Facing everyone's inquisitive eyes, Xu Changshou said directly: "What I heard is to the effect that Baiyi Pavilion believes that Zhou Xing's runaway is actually a microcosm of the youth of the current era......"

Swish!

Xu Changshou said here, suddenly heard a gust of wind in his ears, he stopped to look at his daughter's raised hand, and asked, "Yuanyuan, what's wrong?"

Xu Youyuan asked curiously, "Dad, what does the miniature mean?"

"Ah, this ......" Xu Changshou couldn't think of an answer for a while when he heard this question, but two seconds later, He Qianxi answered his daughter's question for him, "Yuanyuan, the meaning of epitome is that it can represent a class of people or things with the same characteristics." ”

After thinking about it, He Qianxi gave an example: "It's like Yuanyuan, you are a microcosm of ordinary students in this era." ”

"Oh, that's the epitome......"

After that, Xu Youyuan ate silently and thought silently, and Xu Changshou was able to continue his previous words: "Baiyi Pavilion believes that Zhou Xing is a microcosm of young Rao in the current era, and the characteristic of this group of young Rao is that they yearn for freedom more and hope to have the right to choose.

"This group of young people is different from the young people of the past, and probably more than ninety percent of the young people in the past will only grow up under the arrangement of their parents and teachers.

"And what most of your generation want is probably for someone to put a lot of choices in front of you, and let you choose what you want to do, and not block the road that may or may not work, and then let you choose what is not blocked.

"It is true that by giving up the right to choose in this way, the older people will think that their juniors may suffer a lot of losses, some of which they have suffered before.

But many seniors are reluctant to write about their experiences and tell their juniors, nor do they want to see their juniors crash into the south wall.

"They deprived their younger generations of the right to suffer, and in the end it was difficult for these young people to become self-reliant, forcing them to go around the difficult mountains, and actually depriving them of the opportunity to learn climbing skills.

Baiyi Pavilion finally commented: I hope that all the elders will face up to the needs of young Rao and return to the rights that the elders once had - the right to suffer. ”

The right to suffer losses...... Su Yan felt that this word sounded weird, but in fact, it was indeed a lot of appeals.

Either the elders can analyze what I may have suffered and let me judge whether I can avoid it, or whether I can jump over it.

If I don't come out, what loss can I suffer, don't say something like "you will definitely suffer", obviously I don't know anything, I have to hit the self-confidence of the younger generation, can this be for your good"?

Su Yan has always believed that if the elders have doubts about a new thing with an unknown future, and are worried that their juniors will suffer if they walk in, then they should help him analyze and find out the problem, and take him to analyze whether they can avoid these pitfalls.

If not, analyze the pitfalls and ask him if there is a way to avoid them.

If you can't even analyze where the pit is and what it is, then wait for the junior to hit the wall and fall into the pit, and then find a way to analyze with him whether it can solve the problem.

If this can't be done, then after he hits the wall and falls into the pit, ask him if he can solve it by himself, solve the problem without talking and pull him back, summarize these unavoidable problems and write them down, and leave them for the next generation.

But the reality is so uncomfortable, the above four really good practices for children, many elders will not consider at all, even if their children may not step on the pit when chasing new things, they do not want their children to embark on a new path at all.

Why?

Because they are not afraid that their children will hit the wall and fill their heads, in fact, they are not afraid that their children will not be able to climb out of the pit.

In fact, they are afraid that their children will hit the wall by taking a new path, and they themselves may lose something, such as useless face.

There is an old saying in China: "Thirty years ago, the father respected the son, and thirty years later, the son respected the father." ”

They feel that their children are full of bags and mud, which is causing them to lose face, so they dare not let their children try any new path, just take the most stable road honestly.

At least, they argued, it wouldn't be too bad.

However, they do not understand that the more stable the road, the more difficult it is for most young people, because the more stable the road, the more stable the upper class, and the more difficult it is for the lower class to get started.

People have been running excellent systems for decades, and they must try to choose better or more useful people to enter, and there are many people who choose one of dozens, hundreds, or even thousands of people to work steadily.

And when the younger generations are allowed to participate in these systems to participate in the assessment, they will not care how uncomfortable these young people are in this kind of stable and orderly assessment.

Why did they become double-standard at this time?

Because taking a new road will hit a big bag, outsiders will make your child not do his job, this is not good, hurry up and pull him back.

And walking on a stable old road with a big head, outsiders will make your child really hard, so you can keep going.

In these two cases, parents and elders will have completely different feelings, the former is that they have no way to teach their children, while the latter can make them hear false compliments, and they are naturally full of blessings

Thinking of this, Su Yan couldn't help but complain contemptuously in his heart: "Heh! Is this false sense of accomplishment really so important? Parents who think like this, their children do not live for themselves or for these parents in the end, they just live for a few words of praise. But these parents love it for your own good......

Obviously, Su Yan doesn't like this kind of parents, although he was also grateful for such parents, and he also cried because he watched a certain Rao filial piety education video, although he still has gratitude for some of the actions of his former parents, but those have finally passed.

Fortunately, I have not met such parents again in this life.

After thinking about these things for about a minute, when Su Yan came back to his senses, the others had already been chatting for a while.

Su Yan looked around at the others, Huang Xiaobing was looking at him, Xu Changshou and He Qianxi were discussing about this report, and Xu Youyuan was eating silently.

Suddenly, Xu Youyuan stopped eating, swallowed the food in her mouth, and opened her mouth to say, "Daddy, is it hard to eat?

Su Yan smiled, thinking that she might have thought about it for a while after listening to Uncle Xu's words, but she didn't expect to ask this question.

The others also laughed, thinking that Xu Youyuan's question was cute.

As a loving mother, as a loving mother who has been at home for the longest time, she and Chiki like to discuss various topics with their daughters the most.

So she smiled and said to Xu Youyuan: "Yuanyuan, it's not delicious, but eating a little occasionally is actually some good, so that Yuanyuan can grow up quickly~"

Xu Youyuan heard that she could grow up quickly, and she became more interested in suffering: "Really?

"Well, my mother doesn't know about this, why don't you ask Brother Su Yan and Sister-in-law Bingbing?" finished, and Qianxi smiled at Su Yan and Huang Xiaobing kindly.