Fang Shanmu avoided answering: "Gu Hao hasn't come back yet, he has already answered your question with his actions." Straight to the point, three years old, tell me about your harvest today. ”

Lin Sansui talked about today's process, skipped the conversation with Jiang Fuyu at the end, and concluded: "It has been agreed that the contract will take effect tomorrow, and a new version of the fee will be released within a week, and the two sides will strictly abide by the terms of the offensive and defensive alliance, and shall not arbitrarily increase or lower the fee standard, let alone suspend the fee." ”

Fang Shanmu nodded, his eyes showing appreciation: "Not bad, yes, the three-year-old thing is done properly." ”

"Your harvest today is not small, right?" Lin Sansui rubbed his hands excitedly, "I have long heard that Zhongshan Park is a famous blind date corner in the capital, how about Pengpeng, was caught by a few sons and brothers?"

Everyone laughed and talked about the interesting story in Zhongshan Park.

Xu Wenqu is still as calm as ever: "My summary is almost written, and it has really touched a lot, and today's trip to Zhongshan Park has made me change my views on many things." ”

"There may be more impactful things to come, and some things will change your mind again. Fang Shanmu received Gu Hao's WeChat, saying that he wanted to bring Tang Meiwen over to get to know everyone, "The person will arrive soon, ask Qu, you go and open the door." ”

Xu Wenqu came to the door, opened the door, and stood at the door Gu Hao and a woman with an intellectual and elegant temperament, at first sight, she inexplicably had a good impression of her.

"Hello, I'm Xu Wenqu, it's nice to meet you. Xu Wenqu, who had always been indifferent, took the initiative to extend a hand of friendship to Tang Meiwen, and she was also a little puzzled in her heart, maybe this is the aura that Uncle Fang said.

"Hello Wenqu, I'm Tang Meiwen. Tang Meiwen smiled sweetly and took Xu Wenqu's hand, "Listen to Gu Hao tell your story, you have studied abroad for many years, we will definitely have a common language." I have been abroad for more than 10 years, and I have only recently returned home. ”

After being abroad for a long time, there will naturally be a different aura on his body, and as a kind of person, Xu Wenqu sensitively captured it for the first time.

After entering the house, Gu Hao solemnly introduced Tang Yiwen to everyone. Since the love story of Gu Hao and Tang Meiwen has long been circulated among everyone, they are no strangers to Tang Meiwen, and everyone has sketched her image in their hearts.

At first sight, they were full of good feelings for Tang Meiwen, not only because Tang Meiwen was indeed intellectual and elegant, but also because Tang Meiwen had cultivated many years abroad to be polite and polite, measured in politeness, and sincere in proportion.

Gu Hao saw that Tang Meiwen was very popular, and he was even more excited, running around happily, like a child. Fang Shanmu couldn't help but sigh that a man really likes a woman and will be willing to introduce her to his closest friends, because he wants them to recognize her. Conversely, if a man doesn't recommend his girlfriend to a friend, it means that he probably doesn't really love her.

Before coming back, Gu Hao had already informed Fang Shanmu in advance that he was going to bring Tang Meiwen back to get to know everyone, and said that Tang Meiwen's experience abroad should be able to talk to Xu Wenqu. Now it seems that she and Xu Wenqu can not only chat, but also chatted late, and she chatted happily with everyone.

chatted and chatted, and talked about what happened to me at the blind date corner today.

Xu Wenqu looked helpless: "I always thought that I was in good condition in the marriage and love market, but today's incident hit me hard, it turned out that I was already a disliked category, and 90% of parents would directly ignore me." It's sad for a woman, and if she were abroad, she wouldn't be like this. ”

"Ask Qu that your time abroad is still a little shorter, and my time abroad is long, which may not be the same as what you know. Tang Meiwen listened to everyone's experiences in the blind date corner and smiled, "The blind date thing is incredible, and the beauty of love lies in the unknown, in the adventure and exploration process after the encounter, rather than the result." Result-oriented blind dates will inevitably attach many social attributes and ignore the natural attributes of being human. People have curiosity and a desire to explore, love is one of the joys of life, and what matters is the process rather than the result. Even if there is no result in the end, falling in love with each other is also a beautiful thing worth savoring. ”

"And you also have a misunderstanding about women's rights and self-improvement abroad. The feminist movement in the United States began in the 60s, and it is true that the status of women has been improved. But if you look at the United States today, are there more successful men or women? Women are born with a physical and psychological gap with men, have a different social division of labor, and have different natural attributes, so why do we have to force comprehensive equality? Don't compare our own shortcomings with the advantages of others, and we should not use our own advantages to attack others' shortcomings. ”

Tang Meiwen couldn't help but smile shyly when she saw that everyone was looking at her listening: "I said nonsense, just listen to it, don't take it seriously." ”

"Don't be modest, your real life experience is certainly more real and convincing than it sounds. Fang Shanmu sat upright, "This morning, I first took a lesson in the blind date corner, and now I will give you a foreign marriage and love observation class for each article, you are blessed today, and you can harvest a lot." ”

"Uncle Fang is simply the contemporary Huang Shiren, no, it's Fang Papi! Go to the blind date corner in the morning, go to work in the afternoon, and go to class in the evening, we have sold it to you, right?" Cheng Peng screamed, stretched his waist, and yawned big.

Fang Shanmu's eyes widened: "Zhou Papi was wronged, he is a good person." So, I was wronged too. He laughed again, "Every article, to make you laugh, our team is an eclectic team, you go on." ”

"I heard Gu Hao say, ask Qu that you divorced Du Tunan because of the problem of having children? In fact, in foreign countries, it is a burden for women not to have children, and they regard it as their own nature, which is both instinct and duty, and even more proud. Europe and the United States are developed countries, Japan and South Korea are too, women in their countries have to follow their husband's surname after marriage, in fact, after I returned to China, I found that Chinese women are the highest status women in the world. Of course, the highest status also has a by-product, that is, the social work is the most involved and the most tiring. ”

"I sometimes don't understand what Chinese women are pursuing? They want equality between men and women, but they often say that you are a man and I am a woman, what do you care? Or that you are a big man, you can't let me do a little bit? What are you pursuing equality or what? What is equality? Equality is what men should do, men do, women do, women do. If you want to have a child, the man doesn't want to, it's he who doesn't fulfill his responsibilities. He wants to have children, you don't want to, and you don't respect him enough. Forming a family means having your own responsibilities in the family. ”

Xu Wenqu still has something to say: "My body is mine, I don't want to give birth, and it is also my freedom." ”

"It's your freedom, but if you don't want to have children, you should say it before marriage, if he can accept it, and then ask you after marriage, it's his fault. If you don't explain it before marriage, you will think that you will have children by default. If you don't have children after marriage, it's actually no different from cheating on him. Although Tang Meiwen's words were sharp, they were smiling and did not make people feel annoying, "For men, having children does not mean that it must be a task to inherit the lineage, but it is also one of the goals of life." There is a sentence I said, don't be angry, ask Qu ......"

Xu Wenqu nodded: "I'm mentally prepared......"

"What you're doing is unfair to Dutunan, and the whole thing is your fault. You treat a man like this, it's no different from a man who only finds out after many years that his child is not biological. ”

"You ......" Xu Wenqu was inevitably angry despite being mentally prepared, "You're too much in every article, you shouldn't say that about me." I didn't think about it that much, I just didn't want to give birth. ”

"No, you don't dare to face your own heart. In fact, you love Du Tunan very much, so you don't dare to tell him before marriage that you don't want children, for fear that he won't marry you after he finds out. You're a fluke. Later, you tell him the truth about Dutunan and find the psychological balance to convince yourself, and you start testing how much Dutunan loves you. You think that if he loves you enough, he will fulfill all your desires. But you forget one thing, love is mutual, marriage is a company with unlimited care and limited liability, you don't want to take on obligations, you just want to ask for rights, ask for canals, you ostensibly pursue equality between men and women, and refuse to have children in the name of women's rights, in fact, you are a pastoral feminist in disguise. ”

"No, I'm not!" Xu Wenqu was excited for the first time, she stood up on the ground, her face flushed, "Tang Meiwen, you don't understand anything, you just talk nonsense!"

Xu Wenqu slammed the door and left.

Tang Meiwen looked stunned: "Is she really angry?" stuck out his tongue, looking ashamed, "I'm sorry, I didn't expect her to be so poor, I heard Gu Hao say that she was a very calm and calm person, thinking that she really had enough sense." Sorry to bother you. ”

"It's okay, it's okay. Fang Shanmu was actually deeply touched, he has always hoped that Xu Wenqu could be touched by countless examples, and today's trip to Zhongshan Park was also intentional by him, not to crack down on Xu Wenqu and Cheng Pengpeng, but to let them have a deeper understanding of the current marriage market.

It is also beneficial to better write the following storyline.

But Tang Meiwen's approach provides him with another meaningful attempt - sometimes for some people, such as Xu Wenqu, it may be better to have a stronger impact and face-to-face questioning, which can allow her to analyze her heart more and face the problems she has been avoiding.

Everyone's personality is actually a way to communicate with the world. The more self-disciplined and calm a person is, the more likely it is that there is a deep vortex hidden in his heart, and as long as it is stimulated, it is likely to cause a huge impact.

You can't just follow the old way to solve problems, and sometimes you need some new ideas, and the appearance of Tang Meiwen is just the opportunity, her years of living abroad experience will bring an alternative perspective and fresh air to infinite care.