Chapter 27: The Basics of Becoming a Master
Fang Shanmu saw Du Tu Nan's loss and discomfort, and after Xu Wenqu left, he pushed open the window and let the cold air blow in, before saying: "Tu Nan, you are too impatient, if you want to repair the relationship with Wen Qu, it is not a day or two of work, you need to take your time, you have to figure it slowly." She is now clearly defensive against you, and you still talk to her as her ex-husband, but she wants to keep a safe distance from you. Do you know why she is so guarded against you and distant?"
Du Tunan is a fan of the authorities, and he cares about it, and shakes his head again and again.
"Because she still has feelings for you. When you talk to Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan, will you be nervous and ponder every sentence for a long time? Definitely not, you don't have selfish thoughts in front of them, you just want to talk about things. But in front of Xu Wenqu, it is easy to be substituted into the emotions that you have been married to her......" Fang Shanmu's earnest and seductive tone was like a professor teaching students, "Tu Nan, when you no longer feel anything in front of Xu Wenqu, only when she is an ordinary colleague, you may win her favor again." The current state ...... Obviously not!"
"I can't do it!" Du Tunan grabbed his head with both hands and pulled hard, "I still love her deeply and hope to get back together with her." ”
"How do you get back together? Getting back together under the premise that she doesn't agree to having a child and holding a child, isn't it back to the past?" Fang Shanmu patted Du Tunan's shoulder, "Stop torturing yourself, let go of the burden of the past, and look forward." Maybe one day, you will meet someone more suitable for you than Xu Wenqu. ”
"Brother Fang, you persuaded me to come to the first place, why are you also at a loss when it comes to the issue between you and your sister-in-law?" Du Tunan remembered that Fang Shanmu's troubles were no less than his, and his emotions rose a little, "Things are on others, and I always feel that I can face them easily. When it falls on yourself, it's different, hehe. I'm a little skeptical about one thing, if one day I meet a girl I like more, will I really be able to let go of Xu Wenqu completely?"
"Yes, surely. Fang Shanmu smiled categorically, "Many times, we are not afraid of losing, but we are worried that there is no better place to replace after loss." If there is, you will not be sad or sad. For example, if your old phone is broken, but someone gives you the latest model right away, your frustration of losing your old phone will pass quickly. ”
Du Tunan was stunned for a moment, shook his head and smiled: "No, no, no, nostalgia for a person is because of feelings, things are different, things are meant to like the new and hate the old." Let me ask you, Brother Fang, if you meet a better woman, will you still be entangled with the current state with your sister-in-law? Will you divorce soon?"
Fang Shanmu was stunned, to be honest, although he had been in a cold war with Sheng Chen for a long time, he really didn't think about whether he would divorce Sheng Chen immediately and start a new life if he met a better one now!
No! Fang Shanmu thought only for a moment before he had a clear answer, he couldn't fall in love with someone else before he completely let go of Sheng Chen, so he wouldn't meet a better woman. The so-called better woman means that she is a woman who walks into his heart and is suitable for him, not a general term.
In general, there are many men who are better than him, and there are not a few women who are better than Sheng Chen.
"What I can guarantee is that I won't fall in love with anyone else before divorcing Sheng Chen. Fang Shanmu let out a sigh of relief, as if he was cheering himself up, and as if he had made a vow, "Being loyal to marriage and being responsible for the family is the standard for a successful man." ”
Du Tu Nan didn't speak for a long time, and after a long silence, he stood up and sighed: "How many times does a man have to go through a hundred turns and thousands of times before he can turn into a butterfly and spread his wings and fly high?" Brother Fang, you said that if I follow your method, I will first become an ordinary friend, and then slowly warm up, will it be possible to get back together with Wenqu in the end?"
Fang Shanmu nodded, and shook his head again: "Although the contradiction between you and her is single, it is very difficult to solve it. Unless she figured it out herself, your road to reunion is a long way to go...... But it's not completely impossible, Wenqu is very selfish and individual, but she is a woman after all and needs care and attention. No matter how strong and independent a woman is sometimes, she is weaker than a man. ”
"Understood, thank you Brother Fang for your advice, I know what to do. Du Tunan bowed excitedly to Fang Shanmu and went out excitedly.
Fang Shanmu looked at his departing back and smiled meaningfully: "I didn't say anything, the ghost knows what you know." Anyway, in the end, you got back together, and you think it's my credit. The failure of the reunion is that you yourself did not fully grasp my intentions...... Alas, I'm really sorry, it turns out that speaking vaguely is the basic skill of becoming a master. ”
"Forget about charlatans like Master Huo, I am determined to become a master of gender emotion, and create a love, marriage and family growth game for all men and women in the world who are emotionally troubled and tortured by marriage, so as to reflect the social value of Infinite Care Co., Ltd. Fang Shanmu stood in front of the window, looking out the window at the bleak winter, the Spring Festival has passed, the beginning of spring, and the footsteps of spring are not far away.
When the spring flowers bloom, it is the time for Infinite Care Limited Liability to show its ambitions.
For a period of time, Fang Shanmu has been repeating the life of three points and one line - the company, room 301 and home, basically he maintains a very regular rhythm, Monday to Saturday, all in the company during the day, back to room 301 at night, go home early on Sunday morning, stay until the evening and then go back to room 301.
During the limited half-day time at home, Fang Shanmu and Sheng Chen exchanged information about the progress of the company, as well as the progress of Sheng Chen's work and the progress of the riverside company, and at the same time paid attention to the situation of the alumni reunion.
Jiangbian Haojing often encountered some small troubles when registering, and it may have to be postponed until May or June before the official launch, and Sheng Chen is still hesitant whether to start a business with Jiangbian. On the contrary, after hearing the news, Meng Wei encouraged Sheng Chen to start a business, so that he could better show his talent and usher in a broader world.
Fang Shanmu's attitude has also become clear from the previous ambiguity, and he also supports Sheng Chen to join the good times. With Fang Shanmu's encouragement and recognition, Sheng Chen was no longer in a dilemma, and just waited for Haojingchang to join in as soon as it was established.
Every time he went home, Ping An and Joy were extremely nostalgic for Fang Shanmu, and later Fang Shanmu simply brought Ping An and Love to Room 301 after obtaining the consent of Hu Pan and Xu Wenqu. As for Gu Hao and Cheng Pengpeng, he directly ignored the feelings of the two.
Originally, Hu Pan did not agree to continue to let Xu Wenqu stay after the year, but Cheng Peng persuaded Hu Pan to take Xu Wenqu in after saying a bad word, and promised that Xu Wenqu would move out as soon as he found a place to live.
Three-room house, Fang Shanmu one, Gu Hao one, Hu Pan can only be with Xu Wenqu. Fortunately, Cheng Pengpeng stayed a lot less, and Hu Pan could accept the status quo of two people in a room. Of course, Cheng Peng Peng will live in room 301 on a whim from time to time, and they have to have three people in a room.
Gu Hao usually lives in Room 301, and like Fang Shanmu, he also goes back once a week, takes some changes of clothes, and comes back with a new look, and is ridiculed by Hu Pan that he and Fang Shanmu are indeed old boys who can't take care of themselves.
Fang Shanmu ignored Hu Pan's ridicule, Gu Hao still had to argue with her, and wanted to argue with her about a high or low victory, but Cheng Pengpeng and Xu Wenqu both joined the battle group, standing in the position of a woman to criticize Gu Hao, how could Gu Hao be the opponent of three women?
Fang Shanmu's answer is that men and women are vindictive or arguing, and most of the time they are self-inflicted, and women are the best debaters and ultimate winners of couple--family debates.
The holding of the class reunion, for example, Yamaki is expected to be more than two months late, mainly because when Zheng Yuandong's business focus shifted to the capital, there was a small accident, which caused him to come to the capital to be postponed by two months. Since he is the initiator, if he does not come to the capital, the alumni reunion will not be held.
Spring in the capital is short and fast, the pink and yellow sunflowers have just bloomed, the cherry blossoms and peach blossoms have bloomed one after another, as if it is the work of a blink of an eye, the willows and poplars on the street have been lush and vibrant, and Fang Shanmu has also taken off his thick winter clothes and changed into his favorite dark brown windbreaker.
It's just that the trench coat has only been worn for a few days, and the temperature has climbed to 20 degrees, and he has changed into a single coat again.
Outside the window of the office, it is no longer bleak, but red and willow green, and under the bright sunshine, everything is bright.
Although Fang Shanmu also likes the four seasons of the south, he still feels that the four seasons are distinct, which is more conducive to the transformation of mood, emotional exercise and the improvement of the realm, after all, in the flow of time, you can feel the passage of life and the urgency of the years that do not wait for others.
Over the past few months, Infinity Cares' businesses have been progressing smoothly, and after countless meetings, discussions, and debates, the first side story of the growth game has basically taken shape and is ready to be launched to the market.
The prototype of the side story is still based on the story of Hu Pan and Jiang Chengzi, of course, there are some processing and changes, but in general, it is still based on the emotional experience of the two as the main reference, and at least five new story directions have been added.
The design of the story direction also fully listened to the opinions of Hu Pan and Jiang Chengzi.
Although Fang Shanmu did not succeed in helping Hu Pan and Jiang Chengzi resolve their grievances and get back together, the relationship between the two has also improved compared to before, and it is no longer tense confrontation and hatred, but can coexist peacefully. But both have repeatedly stressed that they cannot go back to the past, and can only maintain a normal colleague relationship and no longer regard each other as enemies.
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