Chapter 18 There is always something good going on

——In life, there is always something interesting to leave for the world, and the growth game is to fulfill everyone's dream and make them believe that there are always some good things happening.

Although there will be some episodes and discordant notes in the process of good things happening, Fang Shanmu still firmly believes that the beauty of the world is closely related to everyone, so people who desire beauty and happiness are working hard and paying, hoping that the world can become more and more sunny.

In the end, after a heated discussion, it was almost early in the morning that the direction of the two story lines was basically determined.

The first is a story line based on the life experiences of Du Tunan and Xu Wenqu, called Story No. 80A, which is the common fate and joys of the 80s generation.

Of the three versions of the storyline, the first version is named 80A-1 - it is exactly the same as the real life experience of Du Tunan and Xu Wenqu at the beginning, and it is not until the two return to China and divorce that a different trajectory from reality occurs. Du Tunan returned to his hometown, and under his father's arrangement, he married a wife and had children in a small city in the northeast, and lived a plain life but quiet years. Many years later, Du Tunan and Xu Wenqu, who were already middle-aged, met unexpectedly. Xu Wenqu is still single, and he sighed when he saw Du Tunan again. She deeply regretted that she divorced Du Tu Nan because of the problem of whether to have children, and thought that she was too simple and naïve at the beginning, and now she has been single for many years, and she has realized what love is in loneliness and loneliness, love is dedication, is to pay, is to plant fruit, and look forward to harvest.

Xu Wenqu wanted to get back together with Du Tunan, and Du Tunan was also a little moved, but the sense of family responsibility made him stop, even if Xu Wenqu begged and wanted to spend a short time in his life with him, he still turned around and left without looking back. Because he knows that many things in life, once missed, are forever, and there is no possibility of starting over.

It's never too late to start in life, it's just a self-comforting word. Doing the right thing at the right age is the attitude you should have.

For the first version, Xu Wenqu did not approve of the final ending, she felt that Du Tu Nan should spend his old age with Xu Wen Qu, and it could be designed that Du Tu Nan's wife died of illness, and they continued their relationship, and finally made up for their life regrets. But Fang Shanmu disagreed, and Lin Sansui also felt that it was better to miss it. When he asked for Du Tunan's opinion on the phone, he also insisted that if he missed it, he didn't have to look back.

In the end, Cheng Pengpeng came to a conclusion: "Men are ruthless, and what they can't get will no longer be taken to heart, and if they meet a better one, the previous ones will be left behind." ”

As a result, her conclusion was unanimously opposed by three men, Fang Shanmu, Gu Hao and Lin Sansui. Fang Shanmu concluded from the fact that most men can't refuse the help of their ex-girlfriends, and women usually don't give their ex-boyfriends the opportunity to ask for help at all, and the different ways men and women deal with their exes shows that women are actually more ruthless than men in emotional matters.

Then it sparked a big discussion among several people.

After discussing for half an hour, Fang Shanmu stopped the argument and returned to the other two versions of Du Tu Nan and Xu Wenqu's storyline.

The second version is named 80A-2, the process of Du Tu Nan and Xu Wenqu's acquaintance and love remains unchanged, after the two got married, when they faced the problem of having children, Xu Wenqu was persuaded by Du Tu Nan from the beginning of the disagreement, and the two had the crystallization of love. Xu Wenqu originally thought that after she had a child, she would stimulate motherhood, but she unexpectedly suffered from postpartum depression and did not get out of the psychological shadow for a long time. She couldn't see the child crying, didn't want to hold the child, didn't want to feed the child, and didn't even want to see the child, so she divorced Du Tunan.

After the divorce, she traveled the world alone, came into contact with many people and things, and also experienced a different life. But as she grew older and gained more knowledge, Xu Wenqu slowly changed many views, such as that she believes that not having children is a sign of women's strength and independence, and that Chinese women should learn from European and American women's feminism. But after staying in Europe and the United States for a long time, I realized that what she thinks of women's rights has been over-interpreted in China, and European and American women pursue economic and personality independence, they make their own money, take care of their own children, drive their own groceries, as long as it is something they can do, and never trouble men.

Chinese women are different, what they pursue is that men should do what men should do, and they must do what women should do. Women can ask men to give everything for them in the name of love, and they don't have to be grateful for it, let alone have something in return.

Xu Wenqu finally understood her problem, she ostensibly pursued the strong independence of European and American women, but she still had the idea of Chinese women's dependence in her bones, not only to be equal to men or even surpass men in rights, but also not to pay obligations. As a woman, you should not be treated as a fertility tool.

But procreation, as an innate function of women, is a great female talent and distinguishes it from men, so why refuse to have children?

Refusing to have children does not show how different you are, it can only show that you have no sense of responsibility and do not want to bear the personal responsibilities and social attributes that should be recognized.

After Xu Wenqu figured it out, he returned to China and found Du Tunan and wanted to remarry Du Tunan. But by this time, Du Tunan had already married and had children, and his life was full and happy. She had to leave sadly and disappointed, and met Jiang Chengzi. Jiang Chengzi, who was a few years younger than her, was very obsessed with her, and they soon got married.

As a result, after marriage, Jiang Chengzi didn't want to take responsibility and didn't want to have children. Later, Xu Wenqu became pregnant unexpectedly, and he strongly asked Xu Wenqu to take the child. Xu Wenqu disagreed, and the two fell into a cold war. Xu Wenqu knew that Jiang Chengzi was still a big boy who had not grown up, and he had a certain mother-love plot, so he was infatuated with her.

After some persuasion and enlightenment, Jiang Chengzi slowly accepted the fact that he had a child, and after the child was born, Jiang Chengzi also changed his previous attitude and loved the child very much.

…… In the second version, Xu Wenqu's later marriage partner was a fictional character, but at the strong request of Lin San, it was changed to Jiang Chengzi. Fang Shanmu also agreed, Gu Hao did not object, and Xu Wenqu did not insist anymore, anyway, it is a virtual life, regardless of whether he is someone else or Jiang Chengzi, it will not become a reality.

The third version is named 80A-3, and Du Tunan and Xu Wenqu separated for five years after they divorced due to fertility problems. Five years later, the two reunited. During this period, Xu Wenqu experienced another failed marriage, and still divorced her second husband because of fertility problems. However, the second husband was far less patient with her than Du Tunan, and after two or three conversations failed to reach a consensus, he directly found a woman outside to live with, and after the child was born, he took the mistress and the child to appear in front of Xu Wenqu and show off to her.

Xu Wenqu was devastated and divorced angrily.

Du Tunan also experienced another painful marriage, but he was relieved faster and more simply than Xu Wenqu, and they separated after less than a year. After two failed marriages, he was depressed for a while, and then became obsessed with music. First, he formed a band with a group of people, opened a music restaurant, and after a great success, he opened many chain stores one after another.

When he met Xu Wenqu again, Xu Wenqu was alone and had nothing, while Du Tunan was also single, but he had a successful career and countless friends. After witnessing Du Tunan's success, Xu Wenqu thought back to what she had done before, and felt that she was still too self-righteous and too young back then, if she and Du Tunan were not separated, how could there be another injury and countless years of displacement?

The path of life is your own choice, and you can't blame others.

The two rekindled their old love and soon came together again. Xu Wenqu became pregnant soon after marriage, and after giving birth to a son for Du Tunan, she became a good wife and mother at home with peace of mind......

Xu Wenqu in the three versions is not the character Xu Wenqu likes in reality, she has repeatedly emphasized that she will never become her in the story line in reality, but for the needs of the plot, in order to meet the needs of players, and in order to be consistent with Fang Shanmu and others, she agreed to the final story line of the three versions.

The second storyline based on Lin's three-year-old life experience is named Story 90A, which is also divided into three versions. Because Lin's three-year-old experience is relatively simple, and his emotional experience is even thinner, his story line only discusses the general outline, and does not finalize it.

The 90A-1 version is close to copying the real experience of Lin's three-year-old boy and youth, and it was not until he entered Infinite Care that he found a major turning point in his life. First of all, he and Hu Pan established a relationship, although he also had conflicts with Jiang Chengzi because of this, Jiang Chengzi was not jealous that he liked Hu Pan, but opposed him being with Hu Pan, and felt that Hu Pan was not worthy of him. Later, he and Hu Pan developed very well, and they got married after a year of dating.

When he got married, his father was against it, and he didn't like Hu Pan. After getting married, Hu Pan and his father did not get along very well. But she didn't run away like Lin was three years old, but rose to the challenge and fought with Father Lin, and finally not only won the approval of Father Lin, but also made Father Lin realize that his arbitrariness was the source of family discord. Father Lin changed his previous style, and the Lin family regained its vitality.

The 90A-2 version, there was no change in the previous part, until Lin entered Infinite Care at the age of three, and he fell in love with Cheng Pengpeng. His relationship with Cheng Pengpeng was not smooth, and they fell in love quickly at first, and then quarreled constantly. But they couldn't be separated, and after reluctantly getting married, they only lasted for half a year and ended in divorce. After the divorce, Lin went to pursue Hu Pan again at the age of three.

The 90A-3 version is still the same childhood as it has not changed, but the difference is that Infinite Care Lin fell in love with Xu Wenqu at the age of three. In the end, it took a lot of effort to finally win Xu Wenqu's heart. After getting married, Xu Wenqu won the love of Father Lin with his calm and meticulous thinking, and Father Lin handed over the family business to Xu Wenqu to take care of, and Xu Wenqu slowly took control of the Lin family. After Lin was three years old, he simply retired and became a full-time husband.