Indeed, the family is the smallest unit of society, just like the cells in the human body, although small, but it is the cornerstone of stability and development. For a person, if he can't even handle his marriage well, how to deal with and expand interpersonal relationships, how to open a good company, how to make greater achievements?

But how can we properly handle the relationship between him and Sheng Chen? Sheng Chen refuses to let go of his suspicions, he can neither persuade Sheng Chen, nor can he fully retreat, the three-year agreement is more like a buffer period for both parties, but three years is inevitably too long.

In all fairness, Fang Shanmu didn't want a divorce. He and Sheng Chen quarreled, the foundation of the relationship is still there, and the two have developed a tacit understanding in life for many years, as well as habits that are difficult to give up, to say that let him change jobs and start over, he has confidence, motivation, and passion. But starting a new relationship, from falling in love to getting married, to forming a family and having children, he feels big when he thinks about it, and he doesn't want to go through the road of love, marriage and family again.

Because for him, or for most men, it's okay to go through some things once, and there is no interest and motivation at all to go through it a second time. If he really divorced Sheng Chen, he would have to think carefully about whether to remarry, since he already had a son and completed the task of inheritance, he didn't want to jump from one fire pit to another.

Fang Shanmu has always held the opinion that married men, especially married men who have reached the age of 40, whether because of cheating or other reasons, usually do not divorce if they can not divorce. The vast majority of men who cheat and divorce are divorced after being discovered, and the other half can't tolerate it.

But another reality is that after a middle-aged divorce or widowhood, most men will quickly look for a new half, while women may not look for it anymore, because men have poor self-care ability and need someone to take care of them to live, while women can take care of themselves completely.

In the final analysis, on the surface, men are stronger than women, but in fact, men are weaker and more lonely than women, and need love and care. The average life expectancy of men is several years lower than that of women, which is also the reason why men are not as cheerful and less capable of living in their later years.

Speaking of which, everyone's life is a growth game, but men are more rational and calculating gains and losses than women, while women are more emotional and willing to give everything. In fact, judging from the current trend, in the future, the dominance of marriage will be in the hands of women, after all, women's dedication to the family and the cultivation of offspring are far greater than men.

Fang Shanmu has also seen a set of data, in recent years, the divorce rate has been increasing year by year, the number of unmarried men and women is also increasing, at the same time, the increase in the divorce rate is also related to the awakening of women's sense of dominance, some studies show that in divorce cases, more than 70% of divorce requests are made by women.

Thinking of Cheng Pengpeng and Hu Pan's view of love as a girl in the 90s, Fang Shanmu suddenly felt a little lucky, if Sheng Chen was a girl in the 90s, I am afraid she would resolutely divorce without hesitation, and there was no possibility of turning back.

On Saturday and Sunday, at the suggestion of Fang Shanmu, Du Tunan was called, and the company went to Xiangshan to climb the mountain, which was the company's first official team building.

Fang Shanmu's intention is obvious, it is to shorten the distance between everyone, contact more and understand more, so as to better cooperate with the work.

Cheng Pengpeng sorted out several resumes and asked the candidates to come to the company for an interview on Monday. Among them, there are a few excellent people with good resumes, and I believe that two or three people can stay.

Located in the northwest suburbs of the city, Xiangshan covers an area of 188 hectares and is a royal garden with mountain forest characteristics. The main peak in the scenic area, the incense burner peak, is commonly known as "ghost sorrow", with an altitude of 557 meters. There was a very steep mountain road, almost vertical, and after several people climbed up, they were so tired and out of breath that they almost sat down on the ground.

Gu Hao was even more sweaty, panting heavily, and waved his hand again and again: "No, I can't walk, whoever asks me to take one more step will be blocked." ”

Only Du Tu Nan was strolling leisurely, only sweating slightly. Fang Shanmu was also too tired, and waved his hand at Du Tunan: "You are still young, seven or eight years old, it feels like a generation behind." ”

"My physical strength has also decreased a lot compared to before, mainly because I used to play basketball a lot and like sports, or I can't. Du Tunan squeezed his eyebrows and smiled at Gu Hao, "Brother Gu's body has been hollowed out, if you don't pay attention in the future, after the age of 40, you will basically say goodbye to your career as a hunting artist." ”

"I'm not, I don't, don't talk nonsense!" Gu Hao wanted to argue, but Hu Pan didn't give him a chance.

"Day by day, don't hide your lustful nature, a man must dare to be a hero. Lust is not a problem, men are not lustful, and no one appreciates a woman's beauty? But only the lust that is appreciated and praised is a good man. Hu Pan sat beside Du Tunan and looked at the capital under the mountain, "The capital in winter is not fun, and when spring comes, the flowers are in full bloom, it will be interesting." Maybe the company will improve, and my love will also appear at the same time. ”

"Day by day, pure dreams. Your little girls are too impetuous, too superficial, and impatient, and don't want to cultivate a successful rich generation, so you have to be a pick-up man and enjoy a ready-made successful man. You said that you all snatched the men of the 70s, what should you do with the women of the 80s?" Gu Hao looked indignant, as if he was so righteous.

Du Tunan laughed: "The women of the 80s can go and win the men of the 60s and be the stepmother of the girls of the 90s." ”

"Poof!" Cheng Peng took a sip of drink and sprayed it on Gu Hao's head, "You are too bad, Du Tunan, say, do you have a mother-love plot, and you want to find a woman in the 60s, so that we can be the stepfather of the girls in the 90s?"

"I ......" Du Tunan was defeated, "I can't be wrong, Miss Cheng, spare my life!"

Gu Hao looked helpless and touched his head: "Why is it me again! Why is it always me who is injured?"

But no one pitied and sympathized with Gu Hao.

"There is a social problem I don't know if you have noticed, in recent years, with the improvement of women's social status and the deepening of their participation in social activities, the crime rate of women has also increased year by year. Fang Shanmu rested for a while, feeling that his breathing was a little more balanced, and he took a few breaths in succession before saying, "So, everything is a double-edged sword, there is no good thing that only has rights and interests and does not bear obligations, Peng Peng, Hu Pan, what do you think about the increase in the female crime rate?"

"I don't think anything, anyway, I'm a good person and don't commit crimes. Hu Pan was relatively simple, didn't think much about it, and smiled, "I don't think about messy things every day, I only think about beautiful things." ”

"Where did Uncle Fang's data come from?" Cheng Pengpeng looked thoughtful, "Is it true?"

Fang Shanmu smiled: "What do you say? In recent years, 70% of divorces have been filed by women, which shows that the status of women has been greatly improved. If you want to wear a crown, bear its weight first......"

"Understood. Cheng Pengpeng nodded seriously, "Actually, it's normal, the improvement of women's social status is due to the increase in the degree of social involvement, and many occupations that were previously only available to men can be done by women today, but also better." In addition, women are increasingly moving into leadership positions. Correspondingly, the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, so the greater the consequences, and the greater the chance of committing crimes. The increase in the female crime rate, on the flip side, is a sign of a real improvement in women's social status. ”

"I can't understand your brain circuits, it's strange and weird. Hu Pan puffed out his cheeks at Cheng Pengpeng, "Cheng Pengpeng, I think your position is wrong, think about it from a man's standpoint, I want to break off friendship with you for an hour!"

"Now I don't have time to quarrel with you...... Cheng Pengpeng took out his mobile phone and set an alarm clock, "I'll set an alarm clock first, and we'll talk again an hour later." ”

"Wait for you!" Hu Pan swiped his right index finger under his nose, "I will argue if I am not convinced." It's not a chat, it's a quarrel. ”

Du Tunan was amused by the behavior of the two, and sighed slightly: "It's good to be young, only happy and not troubled, and there is actually an operation to set an alarm clock and quarrel, take it." ”

"The troubles of our class of 90, the class of 70 do not understand, and you class of 80 do not understand either. Hu Pan pretended to sigh deeply, "Some people say that we have caught up with a good time, after the hard work of the 60th class and the struggle of the 70th class and the struggle of the 80th class, by the time the 90th class grows up, China's economy has taken off and the material has been very rich." We have never suffered from hunger since we were children, and we have lived in an era of peace and rapid development since we were children. Come to think of it, the happy life of the upstairs and downstairs lights and telephones, which you used to envy the most, is a commonplace thing for us to be born with......"

"There are televisions, mobile phones, computers, cars, the Internet, and so on, and when we began to understand the world, we were already exposed to the dreams that took many years for you in the 70th to come true. Cheng Pengpeng said that he wanted to quarrel with Hu Pan, but at this time he still maintained the same position with Hu Pan first, "By the way, there are also online car-hailing, takeaway, 4G, smart phones, etc., we were born in a world where everything is extremely convenient with developed technology, and I have not experienced your progressive life experience from the era of big brother, BP machine, feature machine to smart machine, and the stepwise improvement of 2G, 3G to 4G, to be honest, the feeling of reaching the peak all of a sudden, is not good." I don't know how to cherish ...... without comparison."

"Cut...... Are you saying that there is no harm without comparison? Yes, we have gone through the process of going from nothing to something, from having to strong, with a long wait and a hard ascent, and you have no idea what it feels like. Gu Hao squinted his eyes and looked at the rising sun in the east, and suddenly sighed, "Thinking about it like this, I realized that I was really old, and I had experienced so much unconsciously, but why did I still feel that I hadn't grown up?