Chapter 50 Know how to do less, much more
"If a woman doesn't have children, she would have stopped a long time ago. They made trouble for more than a year because of this, and finally left. It's good now, and I want to remarry again, isn't it the result of not having children?" Du Lidong didn't care about Xu Wenqu's presence, "Not to mention that Wenqu is also older now, Tu Nan is still in his prime, he can find a younger one, you are like Peng Peng, you are good like Peng Peng, young and beautiful, and you are still a registered person in the capital, with Tu Nan's conditions, she is completely worthy of her." ”
"I ......" Cheng Pengpeng rolled her eyes very innocently, why did she lie down again, is it because she is the only one here who is single?
"I'm sorry, Uncle Du, Tunan is worthy of me, I am not worthy of him. Also, I'm single, let alone having children, and getting married is a waste of life for me. Cheng Pengpeng spared no effort to hit Du Lidong, she didn't like Du Lidong's self-righteous style, which was better than her father.
"You kid, how can you do this? Your parents don't care about you? Du Lidong looked disappointed and disgusted.
"I'm sorry, my parents can't control me, you can't control me, I am in charge of my life. My parents gave birth to me and raised me, and I will honor my parents, but I will not let them arrange my life. Cheng Peng glanced at Fang Shanmu, meaning Uncle Fang, I have already provoked a war, now it's your turn.
"Why are you young people like this now? Your parents are so failed that they gave birth to you and raised you, and you don't even complete the task of passing on the lineage, so what's the use of giving birth to you? Du Lidong was angry, and put down the wine glass heavily, "Don't drink it, get angry." ”
Du Tunan didn't speak, and couldn't hold back a laugh. Xu Wenqu also looked indifferent, ignoring Du Lidong's ridicule.
Fang Shanmu smiled quietly: "Uncle Du, don't be angry, one generation has a way of living, if the future generations are the same as us, it means that the country and society have stopped developing, which is a danger signal." ”
"The society is developing and progressing, and it is also the fundamental responsibility of children to have children. Du Lidong ignored Xue Zhifang's hint of pulling his sleeve, "Xiaofang, how many years have you been married?"
Fang Shanmu answered the question truthfully.
"Look at it, look at it, Xiao Fang has a successful career and a happy family, and he is your role model. Du Lidong was excited, thinking that he had found a fulcrum that could convince Du Tunan.
"There are many definitions of happiness, and not necessarily I am the standard. Similarly, role models have different standards, and they may prefer scientists, astronauts, and celebrities to company CEOs. Fang Shanmu nodded at Sheng Chen, "Sheng Chen and I are very happy, we are college classmates, and it has been more than 20 years since we met. Along the way, we also have many twists and turns. Where is there a smooth journey in life, but many times we are used to the wind and rain, and know that there will be a rainbow after the wind and rain. ”
"Tu Nan and Wen Qu are the same, they have experienced a lot, and after joining Infinite Care, they have also grown a lot. Their decision to remarry is a decision to face their shortcomings and to correct them. Fang Shanmu raised his wine glass, "The following words may offend Uncle Du, I will punish myself first." ”
"Don't you know that Uncle Du and Aunt Du are happily married?" Fang Shanmu's tone was very sharp.
"In my generation, marriages are all improvised, and we can't talk about happiness or unhappiness. Du Lidong glanced at Xue Zhifang disapprehantly, "Men do men's things, women do women's things, just live together, and pay attention to happiness or unhappiness." ”
"No, Uncle Du, you are wrong, my parents and Sheng Chen's parents, they are very happy. They're not a few years older than you, they're a generation. Fang Shanmu said in his heart, and he was also a little disgusted with Du Lidong's food and antiquity, but since it was Du Tunan's matter, he also had to bite the bullet, "Each generation has its own unique way of life, as well as the limitations and joys and sorrows of each generation. Maybe you think that the two of you are just living together, but when it comes to our generation, you must have feelings and like-mindedness. And when it comes to the Tunan generation, they will add to us that they must have a common language, have the same three views, and respect each other's privacy. ”
"Then the 90s generation, they will not be willing to give in, and would rather lack than abuse. As you said, the phenomenon of making do with life will not appear, and I am afraid that you don't know how many of the current divorce cases are filed by the woman?"
Du Lidong shook his head in astonishment: "Women still dare to mention divorce?"
"More than 70% of the divorce is filed by the woman!" Fang Shanmu's tone was a little heavy, "We can't blame women for being too realistic, maybe it is the inequality between men and women in the past few decades that has caused too much damage to women, resulting in the rise in the singleness and divorce intentions of young women now It is a retaliatory rebound." Today's girls are no longer married for the sake of food and life, they pursue complete equality and sincere communication. ”
"Don't try to convince me that I don't listen to you, you have to listen to me. Du Lidong came back to his senses, only to know that today's dinner was Du Tunan who called Fang Shanmu to stand for him, and he quit, "Xiao Fang, I don't care how you live, but Du Tunan is my son, I have to say how he lives." ”
Fang Shanmu was also a little angry: "Uncle Du, what do you want to say? Over the years, Du Tunan has long been a person who can live as he wants, and since he became an adult, he is legally an independent individual who can be responsible for himself." ”
"I don't agree with him remarrying Xu Wenqu anyway!" Du Lidong put down his wine glass heavily, "It's not easy for anyone to speak." ”
"Their divorce and remarriage are their own affairs, and it is true that no one can speak well. Fang Shanmu laughed angrily anyway, "Don't hide it from Uncle Du, they have already received a marriage certificate, and legally speaking, they are already husband and wife." ”
"What?" Du Lidong slapped the table and stood up, "Tu Nan, is it really fake?"
"Really. Du Tunan stood up, he used to be afraid of his father, but now he has no timidity, "No matter what you say, my decision will not change, and I will not regret it." In the past, it was because of you that I divorced Wenqu. Now I won't remarry because of you. ”
"You unfilial son!" Du Lidong was furious, raised his hand and threw out a wine glass and smashed it on Du Tunan's forehead, and blood suddenly gushed out.
Du Tunan did not move, nor did he wipe the blood: "Dad, have you never thought that the unhappiness of your marriage with your mother, as well as the discord in our family, are all your problems? You open your eyes and see what era it is, no longer the seventies and eighties of your youth. ”
Seeing that Du Lidong was about to have a seizure, Fang Shanmu was busy playing a round: "How long has Uncle Du been using a smartphone?" He noticed that the mobile phone Du Lidong put on the table was a Huawei.
"It's been years. Du Lidong picked up Huawei and flipped through it, "Don't think I'm old and can't keep up with the times, my mobile phones are all the latest models, and I get a new one every year." This one too, just came out. ”
Fang Shanmu took a few looks, and sure enough, it was the latest: "More than 3,000 of the latest models, which is very good." Uncle Du is very trendy, and he is also very proficient in using mobile phone functions, right?"
"I can use everything, WeChat, Alipay, calling, playing games, ......" Du Lidong looked proud, picked up his mobile phone and shook it, "I dare to say, it's newer than your mobile phone...... How much do you have phones?"
Fang Shanmu smiled and glanced at other people's mobile phones: "The difference between mobile phones is not only whether they are the latest models, but also related to market positioning." Your latest phone this year, it's actually not as good as our phone from last year. ”
"No way! Buy new electronics, don't buy old ones, don't bluff me, I understand. ”
"No, you don't understand. Fang Shanmu took out his mobile phone and put it on the table, "Some mobile phones are positioned as high-end flagships, that is, the highest models." Some are positioned in the mid-range, like your phone. There are also some low-end positioning, that is, styles below 2000 yuan. Low-end, mid-range and high-end, in the CPU, screen and main core components, there are significant differences in performance, basically it can be said that this year's low-end phones may not be as good as the high-end phones of three years ago......"
"Yes, yes. ”
"Uncle Fang is right. I used to use a 2000 yuan mobile phone, and it didn't work quickly. Now I use more than 10,000 of them, and it's been almost two years, and it's still very smooth. ”
Everyone echoed Fang Shanmu.
Du Lidong picked up his mobile phone and looked at it, and then took Fang Shanmu's mobile phone: "Your mobile phone and one of my brands, why do you want more than 10,000?"
"Mercedes has 200,000 cars and 2 million cars. Fang Shanmu changed his words, "Mobile phones are the same as people, some people's knowledge and vision are very limited, even if he feels that no matter how much he knows, he is not as broad as young people's vision." Uncle Du, do you think you have a higher education than Tu Nan, or do you go to more places than him? Reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles, the two together are a person's pattern. ”
"You mean, my pattern is not as good as Tu Nan?" Du Lidong didn't realize that he was surrounded by Fang Shanmu.
"I think Lao Fang's current pattern is not as good as our son who is in high school. Sheng Chen spoke in time, "I think Tu Nan is definitely better than you in terms of pattern and knowledge, Uncle Du, it's not that I look down on you, it's the law of nature, one generation is stronger than the next, and the country has hope." ”
"He must be better than me, if he is not better than me, isn't he studying in vain?" Du Lidong reacted and smiled, "But then again, he is a little better than me, but in marriage matters, I still have experience." ”
"Really?" Fang Shanmu stretched his voice, "Do you have experience in love, or do you have experience in a happy marriage?"