Lin Yan waved his hand not to smoke, just to drink tea, and then looked at Ma Da Tune with a smile: "Is that sophomore girl of yours out of play?"

When Ma Datuo ate with Yu Zihan and Liu Dawei in the cafeteria last time, he used his camera to hook up with beautiful women, and the reputation is to discover beauty, of course, this guy is indeed a king of mouth, and that senior sister is also attracted to him, and it has been better for a while.

"Hey, hey. Ma Da smiled awkwardly: "I'm thinking, it's not that he dislikes me, but I'm graduating from college soon, isn't it to have a higher vision and pursuit!"

"Speak human words!" Lin Yan didn't believe it.

"She dumped me. Ma Da said in frustration.

"Wang Meng, what about you?" Lin Yan then asked.

"I was friends with Cui Zhiyang for a while, and then I felt that the time was right, so I confessed, but she was shocked and said that we just want to be friends, and then there was no more. ”

"Alas, we are all suffering from the same disease! fate~~" Ma Da said in a big tune.

Lin Yan smiled: "What kind of life is this, in fact, you all contributed to it yourself!"

"Why???"

Everyone looked confused, as the boss who stepped on a few boats in everyone's eyes and didn't overturn, he really admired it, and it was like asking for a few tricks.

Lin Yan took a sip of tea, put down the teacup, and put his hands together: "I'm not here to teach you to pick up girls, nor do I want you to learn from me, everyone has their own way, and you can't understand the true essence of learning others, and you can't learn it, so I'm here to impart knowledge." ”

These few words immediately made a few people feel high, and they were serious, of course, only these senior sufferers can realize that for their own lifelong happiness, if they don't understand, they must put it in their minds first!

"Teacher Lin said yes!" Ma Da quickly picked up.

"Then let's take you for example!" Lin Yan immediately whipped the corpse with a big whip, "How did you determine the relationship in the first place?"

"How do you mean I chased it?" asked Ma Datuo after a moment's thought.

Lin Yan immediately interrupted, shook his head and said: "Your first sentence was wrong, we haven't studied books on the relationship between men and women since we were children, and we have always been familiar with it, listening to the words of our parents and friends, and being influenced by their concepts, thinking that girls are all chasing after us!"

"But in fact, this was not right from the beginning! This concept is unscientific in the first place, why is it propaganda that men chase women instead of women chasing men? Why do men want to lick dogs? Constantly curry favor with girls? And then girls choose from all kinds of men like choosing commodities, and discard the worthless ones?"

"Have you ever seen me chasing girls? Have you ever seen me send flowers with a dead face, creating romance and touching? Greeting me every day, sending this and that, and holding hands for a year and a half?"

"It's not chasing, how can this be ...... Can you establish a relationship with a girl?"

"Girls rely on attraction!"

Ma Da was unconvinced: "But I also caught up with it!"

Lin Yan was aggressive: "Then what?"

"Divided. "Ma Da has no confidence.

"So I want to say that women don't just chase and lick ~ blindly. Most people's first idea is that they are wrong and use the wrong way to date girls. ”

"There is something in human nature called equality, and if you please someone, there will be a kind of status

Below her delusions, both men and women. ”

"When you pursue a girl you like, she subconsciously thinks that she is a high-value person, even if your conditions are better than hers, it will make her feel superior. This is caused by the subconscious, and some people say that it is an instinct given by genes!"

"So once your thinking is licking dog thinking, then congratulations, you will enter a vicious circle, constantly satisfy her, constantly let her improve her self-judgment ability, after she is satisfied, and before there is no higher value person out of danger, you can temporarily become her spare tire, use when needed, when she finds that someone better than you appears by her side, you will be ruthlessly abandoned!"

"Ma Datuo, what do you say, even if you succeed in making an appointment with her, and even make substantial progress, what is the result?"

"Because your posture is very low, you are willing to do anything for her, and then she will test you with peace of mind, find fault with you, and constantly ask for value!"

"Why do girls want to follow me? Because I won't lower my value in order to pursue them, they will be attracted to me! And I just need to release the emotional framework of men and women when I feel their desire for me, and they will self-fugature, just like you lick the goddess to lick ~ me!"

"That's why I'm pursuing girls, it's actually a wrong idea!"

Ma Datuo and these people all opened their mouths, looking surprised, and their feelings and their view of love were subverted.

Since childhood, I have been educated by my elders, and the influence of the surrounding environment: I should chase the girls I like!

This generation grew up with a mostly traditional experience, learning a lot from books in school, but not teaching us how to deal with the opposite sex!

The vast majority of people are in a state of ignorance under the domination of instinct. The love of many parents' generation is matchmaker's marriage, and the free love of the new era puts those boys at a disadvantage of thinking that they are low-value.

The concept thrown out by Lin Yan can be said to be an innovation of their ideology.

Girls don't rely on chasing, they rely on attraction!

Wang Meng thought about his experience and asked, "Then what's the matter with me? I get along well with her, like a friend, I don't talk about anything, and when I think the relationship is mature enough, I scare her away as soon as I confess." ”

Lin Yan laughed, but looking at Wang Meng's confused expression, he explained: "You are inexperienced, and you have never grasped what is the favor between the opposite sex and what is the friendship between confidants. Your chat has always been a dialogue based on friendship, and there is no temptation in the framework of men and women, Cui Zhiyang, who is already a hearty personality, naturally doesn't care about this. ”

"She's always been an object you can talk to, a very fun friend, not an attraction between the opposite sex, you are suddenly confessing, what do you think the other party thinks?—— I am a buddy, but you want to fall in love with me?"

"You just feel good about yourself and think it's related, but that's not what she thinks. It's like you're having a lot of fun with Ma Da Tune every day, and one day Ma Da Tune suddenly says to you, he likes you, he wants to anal you, what do you think?"

"it!"

The people around were amazed, and goosebumps rose all over their bodies.

What a painful realization!

Wang Meng is in pain, but Ma Da has a problem: "Brother Lin, sister doesn't chase after me,

So how do you attract girls?"

"Let's put it this way, whether it's chasing or attracting, it's just a noun, as long as you understand that you don't blindly go~ Licking is a big step. ”

"The first thing you have to show is your most positive side, show your shining points, such as playing basketball well, getting good grades, being handsome, talented, and having a successful career......"

"You don't need to be the best, you just need to be better than the people she comes in contact with. Women are very perceptive, they have a set standard for their partners, which varies from person to person, every girl is different, but their subconscious minds are the same to sense who is better. ”

"So if you want to attract girls, as long as it's not too high, you can do what you like, master some basic means, and simply improve, it's still enough for you to use for a lifetime, so that you can find the object you like. ”

"Of course, the most important thing is to attract each other, and liking each other is the best way to develop a relationship!"

The roommates' questions came again: "Brother Lin, we are not like you, handsome and rich, we don't need to improve, show them and run away with you, we have no advantages......"

Lin Yan shook his head: "Improving yourself doesn't mean that you must be rich, and rich men may not be able to firmly control their women's hearts! I haven't seen the news of celebrity gossip? There are more wives cheating on drivers and agents, so ...... them."

"You go from sloppy clothes to clean, from trembling speech to confident demeanor, you have no money but you can make money when you show it, and your behavior is consistent with your heart, you naturally surpass many people!

Several people drank this bowl of poisonous chicken soup very seriously.

Obviously, they all listened, and Ma Da laughed and said, "Then can you soak in the goddess?"

"You dream! This is just the most basic method, for those high-minded and arrogant, eighty or nine-point girls, rich and capable women, why do you attract others? You are still low-value people in their eyes, and you are friends when you are bored!"

"What then?"

Lin Yan scolded with a smile: "You didn't even enter the door, it's like becoming a master? You don't even have the courage to talk to a girl, and you ask me what to do? Do you want to drop a sister Lin for you?"

was scolded by Lin Yan with a smile, and everyone laughed and understood: It's better to be honest, let's start with a low-scoring girl.

"As for how to talk to me, don't ask me!" Lin Yan ate meat: "Eat vegetables, don't just listen to me bragging with hunger." ”

But the minds of several people have long been on eating.

"Brother Lin, after saying so much, theoretically we know, but in practice, we really don't know how to come forward and talk to us, even if we do, we don't know what to say!"

"Do you want me to show up?"

"Okay, good!" Several people were active, very much looking forward to it.

"I think the waiter in this incense pot is very good, she is a sister from the Normal College next door to us, this shop is opened by her relatives, Brother Lin, why don't you come and demonstrate!" Ma Da Diao immediately answered.

"This is not very good!" Lin Yan was stunned.

"Brother Lin, didn't you say it, as long as you show your high value, you will naturally be able to attract girls?

Lin Yan looked back at the girl sitting at the bar playing with her mobile phone, and sure enough, she was seven or eight points beautiful.

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