Chapter 33: Gender Affective Expert

All Fang Shanmu's dissatisfaction and contempt for Du Tu Nan turned into sympathy and sympathy in an instant, he got up and patted Du Tu Nan on the shoulder: "Tu Nan, I blamed you wrongly, and now I solemnly apologize to you." ”

Du Tunan originally looked cynical, holding back tears, pretending to be strong, and was comforted by Fang Shanmu, suddenly turned around and hugged Fang Shanmu, and cried loudly: "Why am I so unlucky? What did I do wrong, God wants to punish me like this? I don't want to be unfilial, and I don't want to force her to have children, but when people get married, they always feel that something is wrong if they don't have children? What should I do?"

"It's really a living treasure, it's not mature yet, it's 32 years old!" Cheng Peng couldn't stand it anymore and covered his eyes, "Man, heh, man." Women are born with the function of giving birth to children, but they must always have autonomy whether they are born or not, right? Can't you say that in order to meet the task of inheriting your family, you have to wronged yourself?"

"Shut up! Don't make trouble! Okay!" Fang Shanmu turned around and glared at Cheng Pengpeng, "What do you know? For women, children are the closest relatives. The child born is not someone else's, he will call you Mom, it is the flesh and blood that you can't give up for the rest of your life. ”

Du Tunan cried like a child, crying heartbreakingly, shouting so much that his liver and intestines were broken, which showed that he was really heartbroken.

"Brother Fang, my own brother! I filed for divorce with her in a desperate situation, I didn't really want a divorce, I just wanted to threaten her, hoping that she would change her mind, I was caught between my parents and her, I was too difficult! The first time she disagreed, I was angry and proposed the second time, she still didn't agree, I continued to be angry and proposed the third time, she agreed, she actually agreed! I thought she was deliberately angry with me like me, and I woke up when I got the divorce certificate from the Civil Affairs Bureau, we are really divorced...... Wow, I regret the divorce, brother, I want to remarry her, and she doesn't agree!

Fang Shanmu didn't feel the unexpected gain of a younger brother, mainly because he had seen too much and was impulsive after drinking too much and driven by interests, knowing that these people would return to normal after the frenzy passed, but Du Tunan's experience caused him to feel agitated, made big waves, and couldn't let go for a long time.

Compared with him, Du Tunan's marital problems are more conflicting and intense, although they are special, but they are also very representative of the younger generation. Not to mention far away, let's just say that in Fang Shanmu's original company, there were several couples in the 90s who often quarreled because of the issue of having children, which even affected their work.

However, as a couple in the 80s, perhaps because they grew up abroad, Du Tunan's ex-wife's natural rejection of children is relatively rare. And the concessions and sacrifices made by Du Tunan for the sake of his children and in order to satisfy his parents' wishes are very huge. Fang Shanmu asked himself, if it was him, I am afraid that he would not be able to do such a thing of enduring and retreating, and he would have divorced a long time ago.

The contradiction between him and Sheng Chen is that because of some trivial things in daily life, they have accumulated over time, and finally formed a huge whirlpool, which involved both of them and could no longer extricate themselves. Some people say that if a woman is always inexplicably angry because of some trivial things in her life, it is actually caused by the accumulation of too many contradictions in all aspects.

Sometimes think about the irreconcilable contradictions like Du Tunan and his ex-wife, once a solution is found, the two may quickly get back together. And the rift that he and Sheng Chen have accumulated over the long years, once it ruptures, is already full of holes and can no longer be repaired. Therefore, it is not so much that he sympathizes with Du Tunan, but that he is not as good as Du Tunan There is a possibility of turning back.

To give an inappropriate example, it is like a relative who suddenly falls ill and dies, and the pain brought to the living is great and shocking. And a loved one who has been sick for several years before dying, the suffering of the living will be relatively lighter.

"Don't cry, how old are you, let go, let go of Uncle Fang!" Cheng Peng saw that Du Tunan was crying endlessly, and pulled Du Tunan's arm away, "A big man, is it okay to be a little promising?" There are so many good women in the world, they are willing to give birth to monkeys for you, no, there must be a lot of children, go, start again, find your own happiness, you still have enough time and energy. ”

"But I can't forget her......" Du Tunan snorted and cried, as embarrassed as he wanted, and took advantage of people's inattention, wiped his snot on the table, without the original cynicism, "I think I may only love her alone in my life, I fell in love with her at first sight, not only because she is beautiful, but also because her name is good- When I heard her say that her name was Xu Wenqu, my brain exploded, it was her, and the person who had been waiting for most of her life was her!"

What? Isn't it? Is it the same name or is it really a coincidence, Fang Shanmu's brain also "boomed", but it didn't explode, he just felt that the world was so small, he grabbed Du Tunan's shoulder: "Your ex-wife's name is Xu Wenqu? Is she also in the capital? What does she look like?"

"She's beautiful......"

"Nonsense, there are many more beautiful women, talk about her specific characteristics. After Fang Shanmu heard Du Tu Nan finish speaking, he and Cheng Peng looked at each other, and only said after a while, "It's really her! Cheng Peng Peng, don't you already know Du Tu Nan, how can you not know Xu Wenqu?"

Cheng Pengpeng was also surprised that Xu Wenqu was actually Du Tunan's ex-wife, she deliberately shrugged her shoulders like Xu Wenqu: "Maybe some people should know, some don't have to know, who knows? I have never seen her once before!" Lao Du, since your ex-wife is Xu Wenqu, just before you came, we had a positive contact with Xu Wenqu, according to my and Uncle Fang's observation and preliminary image of her, you should forget her, and a lover who is willing to give birth to a child for you is a thousand times stronger than sticking to a woman who thinks she is hypocritical. Do you think Yugong's road to a happy life is faster to move mountains or move faster?"

After persuading for a while, Du Tunan stopped crying, he felt a little embarrassed, went to wash his face and returned to the conference room: "Brother Fang, I was going to be depressed for a while, but Sister Cheng persuaded me to come out and take a walk and see more, saying that it would be conducive to relieving the depression, so I came to apply." I didn't perform well today, and I really couldn't lift my spirits the first few times, so don't be surprised. I'm still not in a good position to work, so I won't drag down the company, thank you for letting me say what I think today, I really don't know who to say. I cried when I said it, and I felt much better. ”

"Wait......" Fang Shanmu stopped Du Tunan and stretched out his right hand to him, "Since the company is called Infinite Care Limited Liability, it is the responsibility and obligation to show care for you, and at the same time, your life experience is particularly representative, and it can be used as a special case to become a famous level in the game, and I welcome you to join on behalf of Infinite Care Company." ”

Du Tunan was stunned, and then reluctantly shook Fang Shanmu's hand: "Brother Fang doesn't dislike it, so I will reluctantly join." If I can't bring benefits to the company, just talk to me at that time, and I'll pat my ass and leave. But when I said ugly things, I joined the company, not for any career development, nor for making money, I was purely because I was bored, but also to relieve the depression in my heart, and because Cheng Mei said that Brother Fang is a very interesting and story-telling person, I hope Brother Fang can help me get through. ”

Fang Shanmu glanced at Cheng Peng fiercely: "Dare to be in your mouth, I have become an expert in gender emotion, specializing in solving difficult problems in marriage and family for others, right?"

"What's more!" Cheng Peng's eyebrows fluttered, and the corners of his mouth fluttered, "Uncle Fang is not only the leader of the company, but also our life mentor and spiritual leader. ”

"Don't make trouble! I know nonsense every day, hurry up and get to work!" Fang Shanmu wanted to criticize Cheng Peng a few words seriously, but seeing Cheng Pengpeng's smug face, like a little girl who had succeeded in her conspiracy, she suddenly broke her work, smiled again, and handed the resume in her hand to Cheng Pengpeng, "I still have something to do, I have to go home quickly, this person will be admitted, you just inform him to go to work next Monday." ”

"Dutunan, you too, go to work next Monday. Fang Shanmu had several WeChat messages on his mobile phone, not because Sheng Chen was urging, but when his son was asking what time he was coming, he couldn't hold it back.

"You haven't even read your resume, it's so unserious, you get serious. Cheng Pengpeng wanted to say something more, but when he saw Fang Shanmu put on his coat and hurriedly pushed the door out, he couldn't help but shake his head, "White rabbit, look around." The clothes are not as good as new, and the people are not as good as the old...... Isn't it better for a man to always be an ex-wife?"

"Didn't you say before that Brother Fang hadn't left yet, why did he become an ex-wife?" Du Tunan clasped his hands on his shoulders and looked at Fang Shanmu's distant back, "Brother Fang, like us, is an affectionate man, but it's a pity that affection is not as good as a long-term companion, and there is no need to say much about love, he is a thin and cool person, why bother to be affectionate? When Brother Fang got the certificate, I had a good drink with him to celebrate his return to singleness." ”

"Happy crying today?"

"It's okay to cry, it's very comfortable. Du Tunan didn't notice the killing intent in Cheng Pengpeng's eyes, and smiled, "Thank you." ”

"I warn you Du Tunan, you are divorced, don't encourage Uncle Fang to divorce. His marriage can still be saved, don't you hurt him, Cheng?" Cheng Peng bit her lip, her eyes revealing complex and indescribable emotions.

"I hurt him? For him, divorce is a relief now, and Brother Fang is a very assertive person, whether to divorce or not, he makes his own decisions, and no one can persuade him. Du Tunan turned around and hugged Cheng Pengpeng's shoulder, "Sister Cheng, don't you like Brother Fang a little, if he leaves, it won't just weigh your heart." ”

"you! Don't talk nonsense. Cheng Pengpeng pushed Du Tunan away and kicked him, "Like is not love, like doesn't necessarily have to be together." My feelings for my uncle are pure, only clean and pure liking, without any restless thoughts. ”

"I believe you're a ghost, you're a bad old woman. Du Tunan laughed, jumped to the side, dodged Cheng Pengpeng's pursuit, and ran away as if flying.