Chapter 54 Always move forward on the road of seeking common ground while reserving differences

An ordinary and unpretentious marriage may have a dull but fulfilling life. Vigorous love, maybe like a stormy wave, on the surface earth-shattering and touching, in fact, comes and goes in a hurry, leaving only a short moment.

Fang Shanmu patted Gu Hao's shoulder vigorously: "Infinite love is your home, we are all your family." ”

Gu Hao stood up, tears flowed for a long time, and raised his glass with both hands: "What I had before was not, today I solemnly say I'm sorry." In the future, Gu Hao will rebuild his personality, no longer lustful, no longer abusive, serious and single-minded, serious work, and single-mindedness!"

"Even I was touched and got to know you again. Hu Pan wiped away a handful of tears, "Gu Hao, from now on, I will call you Uncle Gu." Congratulations on your rebirth and re-being, Uncle Gu in the future will definitely be the pillar of infinite love and our role model in life. ”

Everyone raised their glasses together to congratulate Gu Hao.

After a few glasses of wine, the atmosphere became a little more enthusiastic. Gu Hao couldn't hold back the excitement in his heart, and opened Tang Meiwen's WeChat circle of friends to let everyone see her photos.

The soup in the photo is like a poplar tree, tall and straight, although it has gone through the years without losing its true color, thin and slender, although it is not a stunning flower, but it also has a proud beauty.

"How about Lao Fang, it's not worse than the riverside, right?" Gu Hao drank too much, and he rarely drank alcohol, so he was extremely excited today.

"In my experience, women who usually post their photos on Moments are basically not bad looking and are very confident in their appearance. But if you have to tell the truth, Tang Meiwen is not as beautiful as Jiangbian......" Seeing that Gu Hao was slightly displeased, Fang Shanmu paused slightly and laughed, "But she is more beautiful and blessed than Jiangbian." Some women are amazing at first sight, bland again, and ordinary for a long time. And some women, the first time they see it, they are amazing, and they feel at ease after seeing it for a long time. Like simple, love is easy, and getting along is the hardest. Therefore, a woman who is beautiful is also a woman who can accompany you for a long time. ”

"By the way, Uncle Fang......" Cheng Peng Peng remembered something, pinched a peanut and threw it into his mouth, "Don't you have a classmate named Zheng Yuandong, he and his first love have come together again after 20 years, how is it now? Can you learn about his recent situation? If you combine Uncle Gu's deeds, a new story line will come out again." ”

Xu Wenqu, who had not spoken for a long time, became interested again at this time, and his fingers tapped lightly on the table: "Teacher Fang, you need to know whether your classmate's married life is happy, and combined with Teacher Gu's personal experience, it is another story line of the 70th class." I think if conditions permit, do a systematic collation and analysis, 70, 80 and 90, which class has the most marriages with classmates, and which class has the lowest divorce rate when married?"

"There is no need to sort out and analyze, we are now the representatives of the three generations. Obviously, in the class of 70, the students got married the most and the divorce rate was the lowest. The 80th class is second, and the marriage between the 90th class is basically negligible, right?" Cheng Pengpeng named him in turn, "Hu Pan, Jiang Chengzi, Lin Sansui, you all talk about it." ”

Jiang Chengzi said first: "Hu Pan and I are the only couple in our class who are still together after graduation, but we also broke up later, as far as I know, there are no pairs in the class." ”

Hu Pan tilted his head and thought: "The classmates in the neighboring class that I often contact, she said that they didn't have a successful pair in the class. ”

Lin Sansui smiled: "As far as I know, there is no one in our class." There were people who fell in love when they were in school, but they all quickly broke up after graduation. In other classes, I know that there is a couple who are married, and it is not clear whether they are still in the marriage preservation period. ”

Fang Shanmu nodded: "Don't quarrel, I'll call Zheng Yuandong now and ask him and Zhou Zhizhi about their current situation." ”

Fang Shanmu turned on the hands-free.

As soon as the phone was called, Zheng Yuandong's lazy voice came: "Old Fang, why did you remember to call me in the middle of the night? I don't know that I am now a family and a house, is it inconvenient to answer the phone at night? Say, what is it, if you ask me to go out to play and come out, you don't have to open your mouth." Now someone is in charge and can't get out. ”

The crowd couldn't help laughing.

"Are you outside? The voice is very noisy, you say that you are not home every day, Sheng Chen does not complain about you. You have to learn from me, go home after work, cook and raise flowers, tease cats and dogs, be more stable and comfortable, socialize outside every day, how tiring and tossing ......"

Isn't this all the way Fang Shanmu lived before? Fang Shanmu couldn't help laughing.

"Understood, understandable. Newly married men are very keen on family life in the first two years, after all, you have only just entered the marriage, less than a year, right? Fang Shanmu smiled a little ill-willedly, "I have a good friend named Gu Hao, you also know, he just got divorced, and then contacted his first love in college, and wants to rekindle the old love with his first love and spend the rest of his life together." He is now particularly concerned about whether your married life is harmonious with Zhizhi, come, you can tell him about it, so that he can rest assured......"

"What are you talking about, what are you talking about? What is harmony, our marriage is happy, happy, perfect, first-class, right?" Zheng Yuandong's voice suddenly raised an octave, and after a while, his voice lowered again, "Now it's okay, she has gone upstairs, and she can speak with confidence." ”

Cheng Peng Peng sneered: "Man, heh, man!"

"Who's talking?" Zheng Yuandong laughed, "It sounds like a beautiful woman, have I ever seen it?" Old Fang, are you eating out with the staff? It sounds like she is biased against me. ”

"I'm not, I don't, don't talk nonsense. Cheng Peng Peng hurriedly denied the three links, "My name is Cheng Peng Peng, and I am Uncle Fang's partner. I'm not biased against you, Mr. Zheng, I'm biased against all men. ”

"Okay, whatever you want, as long as you don't get married, it's okay to hate all men. Zheng Yuandong coughed lightly, "You tell Gu Hao that life after marriage is very harmonious." But don't expect too much. Goddesses are goddesses from afar, and when they are close, they must believe what the old man said, there is no beauty on the pillow, haha. Of course, after getting along for a long time, whether it is beautiful or not will be ignored, mainly because of whether the personality is similar. ”

Gu Hao couldn't help but ask directly: "Lao Zheng, let me take the liberty of asking, after getting married, are all the good feelings in the past, such as the memories of first love and the yearning for the age of innocence, gone, and have become trivial and quarrels in real life?"

"What do you think, your first love is still innocent, innocence only exists at a certain age, sixteen or seventeen years old? Not more than twenty-five years old! After the past, where is there any innocence and longing, only reality. Zheng Yuandong took a sip of water, "Lao Gu, don't think too much, you're not too young, don't think about any romantic goddess of love, you think your first love is suitable to live with you, and if you can accompany you through the second half of your life, you will marry her, and you will be good to her seriously." If you can't, forget it, and change to a suitable one. ”

After Zheng Yuandong's phone hung up, several people began a heated discussion. In the end, two factions were formed, one group thought that Zheng Yuandong was right, a man of a certain age only needed a marriage that could take care of him and could accompany him with the three views, not love. This faction, led by Fang Shanmu, was unanimously approved by all the men.

The other school believes that no matter what age you are, you can take love as the first premise, marriage is not a partner, and now that the living conditions are better, women don't need men to live well, so women don't grieve themselves in order to survive. If there is no love in a marriage, I would rather not, rather be single.

This faction, headed by Cheng Pengpeng, was unanimously approved by Hu Pan and Xu Wenqu.

"There will always be differences between men and women, and there will be no agreement, and they will always move forward on the road of seeking common ground while reserving differences. Fang Shanmu made a concluding speech, "In order to let everyone feel the difference between love and marriage more realistically, and also to make the next story line more complete and real, tomorrow I will take you to a mysterious place, so that you can see the real love and marriage in reality." ”

"However, don't go when you're three years old, you can go tomorrow with the in-house counsel to bloom all the time. Fang Shanmu looked at Gu Hao again, "Don't go to Old Gu, after all, you are no longer a person of infinite care." It just so happens that you can take a vacation for a while recently, talk about love, and go to Wangjing to find Tang Meiwen. ”

"Uncle Gu really left the company, why don't I believe it?" Hu Pan looked around, "Do you believe it or not?" Is Uncle Gu entrusted by Uncle Fang to pretend to leave the company and engage in some secret activities?"

"You've been thinking about it all day, and you're thinking about any secret activities. Gu Hao immediately denied it, "In the frontal battlefield, we are basically close to a complete victory, if Zhou Xiao is dismissed by the headquarters this time, Haohua Chang Kai will not be far from a complete rout." Zhou Xiao lost his position as chairman of the United Network Beijing Company, his influence in the industry will be greatly reduced, and the strategy of Haohua Changkai to sell at a high price like Huatuan Technology will most likely fail. ”

"Okay, just listen to Lao Fang, I am now a supernumerary staff with infinite care, and I have worked hard for everyone in the recent past. I'll put my career down first, relive my first love, and plan for the happiness of the second half of my life. Gu Hao laughed, "But I'll still live in room 301, and you'll see me every night." ”

Du Tunan left first, Jiang Chengzi yelled and refused to leave, he wanted to stay in room 301 for one night, and was persuaded by Lin Sansui to leave. After going back, Cheng Pengpeng and Xu Wenqu fell asleep first, Hu Pan couldn't sleep, knocked on the door of room 301, and said that he had something to say to Fang Shanmu.

"Uncle Fang, don't you feel that Du Tunan's state has always been offline, he is always sullen, as if he has a lot on his mind. I always feel that his mind is not in the company, he is either an internal ghost, or he just doesn't love growth games. Hu Pan took a bottle of mineral water and poured it violently.

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