huimin had no choice but to compromise and follow Ni Jiacheng into the car.

Every next working day, Ni Jiacheng drove to Xu Huimin's community in the morning to wait for her, and then went to the company together. When it's time to get off work, he will ask Xu Huimin to talk to him on WeChat, and be him on the first floor, even if Xu Huimin doesn't tell him after work, Ni Jiacheng will try to commute with Xu Huimin.

Ma Lixia has been living with Hou Junyan for two weeks in a row, and in the past two weeks, Ma Lixia has changed the dressing for Hou Junyan every night before going to bed, and today she has changed the dressing for Hou Junyan as always, "Junyan, your wound has basically healed." ”

"I also feel that the wound has healed almost in the past two days, a while ago, I couldn't do the action of raising my hands and stretching my waist, it hurts when I do it, I tried it in the past two days, it doesn't hurt at all, even if I occasionally do some very exaggerated movements, it doesn't hurt. Hou Junyan, who was lying on the bed, said.

After Ma Lixia applied medicine to Hou Junyan's wound, she carefully checked the amount of the remaining medicines, "The medicine used for the wound is basically used up, do you want to go to the hospital to get some medicine?"

"No, I contacted the attending physician in the past few days, and I told him about my current situation, and he said that when I run out of these medicines, I can go to work, and I don't need to continue to recuperate at home, saying that if I continue to recuperate, I will give birth to other diseases?"

Ma Lixia asked curiously, "What disease?"

"It's so lazy to do it. ”

After Hou Junyan said these words, she and Ma Lixia, who helped her get gauze, laughed, "Junyan, why do I think your attending physician is talking so funny?"

"Lixia, you can go back to live this weekend, I don't need anyone to take care of me at all now. ”

After Ma Lixia wrapped Hou Junyan's wound in gauze, she sorted out Hou Junyan's clothes, and then patted Hou Junyan, "Okay, the medicine is basically gone, and your wound is almost healed, then I will pack up my things and go back after lunch at your place tomorrow." ”

"Won't you call your family tomorrow Li Zhiyong to come over to help you? Anyway, tomorrow and Saturday, he won't go to work. Hou Junyan, who was lying on the bed, turned her head to look at Ma Lixia, "Also, you and Li Zhiyong haven't seen each other for so long, the relationship will fade, and we will get together on the weekend." ”

"I don't have to call him to come and help, I just have a suitcase, and I don't have many things, I can do it alone. Besides, after a week of work, he was also tired, and finally on the weekend, he had to take a good rest and make up for sleep. ”

Hou Junyan looked at Ma Lixia and smiled, "Lixia, you can't do this, you can't protect him like this." How long have you only been together? I told you, you can't feel too sorry for Li Zhiyong, you have to slowly get used to him doing this and that for you. However, when it is time to be independent, it is necessary to be independent, but when it is time for a man to do it, let him do it. Otherwise, when you get married in the future, you will be the one who suffers. ”

Ma Lixia picked up the cup and took a sip of water, then lay down on the bed and looked at Hou Junyan, "I just think I can do it myself, I don't want to rely too much on Zhiyong." Otherwise, one day we didn't come together and broke up. I was afraid that by that time, my dependence on him bit by bit in my previous life would make me unaccustomed to my life without him. ”

Hou Junyan lay on her side and brushed Ma Lixia's hair with her hand, "Silly girl, I don't want you to let Li Zhiyong do every bit of your life, what I want to express is: This man can't be too spoiled, since you are together now, then you can't be as independent as before, because, when your man finds that his woman is too independent, so that he doesn't need to take care of her in life at all, over time, his concern for you will become weaker, and what he is willing to pay for you or what he is willing to do for you will get better and better." Of course, women can't be completely dependent on their own men after having a man, and completely lose their independent self, and they still have to be independent when they should be independent. ”

Ma Lixia looked at Hou Junyan and frowned, "Junyan, I feel that what you said is too profound, I don't understand." ”

Hou Junyan smiled at Ma Lixia, "Then let me tell you so." For example, if you have ten things to do in your life now, you can divide six things for Li Zhiyong to do for you, and the other four things to do by yourself. Of course, you can also adjust this ratio yourself, I am just a few examples. Do you understand this?"

"This time I understood. Junyan, if it were you, how would you distribute this ratio?"

Hou Junyan thought for a while and said: "If it were me, I would be twenty-eight, ten things, eight of which I need his help to do, and I will do the remaining two by myself." ”

Ma Lixia looked at Hou Junyan, "Are you a little dependent on the other party for this distribution?"

"No, because I don't need his help with ten things, I think when I am with the other person, I want him to feel that I am dependent on him, but I am not completely dependent on him! I still let myself do some things independently, and I will do four or five of these eight things with him, so I can't talk about completely relying on the other party at all. When we're really not together, I can still rely on myself. ”