Chapter 34 is meaningless and a waste of time
Fang Shanmu's vacation was unexpected by everyone.
First, Cheng Pengpeng and Lin Sansui questioned it.
"Uncle Fang, if you take a vacation, the company will be leaderless, we will all lose the light of the sun, and we will be blind. Cheng Peng Peng deliberately generaled, "Even if you show up in the company every day, it will make us feel at ease, and it is a hundred times better than not seeing people for a week." ”
"That's it, Uncle Fang, you can't not come to the company for a week, we will go crazy. Lin Sansui took the opportunity to make trouble.
Fortunately, Gu Hao is not here, otherwise Gu Hao would have fanned the flames and ridiculed him.
What Fang Shanmu didn't expect was that Xu Wenqu, who had always been quiet, also took the opportunity to tease him: "Teacher Fang also needs to take a vacation......?
Du Tunan also expressed the same meaning: "Brother Fang, if you are not in the company, our hearts will be empty, and we will not be able to work." If you put up a black and white photo of you to supervise us, it's a bit gritty. ”
Jiang Chengzi took over the conversation: "If you insert three pillars of incense, you won't be embarrassed, and with mourning, everyone's expressions are more serious, and it is quite ceremonial to think about it......"
Fang Shanmu: "......"
Fortunately, Sun Xiaozhao was upset for Fang Shanmu and said a fair word: "You have gone too far, Uncle Fang is also a human being, and he also has the right to rest." Although he used to exploit us and oppress us before, he is old after all, we must respect the old and love the young, and give him a chance to take a vacation and reflect. ”
"Get out!" Fang Shan laughed angrily, these people joined forces to sarcastically mock him, this day, he, the boss, was simply too much of a failure.
However, it is also because he has worked too hard in the past year or two, and if he fights, others will be embarrassed to take vacations. Fang Shanmu scolded and scolded, he still loved his team very much in his heart, or he would not be a matchmaker to solve lifelong problems for them.
"Where is Uncle Fang going on vacation?" Sun Xiaozhao sarcastically mocked his boss for the first time in his life, and felt a little uncomfortable, so he stuck out his tongue, "Is it with Sister Sheng Chen?"
"You guessed it, add 10 points. Fang Shanmu looked slightly ashamed, "I owe her a trip." As early as when she was in college, I promised to take her to the Northeast, but she never made the trip, and now is the best season in the Northeast, I want her to see the white mountains and black waters, and experience the feeling of the vastness of the world. ”
"There's a question I haven't been able to figure out, Uncle Fang......" Cheng Peng put his hands behind his back, looking old and serious, "If two people stay together for a long time, in addition to losing their freshness, will they still annoy each other?" I remember when I was a child, my parents always quarreled, sometimes one night at a time. I thought it was all like this, why didn't we separate, like when I was in school, if someone bothered me so much, I would definitely ignore him. ”
"Later, they stopped arguing again, and they talked about the house every day, and they talked with relish. I found out that they are not completely without a common language, some things quarrel when they talk, and some things can be quite speculative, and the world of adults is really complicated. Now they seem to be very affectionate, traveling everywhere, no one can do without anyone, and if they can't see each other after leaving for a while, they will immediately send WeChat to ask where the person is. ”
Fang Shanmu was silent for a while, and did not answer Cheng Peng immediately, the office was crowded with people, and he was surrounded in the middle, like a visiting speaker.
The old people say that young couples come to accompany each other, and the Buddhist scriptures say that children are debts, and they will not come without debts, and parents are fate, and they will not come without a reason. Between husband and wife, when they were young, they came together because of the attraction and needs of the sexes, and in terms of the views on some issues in life, two young people who grew up in very different environments and had no similarities in their original families came together, formed a family, lived together every day, and faced with trivial things in life and life choices, can there be no contradictions and frictions?
Slowly, two people will get along for a long time, and they will find that most of the arguments in life are meaningless and time-consuming, and sometimes you don't necessarily have to convince the other person, you just need to reach a consensus at some stage. Life is a process of continuous learning and growth, and everyone's view of things is not fixed, but will change with the improvement of knowledge and realm.
When they get older, the common habits of two people are formed, and the views on many things tend to be the same, and they also understand that marriage is a process of seeking common ground while reserving differences, and it is impossible to completely transform each other, but can only accept each other's shortcomings and different views, and try to expand the consensus and reduce contradictions as much as possible. When you get old, the world is no longer important, as long as you live your own small life, it is enough, and companionship is the most affectionate confession.
"There will not be a person in the world who will make you completely satisfied, even you yourself can't make yourself 100% satisfied, let alone others?" Fang Shanmu glanced around at everyone, "So, don't expect your lover to fully understand you, your friends will support you selflessly, even if they really want to, they can't do it, because even what you can't do yourself, how can others help you do it? ”
Cheng Peng pouted: "The answer is not satisfactory, the deduction is ten, it is too broad, and there is no specific guiding value." Uncle Fang, you are really insincere every day. Well, if you were to give your marriage a score, how many points would you give?"
"75 points. Fang Shanmu gave the answer without hesitation, "Marriage is a lesson, we are all students who are studying hard, we are all first-time people, and it is the first time to be someone else's husband and father, there must always be a trial-and-error mechanism, right?"
"In that case, my parents' marriage is at most 60 points. Cheng Peng waved his hand, "Disperse, disperse." Don't be complacent, although you all have a partner, but your hard days have just begun. Or am I good, how much a person is at ease, no one wants to care about me, and I don't want to care about anyone, do you understand? Freedom is the richest wealth. ”
"Cut!" the crowd scoffed at Cheng Pengpeng's self-comfort.
Fang Shanmu announced his vacation after the meeting. Of course, before leaving the company, he also explained his work in turn, and now Lin San-year-old can already take charge on his own, and Cheng Pengpeng can also be fully qualified for daily management work, as long as they are there, there will be no problem.
What reassures Fang Shanmu the most is that in the past month when good flowers have always bloomed and stopped, the growth game has firmly sat in the first place, occupying more than 30% of the market share, even if the growth guide is re-launched, if you want to catch up, the hope is very slim.
Now that good flowers bloom are no longer afraid, Jiang Fuyu's mind fluctuates and his morale is low, only Zhou Xiao hides in the shadows, waiting for an opportunity to move. I don't know what kind of counterattack he is planning.
After returning home, Fang Shanmu told his son that he was going to take Sheng Chen to the Northeast, and wanted his son to temporarily go to Zheng Yuandong's house for a few days, but his son waved his hand: "No, I can do it at home by myself, now that takeout is so developed, and there is a self-heating hot pot or something, eating is a trivial matter, as long as the traffic is solved." ”
"Don't take the opportunity to ask for a new phone. Sheng Chen immediately guessed his son's careful thoughts.
In order to prevent his son from playing games and watching the Internet, Sheng Chen bought an old smartphone for his son, and it has been for three years. Although you can go online and log in, the network speed is extremely slow, and you can't play games, and the configuration is too low.
My son kept clamoring for a new phone.
Regarding the current situation of this generation of children growing up surrounded by electronic products, although Fang Shanmu does not support children playing games, it is not a completely forbidden attitude, he hopes that his son can have appropriate access to some games, or he will not fall behind his peers. Nothing can be one-size-fits-all, one-size-fits-all is the simplest and crudest mindless method, which will limit the growth of students with different abilities.
Fang Shanmu hopes that his son will be familiar with electronic products from an early age, adapt to scientific and technological life, and play games in a reasonable and restrained manner after studying. He also doesn't want his son to always carry an old mobile phone from a few years ago, although his son doesn't have much of a comparison mentality, as a top student, he doesn't need to compare clothes with others than shoes and luxury goods, but the necessary communication tools still need to keep up with the times.
Fang Shanmu smiled and took out a new mobile phone from his bag, which was Huawei's P30PRO, and handed it to his son: "New Huawei, son, remember one thing, tools are always for people, and people can't become slaves of tools." ”
Sheng Chen was angry: "Fang Shanmu, you ...... I finally eliminated the possibility of him playing games at the root, and you are better to buy him a new phone. If your son can't get into a prestigious university, you are the culprit. ”
The son exclaimed, grabbed the mobile phone and went upstairs: "Mom and Dad, even if you go on vacation, don't worry about me, I can do it alone!
"Look what has become of your son?" Sheng Chen smiled angrily.
Fang Shanmu took Sheng Chen's hand: "It's better to be sparse than blocked." Blocking is the easiest way and the most effective in the short term, but in the long run, the hidden danger is greater and it is short-sighted. If the human body is sick, is it better to guide or block? Blocking is to cover up the ears and steal the bell, and to avoid medical treatment!"
"If you don't let him play with his mobile phone now, don't let him touch games, not only will he not know anything, but he will leave us to go to college in the future, and he will be out of control as soon as he gets in touch. Why are they all emphasizing the importance of raising their daughters? It is to let their daughters have knowledge and experience from an early age, so that they will not be deceived by others when they grow up with a little favor. However, I do not agree with the statement that the son should be poor and raise his son, who must also have knowledge and experience from an early age, so that he will not be disoriented by temptation when he grows up. ”
"How many children lose themselves and fall into all kinds of traps as soon as they go to college? ”
"I don't want to talk to you. Sheng Chen was still angry.