Chapter 995: Open the Heart Knot
"But she doesn't have a happy life yet, so we have to think about a lot of things, and we can't get into the horns. "Marriage is just a part of life, and we can't magnify what is going on in marriage.
"Mom, are you saying that your sister is better off than less?"
In this world, everyone is equal, why should their men be superior, and if they marry, they have to swallow their anger, bow low and be small, so why should I get married, a person lives a chic life, how happy it is.
"You kid, I don't mean that, but a lot of times when we think about it in the other direction, things will be different. Hu Lan is also from their age, she also knows what it is to be young and vigorous, and she also understands her daughter's performance very well.
But sometimes, not caring is the best way to slap the face. You won't pay attention to it, others will jump on the highest, but when others see it, they will definitely think that she is wrong.
If you argue with her at the first time, then you will lose in the instant.
This is human nature, people always can't help but sympathize with the weak, why so many people like the White Lotus Green Tea, isn't it because while sympathizing with the weak, they also make themselves like a savior, with a sense of superiority.
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"Auntie, I think you're right. Rubidium Xiaoyu heard Hu Lan's explanation, and her heart was also relieved.
Li Xiaohong's performance today is also very angry, but what can be done to be angry, she and Li Xiaopeng have been together for so many years, if she really gives up, she is still very reluctant in her heart.
"It's good if you understand, sometimes we don't fight, but where to fight, when to fight, there is a sense of proportion, not only to make yourself not suffer, but also so that others will not misunderstand, you can also catch the other party off guard, this is the smartest person. ”
Regarding his niece's performance today, Hu Lan is super satisfied.
After all, she has also been a teacher for so many years, and she has been a teacher for two or three years, and her reaction speed is also very fast in the face of unexpected situations.
If she rushed out at the first time today, saying that others thought that she was in a hurry to marry into the Li family, and the point was that she felt that she couldn't tolerate this sister-in-law, it would make her unable to accommodate herself in the Li family in the future.
In this way, even if it is not a fact, it will become a fact, which really makes Li Xiaohong's conspiracy succeed.
, but she only appeared at the end, and the result was much different, not only did she feel very sensible, but it would also help her in her future life, if she and Li Xiaohong had any unpleasantness, others would immediately feel that it must be Li Xiaohong's fault.
In fact, after Li Xiaohong came out, Hu Lan was afraid that she would come forward. Therefore, she pulled her daughter directly to her side and didn't let her make a move, and the child lived up to her expectations and won the battle the first time.
"Auntie, I will, if I have anything to do in the future, can I go home and ask you?" The water spilled by the married daughter, she was really embarrassed, she was wronged in her mother-in-law's house, and went to her mother's house to cry, so that her parents would worry.
However, if you don't say anything about your grievances, it's easy to inflate things, and something irreparable may happen.
"Of course you can, you are the same as Chu Chu, they are all my daughters, if you really have something in the future, come to me, you can't hold things in your heart and make yourself uncomfortable. "Hu Lan is also from the past, although her father-in-law and husband are really good to themselves, but no matter how good the relationship is, there are times when they quarrel.
At the beginning, she would feel that she was an outsider and was rejected by them, and she was really aggrieved and uncomfortable. It was only later, under the comfort of her sister-in-law, she opened her heart again and again, which made her relationship with them better, and she also learned a lot from it, which made her gradually like this place.
Therefore, Hu Xia is not only a concubine to her, but also a sister, it is because of her that she will continue to live in this city, otherwise, she can't guarantee that she can live happily.
"Thank you, auntie!" Rubidium Xiaoyu's eyes were slightly red, and she turned her head to wipe away her tears.
Today, all the grievances also flowed out with this tear.
"Silly boy, it's all a family, say thank you, you will be a wife from now on, don't take it too seriously, just be happy. "My daughter is a Ma Daha, what to say, never let herself suffer, but this niece is different, her mind is heavier and more delicate, but this kind of person is easy to drill the horns of the bull and let herself suffer alone.
"Uh-huh!" Rubidium Xiaoyu stretched out her hand to hug Hu Lan, lowered her head and rubbed it in her arms.
"I said what's the matter with you two one, one or two, when I don't exist, right, I want my mother to hug me. Seeing the two of them sad there, Rubidium Chu was unwilling to be isolated, and immediately hugged her on her mother's back.
"Hug it, hug it, you're all big girls, and I can't hug it a few times. "The years are urging people to get old, and in a blink of an eye she is also about to be forty years old, thinking that when she came here, she had just passed her eighteenth birthday, and at that time she was full of youth and yearning for life.
"I'm sure it's okay, my mother is still young, and I'll have to hug my grandchildren in the future!"
"You child, I don't know how to be ashamed!" Hu Lan rubbed her daughter's head buried in her shoulder, this child is not married yet!
"My little sister is about the same age as me, and if she hadn't gone to college, she would have been married. For his brother-in-law, Rubidium Xiaoyu is actually quite envious.
Yi Ran has a good family background, a good character, and a good age for his little sister, and he is picked up and sent wherever he goes, which looks at the entire village, and it is really rare to be able to do what he does.
Even the aunts and uncles who are said to be model couples, uncles are not as good to their aunts as he is.
"Yes, if she could get married sooner, then I would have been less worried. Hu Lan looked at her daughter, and she didn't know what kind of luck she was to have such a good son-in-law as Yi Ran.
Anyway, she, the mother-in-law, is the kind of son-in-law who is more satisfied with his son-in-law, and she can't wait for him to marry his daughter home as soon as possible.
"The sooner I get married, I won't have to eat at home, and you will be able to save some food. Hearing his mother's words, Rubidium Chu laughed directly.
"I'll send you some food?" Hu Lan was stunned for a moment, and was directly amused by her daughter's words.
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