Chapter 656: So-and-so's mother
Suzanne looked at Lu Manqing in a daze, and she couldn't come back to her senses for a long time, it was the first time she had heard someone say this about herself, great, mother.
These words, in fact, there are many people in Huaxia who say it, even if the Chinese people are more shy and don't know how to express their feelings, but the Chinese people have never been stingy in praising their mothers, and even the motherland has been compared to their mothers by them, which shows how great the role of the mother is in the minds of the Chinese people.
But in the United States, there are very few such praises, few people here sing the praises of the greatness of the mother, and even in this country, most families have multiple children, and women often sacrifice themselves for these children, but no one will think that there is anything wrong with this.
In fact, Susanna's situation is not as bad as she said, of course, she can't be the only one in her big house, she has a lot of maids, a lot of helpers, they take good care of her and her children, and even make her life not as tired as most mothers, but obviously, Susanna's crux is not here.
One of the sources of her pain comes from loneliness, this loneliness, not really without the company of the person she needs, she needs her husband, family, and even friends, but obviously, these people are not enough, or do not meet the standards she wants.
She was lonely and even willing to come and talk to strangers as a way to heal herself, most likely because of the advice of a medical professional, that is, Susanna's desire to communicate and listen.
Lu Manqing has been in contact with this group, she has always felt that the group of postpartum depression has a certain particularity, it is different from general depression, and the patient's performance is also different from many patients with depression, but the same thing is that many times, they know how to disguise themselves and make themselves the same as normal people, and there is not much difference.
But at some point, they will be hysterical, will collapse, will avoid, will have insomnia, will also fall into pain and doubt and unable to extricate themselves, Lu Manqing once chatted with some patients with postpartum depression who have recovered, and she also found that communication and understanding are things that many patients with postpartum depression desperately need.
In the stage when they are fragile and sensitive, and even lose themselves, the encouragement and affirmation of their families, the companionship and thoughtfulness of their lovers can bring them great salvation, and this salvation can even allow them to quickly get rid of the troubles caused by physical factors.
On the contrary, their symptoms will become more and more severe, until one day, to the worst step, many people can't understand this group, but the truth is that they are strong and vulnerable.
"I think that when I go back this time, I will definitely spend time with my mother. Ruth suddenly spoke, a little choked, "I think, I really did something wrong, it seems that I haven't spent a few days with my mother for a long time, it turns out that she insisted on it for me." ”
As she spoke, Ruth even burst into tears, seeing Ruth's appearance, Susanna's face was even more moved, it was the first time she had faced such a scene, starting from having her eldest daughter Linda, until she had three children, it was the first time that someone said so.
"It takes so much to get a baby, if you were to do it all over again, would you still want a baby?" Lu Manqing suddenly asked curiously, she didn't know if Susanna's answer would be the same as the countless ones she had heard.
"Of course. Suzanne said categorically, "I will not give up on my children no matter what." As soon as Suzanne finished saying this, she quietly watched their three children from the back seat, and burst into tears almost instantly, and the eldest daughter, Linda, rushed from behind like the wind and plunged into Susanna's arms.
"Mom, we won't give up on being your child no matter what. Linda's tears crackled and fell as if they were connected, and Suzanne hugged her daughter in a daze, and looked back at her other two children stiffly, and they both cried into tears.
"You guys, don't you blame me?" Susanna's lips trembled, she knew what she had done to her children, it was a nightmare that had tormented her for countless days and nights, when she was angry, she always wanted to hurt them, but then she also felt distressed and guilty.
"No, Mom, you'll always be the one we love the most. The other two children also ran over and snuggled up to Susanna's side together, Lu Manqing couldn't help but look at all this with tears in her eyes at this time, she knew that Susanna's condition would never be cured because of this time, but this was obviously a good start.
The hug of a family of five is moving, Ruth has cried and fallen into the arms of her husband Wade, Lu Manqing is also hugging Gu Yan, Eva's family of three is also extremely moved, especially Eva, who is also a mother, she can better understand Susanna's feelings.
The car soon arrived at the ranch of Boli Castle, which is a private ranch, but the area is not small at all, the grass is green, and when you open the door, the fresh smell of the shop is refreshing.
The open place, the fresh smell, and the quiet time were extremely comfortable, and even the expression on Susanna's face was much soothed as soon as she got out of the car.
From the other car, Angus got out of the car with the butler who was responsible for taking care of the four families, and greeted him this way, Angus was still approaching with a polite first salute, and said to everyone with a smile, "Distinguished guests, welcome to Boli Manor, I hope you can have a good time today." ”
To everyone's surprise, there is also a special car to take them around, this is a small car similar to a golf course, with a large awning, one car can carry six people, each family is driven by a housekeeper, others only need to sit in the seat, just enjoy quietly.
Lu Manqing and Ruth got together in a car, the two butlers sat in the front row, the four of them sat in the back, Ruth was very excited, chattering non-stop.
Lu Manqing occasionally looked at the car of Suzanne and his party not far behind, at this time several children kept talking to Susanna, her husband Kurt also took care of it gently, Susanna's mood looked good, and she also had a bright smile on her face.
Lu Manqing couldn't help but start thinking back to what Suzanne said, losing herself, losing her future, losing her dreams and everything, becoming so-and-so's wife and so-and-so's mother, can she accept this kind of life......