Blind date

A song you don't think of me, singing all the hearts of the girl, the boy regrets it, and every lyric interprets the love between the boy and the girl.

obviously loves you very much, poverty is fruitless, the boy is not cowardly, but he has missed it. May you be well, and forgive the boy for his cowardice.

Once upon a time there was a boy and a girl, and 0723 was the day they got married. 0723 is also the girl's birthday, and the two people who are three years apart gradually walk together because of a meeting.

The years are like water, everything in the world recovers, and there are lovers in the world who dream of breaking all things to mourn.

The boy and the girl should have had a good life, because of some incomprehension, estrangement, and the boy's momentary confusion, so that the girl in the middle of 2019, the girl quietly found a new love, and the girl deceived the boy. The girl is disappointed and even disgusted with the boy she once loved very much. Because of his own negligence, the boy lost the girl's love for him with his own hands.

Rumors and trust The boy chose to trust, the girl cried and told her grievances, and on the day she forced the boy to divorce, the boy softened his heart and was unwilling to make the girl sad, the boy chose to compromise, and the moment he walked out of the Civil Affairs Department, the girl turned her head and ran to her new love's home. This is the end of a relationship, the end of it forever. And the girl has not admitted her mistake since then, maybe she didn't dare, but the boy didn't seem to blame him for deceiving himself, he was unusually calm, like the eve of a storm, I hope this storm will come later, but the boy knows in his heart that this rain will come, but not now.

Love, an autumn rain is more real than it, and accompaniment, a winter snow is more gorgeous than it.

The mountain alliance and sea oath that have been together all their lives, but a third party quietly crushed a complete home, and this girl has always owed the boy a word of sorry. But she would never know that the boy would smile and say to her, "It's okay, I forgive you, I don't blame you." ”

At the moment of finishing the book, the girl didn't confess, the boy had tried to keep it again and again, but the determination of a person who changed his mind would only be understood after experiencing it, and that desperation would only grow after experiencing it.

A small city with a long history, there are beautiful and fantastical ancient legends, and there are exciting historical stories.

A small city with a population of 3 million, and I am a grain of dust in this vast sea of people, as unknown as many people.

Our story begins on December 28, 2010, when I met the love of my life at five o'clock in the afternoon.

"Ah, what?" I was lying on my bed in a daze, and my mother's constant shaking woke me up.

"Get up," my mother anxiously woke me up.

"What's wrong?" I asked, confused and lazily, to my anxious mother.

My mother slowly sat down at the head of my bed and said to me in a negotiating tone: "Your sister-in-law arranged a blind date for you, and made an appointment to meet at 5 o'clock, so get up and wash up." ”

"Blind date again, don't go!" I said with a lot of resistance in my heart.

I am nearly 23 years old, and I am very resistant to blind dates, not because I oppose my family's behavior, but because I have been wandering on this blind date for almost half a year, and I have been arranged to see you here and there for a long time, so that I am not too keen on blind dates and marriages in my youth.

Before this day, I had a few relationships, but there were few that I could remember, the first time I could be counted as in love was a girl surnamed Zhang, I was 18 years old at the time, and I still don't understand why I wanted to get married in the first place, but really because of my stubbornness, the moment my family really relaxed, I hesitated, there was no buffer, no reason, I categorically proposed to break up with the girl, and ended the relationship for a year in a daze. Now that I think about it, I didn't love her back then, or even liked her, but I was young and ignorant, and I almost walked together following the guidance of others. And in my heart, I always think that this relationship is a joke I made in my life.

After separation, I don't have any spare time activities after work every day except for normal work, and I'm not a person who likes to join in the fun, although my personality is not introverted, but I basically don't talk to strange girls, because of an experience when I was young, I have a certain misunderstanding of the world, and I see everything with color.

When I was 20 years old, my family introduced me to a daughter of a father's friend's family, I remember that there was a period of time when I was a child, when I saw the girl's father, I called my father-in-law, at that time I was 5 to 7 years old, maybe the beginning of this love is like a baby kiss, after meeting, I follow the normal love process, dating. Everything went very smoothly. Until one day two months later, the girl was going to college, and at that time, the two families made a ridiculous agreement to get married after graduation. In this way, the two-year long-distance relationship began.,Every day is a phone call.,Simple contact for two months but replaced my two years of youth.,Time flies quickly.,There's nothing in the past two years that makes me particularly nostalgic.,I just think that since it's like this, I'll get married.,It seems that I don't have any opinions about myself back then.。

One day I was surfing the Internet in an Internet café, WeChat was not available at that time, QQ was the main social tool, and the QQ space at that time must have been the hottest circle of friends that year. Because I am responsible for network maintenance in Unicom, I have a certain technology for computers, and inadvertently opened the girl's space, a newly launched encrypted album made me full of curiosity, so I didn't think much about it and easily cracked the password, the moment I clicked in, the first thing I saw was a photo of her and her ex-boyfriend together, and the shooting time was within our relationship, that night I asked her to go shopping in the night market, in fact, I was conflicted in my heart at the time, and I also thought about turning a blind eye, but I still broke up according to my heart, and said fiercely before leaving, I looked at the photos of your space。 I took a taxi and left. The disappointment in my heart on the way home really made me unforgettable in my life, and perhaps I was full of longing for this upcoming marriage that was recognized by both families.

After the breakup, the other party contacted me many times and wanted to explain, but I didn't listen, because at that time I didn't understand what love was, and even said that I didn't actually love her, and it was more the matchmaking of both parents that pushed me.

This unbearable past has become the most painful memory in my heart back then, and it has also affected me for more than a year.

The most meetings in the day, seeing three strange girls, I walked around and didn't even look at anyone, and I probably hadn't walked out of the hurt that the upcoming wedding had done to me. I haven't mentioned the truth of this matter to anyone so far, because I think it's inexplicably shameful, and maybe it's more out of men's stubbornness. This has also become a piece of my heart. This relationship that really got along for two months took me nearly two years to get out of the shadows, maybe I'm a man who has been hurt.

Slowly, my family seemed to notice my resistance, so they basically didn't mention it, and they didn't arrange blind dates for me overwhelmingly.

Time passed quickly, more than a year passed in a blink of an eye, until the winter of December 28, 2010, at 5 p.m., completely changed my life.

I didn't seem to be going to fulfill my mother's request that day, so I continued to sleep and let my mother babble at the bedside.

"If you just go and meet, can't you just give both sides a step?"

"Okay, if you don't go, it will make the adults of both families feel bad!" the mother's tone seemed to be a little excited.

"Okay!" I clearly remembered, I only said one word, then got up and dressed, washed my face briefly, and followed my mother's steps to the blind date. Extreme dissatisfaction in my heart.

A black iron door, a few bungalows, I was a little uncomfortable to follow my mother in, the two families simply exchanged a few words and arranged for us to have a brief chat in the room.

The light in the room was a little dim, and the faint light made the room look a little dim.

She, sitting on the sofa, with black hair, hanging low, directly over her shoulders, she lowered her head, gently stroked the tips of her hair with her hands, there seemed to be no expression on her face, a pair of big eyes, a low nose bridge, and a mouth that looked slightly moist, a deep eyebrow made that face look beautiful, really beautiful.

I sat awkwardly by the fire, watching her playing with her hair, and in the dim light, her jet-black hair was so charming that she seemed to notice that I was looking at her, a faint smile on her face, and a sunken dimple on her cheek. A dark shirt and jeans.

At that time, I was a little shy in my heart, but when I saw the charming her in front of me, I still opened my mouth first.

I smirked and said, "My name is Cheng, what about you?"

She heard my inquiry and replied coldly, "Lee." "The voice was so small that I didn't hear it clearly.

"What?" I asked again.

"Li!" This time she raised her head slightly, glanced at me, and lowered her head a little shyly.

At this moment, my heart is a little nervous, because she is really beautiful in front of me, with a faint smile on her face, that dimple makes that face look more charming, and she keeps playing with her long hair, and I am a little in love at that moment.

"I didn't even know we were going to see each other today, I was sleeping at home when I was suddenly woken up. "I don't know why I was stupid enough to tell the truth, but fortunately she didn't seem to be disgusted by my straightforwardness.

"Me too, I just took a shower, and my hair is still wet," he said, accompanied by a burst of laughter.

Oh my God, this crisp laughter, accompanied by that beautiful face, seemed to be about to capture me.

"I whispered, in fact, the family let me go on a blind date at every turn, and I was about to do my homework. "Seriously, in retrospect now, I was really stupid, such a thing could be put in the mouth of any blind date, it seems to be disrespectful to the blind date, and I just said such a stupid thing without embellishment.

"I'm too, and I see and go at every turn, and I see a bunch of them, but it's not appropriate. She replied with a smile, as if I had found a topic for my stupid words. She didn't care about my unreasonableness.

"You're at Unicom?" she asked me.

"Well, I work at Unicom, the Luzhou Theater, the main thing is to install broadband and repair broadband, what about you?" "It was a good job back then, with a stable income, free time, and not too tiring. It is indeed an enviable job in the eyes of outsiders.

"I'm in Warneau, selling clothes," she replied to me with a smile.

After a brief conversation, I asked her for a phone number, and she didn't object.

I still seemed to be a little unsatisfied, but the family next door had already come in, and I stood up awkwardly, and after a brief greeting between the adults, they said goodbye one after another. And I'm a little shy and embarrassed...... Now that I think about it, maybe it was the two of us chatting endlessly, and it was the family members who interrupted me to stop making me a little shy.

When I said goodbye, I quietly glanced at her, it was really beautiful.

On the way home, my mother said to me, "Why are you so interesting......?"

I didn't respond, just smiled stupidly, and my mother didn't seem to realize that I was actually happy. I can't say if I'm happy because of her or because I'm laughing at my stupid behavior.

As the so-called fair lady, gentleman, I think I did the right thing, and I am not hypocritical.

In this way, every day after work, I was interrogated by my mother, asking me if I had any contact with each other, and I always replied that I was, but in fact, I didn't come to the appointment because of my busy work at that time, and I always used lies to appease my mother.

Why did you lie back then? Why didn't you just say that you didn't have contact, and when I looked back many years later, maybe I really liked it in my heart, so I kept lying and appeased, and didn't answer directly.

Time flies quickly, and we don't have any interaction or contact this week, and fate seems to have arranged our wonderful fate. Now how I wish we could have been separated for a longer time, not just 8 days, I hope it will be 50 days, 60 days, 70 days, maybe we won't just stay together for 8 years and then separate, eight days of waiting in exchange for eight years of love.

Many years later, she once said to me that a large part of the reason why we met back then was because of my work, and if it weren't for work, it didn't seem that we would have met in this vast sea of people on that winter afternoon!

What an ironic beginning, everything was so natural.