Chapter 9: A Security Based on the Pain of the Husband
Fortunately, Jiang Fuyu was well-informed and calmly defused Sheng Chen's attack, neither angry nor embarrassed, but persuaded Sheng Chen not to take care of Fang Shanmu too tightly. Although Fang Shanmu is charming and a successful person, in her eyes, Fang Shanmu is enough to make her tempted. The most important thing is that Fang Shanmu belongs to the category of colored hearts and no colored galls.
Well, for the sake of family harmony, he admitted that he had a lustful heart and no lustful guts. He was also very grateful to Jiang Fuyu for his wit and for relieving him, but just when he thought that Sheng Chen was persuaded by Jiang Fuyu and was no longer unreasonable, Sheng Chen secretly revealed Fang Shanmu's bottom line to Fang Shanmu's competitors, and claimed that the negotiations between him and Jiang Fuyu broke down, causing competitors to take advantage of the situation and increase their offensive.
If it's just the breakdown of cooperation, it's nothing, the problem is that Fang Shanmu decided that success was imminent, and invested tens of millions of funds in the early stage to start preparations, but the result turned out to be a headlong fall, not to mention a dog gnawing mud, and because of the excessive movement, the chickens and eggs were beaten.
What made Fang Shanmu even more angry was that the reason why the cooperation was ruined was Sheng Chen's doing, and he couldn't explain to the company what was going on behind the scenes, so he had to silently endure the company's blame and punishment. When he was depressed by being suspended, he accepted Gu Hao's suggestion to go to Xishan to relax, but he almost lost his life.
People are unlucky, they really will stuff their teeth when they drink cold water, and they will choke on them again after stuffing their teeth?
Afterwards, although Sheng Chen also knew that he had done something wrong, he still had a hard mouth and refused to admit his mistake, which made Fang Shanmu extremely angry. What made him even more angry was that he had been missing for a few days, and something as big as almost dying in the deep mountains and old forests had happened, Sheng Chen was still cold and indifferent, and the once affectionate and intimate relationship had now turned into hatred and hostility?
What did he do wrong?What did Sheng Chen want?
"We've been together for more than ten years, if it's been 20 years since we met, right?" Fang Shanmu stopped his memories, returned to reality, and glanced at Sheng Chen lightly, "We have been with each other for so many years from acquaintance, love to acquaintance, and then to marriage, Sheng Chen, don't you understand why we have come to this day......?"
"That's enough, don't think I don't know what you've done, don't think about taking a bite back to clear yourself!" Sheng Chen interrupted Fang Shanmu's words, his cold gaze as sharp as a blade, "Don't explain, I know what you've done outside." Although you said before that if you cheat, you will go out of the house, but now that you are unemployed and compensated, it is not easy, I will share a house with you, plus ...... 2 million cash. ”
A trace of warmth flashed in Fang Shanmu's heart, indicating that Sheng Chen still had some affection for him: "I also have to emphasize, I didn't cheat, there is no one outside! Don't slander me! Also, how can there be 2 million cash at home? I remember that in addition to repaying the mortgage and car loan, I can't save much money every month......
"Over the years, I have carefully taken care of everything in my family, in addition to buying a house and managing money, I have also invested in some funds, and after calculation, there are also some incomes. Sheng Chen glanced at Fang Shanmu slightly, "Shanmu, to be honest, I don't want to divorce, as long as you promise me three conditions, we can get back together and go back to the past." ”
Fang Shanmu thought for a while: "Say it, I'll listen." ”
"First, I found you a job, although it is worse than the previous one, and the income is not high, but it is relatively stable. If you work hard for a few years, it is not without a future. ”
Fang Shanmu didn't speak.
"Second, I will no longer travel in the future, only do some administrative work, and will not be responsible for business. This will not only avoid contact with the opposite sex, but also benefit your body. People who are almost 40 years old should pay more attention to their bodies, try to drink less and stay up late, and reduce unnecessary socializing, it is time to do subtraction. ”
"Don't say it...... Fang Shanmu waved his hand, "I won't plan my life according to your design, I am your husband, not your son, nor your personal belongings." ”
Sheng Chen continued expressionlessly: "Third, let's have another child and have a second child. With one more child, your mind will be more inclined to the family and more at home. ”
Fang Shanmu stood up: "I have always had a point of view that men should fulfill their responsibilities to their families before the age of 40. After the age of 40, it is time to assume the social responsibility that should be assumed. Your three conditions do not meet my future life plan, I'm sorry, I can't accept it. ”
"Okay!" Sheng Chen responded to Fang Shanmu categorically, "Since you don't repent, I won't say anything more, sign it." ”
Fang Shanmu's efforts to restrain the anger "coaxed" to erupt, he slapped the table and stood up: "Sheng Chen, you are not qualified to say that I will not repent! I have never done anything wrong, it is you who have repeatedly made unreasonable trouble, not according to your ideas, in your eyes, the first time is ignorant, the second time is stubborn, and the third time is to die without repentance! Sheng Chen, have you ever thought about why I should arrange my life according to your ideas? I am your husband, an independent individual, and there is no binding or control in the terms of the marriage commitment, and you are not qualified or high enough to tell me what is right and what is wrong!"
Fang Shanmu has not been a rule-following person since he was a child. When he was taking the entrance examination, his father wanted him to take the architecture department, because his father had been engaged in the construction industry for many years and had certain contacts in the industry, and he also believed that the construction industry had prospects and good employment. He thinks that his father's so-called connections are limited to the local area, how useful can a network in a fourth- or fifth-tier city be? And he has long made up his mind not to return to his hometown.
Therefore, he applied for a university in Beijing and majored in computer science. When he graduated, his father wanted him to return to his hometown, and he could help him find an errand job in a government office, stable and with a good income, but he refused. He doesn't want to go back to his parents, listen to their nagging and live in the shadow of his parents, he likes to be free and uninhibited.
He wanted to organize his own life.
But now Sheng Chen likes everything by her temperament, from the furnishings of the house, the rules of eating, the decoration and the style of the furniture, these Fang Shanmu endured it, all the big and small affairs of the family, even including the management and distribution of funds, he handed them over to Sheng Chen, and he didn't ask about them. But Sheng Chen still had to ask him to listen to her advice in terms of interpersonal communication, work methods, and career planning, so he couldn't bear it.
Everyone has their own boundaries, even if they are like a couple. If it was before, Fang Shanmu would have restrained himself in replying a few words, and today he was out of control, and finally had a seizure.
It was also that he was completely desperate for Sheng Chen, neither caring about what happened to him who almost died in the deep mountains and old forests, nor understanding his embarrassment of having nothing now, and wanting to control his life, did she really have no regrets, and it was not clear that it was her intervention that caused him to make a mistake in his work and end up where he is now?
"I have the achievements I have now, and I can get to where I am today, all of them are the result of my own hard work, and they are all the right choices I made without listening to your advice! If I listened to you, I might not even have one-third of my current achievements! I wondered, Sheng Chen, why do you think that your ideas must be correct, and what achievements do you have that can be convincing? What successful experience do you have? What big projects have you handled? What shining career resume do you have? You have been a housewife so much, your knowledge and insight are still stuck in more than ten years ago, and now you are a college graduate who is stronger than you, more visionary, more knowledgeable than you, and more advanced than you!"
Sheng Chen stood up slowly, there was no sadness or joy on his face, but Fang Shanmu, who was familiar with her, knew that the more he remained silent, the more it showed that the anger in Sheng Chen's heart could not be suppressed.
Sure enough, Sheng Chen came to Fang Shanmu step by step, his eyes were indifferent: "Fang Shanmu, you finally said what was in your heart, I know, you have long disliked me, you think that I am neither young and beautiful, nor have I the ability, but also have long hair and short knowledge, isn't it?
"Don't think that I have been cut off from the world without going out to work all these years, I was better than you in school and better than you, and it is the same now! As long as I go out to work, I will surpass you in a few years! Without my help and guidance to you, you don't want to be a vice president now, you can't even be a deputy director!" Sheng Chen's voice was sad and desperate, "Fang Shanmu, you remember every word you said today, one day, you will find that you are inferior to me in all aspects." You will regret your decision today!"
Fang Shanmu sneered: "Don't wait for the future, now I can admit that I am inferior to you in all aspects." But what's the use? Society doesn't recognize your value, only I admit it, it's just a lie to deceive yourself. I don't understand, Sheng Chen, I know that you restrain me and control me because you are insecure. But have you thought about it, you can't base your security on my pain......"
"You are my husband, and if you are not built on your suffering, will you be built on the suffering of others?"
Fang Shanmu rolled his eyes, why do women always find the point when they quarrel, on the contrary, the level of vexatiousness is always first-class?