Chapter 678: Treating both the symptoms and the root causes
Jiang Ting listened to what Li Jin said just now and felt that it made some sense, and she was really interested at the moment. She estimated that it was very likely that Li Jin really came up with an effective countermeasure, and if it was really what she imagined, it would be great.
Thinking of this, Jiang Ting didn't dare to slack off, and immediately hurriedly frowned and asked anxiously: "Really, Li Jin, I think what you just said is very reasonable, but how can we come up with a way to save them?"
"Jiang Ting, if you think my idea is really feasible, then we might as well try it, according to my calculations, it should be completely feasible. Li Jin's words just now were recognized by Jiang Ting, and he continued to answer with interest at the moment.
"Oh, my international student, I advise you not to linger in it, okay? If you really have any good way, then you can say it quickly, don't always play hide and seek with me in it, or you will be about to kill me." Jiang Ting asked impatiently in the face of Li Jin's bookish angry look.
Li Jin really didn't dare to slack off when he saw Jiang Ting's anxious look, if he didn't get to the point quickly, I'm afraid Jiang Ting would really get angry. He didn't want his wife to get sick in a hurry, because he finally caught up with the baby in his hand, how could he bear to see her in such a miserable situation?
To put it in his heart, Li Jin also wanted to say what he thought in his heart in one breath, so that Jiang Ting could relieve the worries in his heart as soon as possible.
It's just that Li Jin has a special habit of speaking, no matter what he says, he must first analyze the cause, and then then say the corresponding result, so he feels that it is very necessary to understand the causal relationship to deal with the problem, and he must figure things out in advance.
According to Li Jin's living theory, if he did not analyze the causal relationship first, he felt that the practical significance of solving the problem would be lost, and it would be difficult to see the result.
Therefore, Li Jin began to analyze the causal relationship in a steady stream: "Jiang Ting, whenever you encounter a problem, you don't just look at the surface, you must find out the cause, otherwise it will become what academics call a symptom but not a cure." Therefore, what I want to emphasize today is that we must not only treat the symptoms, but must first find out the root cause of the contradictions, and then formulate a specific plan to treat the symptoms or the root causes. ”
Jiang Ting was immediately anxious after listening to Li Jin's story, and always felt that the second monk was confused, as if he was in a cloud and mist. If the analysis of a mother-in-law like Li Jin continues, Jiang Ting doesn't like to listen to it in her heart, and in the end, it is better to say a few words and the result will be happy, why do you have to go to those big truths?
In order to get the result of solving the problem as soon as possible, Jiang Ting hurriedly frowned and asked suspiciously: "My international student, aren't you going to bring out all the theories in the books for me to listen to?"
"How is that possible? The theory of analysis in the book cannot be explained in a year and a half, and at the moment I can only say that there is no time to analyze the key points in detail. Therefore, I think that the best way to deal with the triangular relationship between them this time is to treat both the symptoms and the root causes, and then all the problems can be solved with patience. As for why we chose the method of treating both the symptoms and the root causes? I will first give three reasons for such a question...... "Li Jin's three reasons were immediately interrupted by Jiang Ting before he began to speak.
"Li Jin, I beg you not to talk about the causes and consequences, okay? What I need now is a concrete and effective plan to solve the problem, it is better for you to simply state the results directly, and also to achieve immediate results and a quick solution. I think it's the only way to be happy, or you're going to suffocate me. Jiang Ting said impatiently.
Li Jin was really dumbfounded when he heard Jiang Ting's one-size-fits-all words, how could Jiang Ting in front of him make such an unreasonable request? This simply made him feel incredible. It seems that his big truth today is probably to play the piano against the cow, and it may not have any effect at all.
To put it bluntly, Li Jin originally wanted to take advantage of this good opportunity to make suggestions, and he had to show off his ability and talent to deal with problems in front of Jiang Ting, but he didn't expect his good intentions to be so in vain, and now he really feels that it is not worth it when he looks for it carefully.
Facing the reality, Li Jin really feels helpless at the moment, it seems that he can only speak according to Jiang Ting's will today, and he must remove a large number of analysis parts, and only adopt a concise and concise way of expression to directly say the result of solving the problem.
Thinking of this, Li Jin said seriously: "Jiang Ting, don't be too anxious, then I will directly say the result according to what you said." What I want to say is that the root of the problem is mainly on Brother Lin Zi, because all the grievances in this triangle relationship are all caused by Brother Lin Zi, as long as Brother Lin Zi puts the position of love right, as for other things, it will be solved by forbearance. ”
"Li Jin, the result this time really made you right, you are worthy of being an international student, and you have a thoughtful mind. It's just that, what is the way to say it?" Jiang Ting wanted to solve the problem as soon as possible, so that Brother Lin Zige could be happy, and she was anxious to ask at the moment.
"What's the matter, do you believe what I said this time? Hahaha, as for the subject problem, it falls on Sister Xiang, as long as Sister Xiang can believe and understand Brother Lin Zi's words from the bottom of her heart, it is natural that the resentment in Sister Xiang's heart will disappear immediately. At that time, as long as Sister Xiang has no resentment in her heart, there will be no more excesses or bad things happening. Jiang Ting, do you think the result I said is right? Hahaha!"
"Li Jin, you really deserve to be a highly talented student, because your thinking is indeed extraordinary, and I am indeed very satisfied with the result of your analysis. Now that you have the result, how do you finalize the next solution?" Jiang Ting still asked with interest.
Li Jin saw that Jiang Ting was very interested in his statement, and his heart was as happy as honey at the moment, he didn't expect that he would really be able to impress Jiang Ting. It's a pity that Jiang Ting doesn't understand the big truth, otherwise the big truth he said would make Jiang Ting admire it even more.
Now that his image has been sublimated in front of Jiang Ting, Li Jinjue can't just give up, and he must work hard to show his ability and talent.
It's just that Li Jin already has experience in the way he speaks, and he knows that Jiang Ting's quick temper doesn't listen to the reason, but only wants to hear the result. Therefore, he must pay attention to the proportions of his next words, otherwise this impatient Jiang Ting will interrupt his words again.
Thinking of this, Li Jin continued with great interest: "Jiang Ting, if the two of us want to completely solve the joint relationship between the three of them, we must adopt a method of treating both the symptoms and the root causes. ”
"Li Jin, didn't I tell you just now? Don't talk about the reason now, I just want the result. Jiang Ting saw that Li Jin opened the conversation box again, and hurriedly reminded him at the moment.
"Okay, the specific method I want to talk about is like this, the two of us have to do the ideological work of Brother Tong Linzi, and at the same time dispel Sister Xiang's ideological concerns, the only way to take this two-pronged approach can we really receive good results, if you don't believe it, we can try it immediately, and I promise to satisfy you when the time comes." Li Jin really listened to Jiang Ting, and immediately changed the way he spoke.
"Li Jin, since your plan is like this, I will strongly support it, then let's take action immediately!" Jiang Ting felt very uncomfortable when she thought of Brother Lin Zige's sad face. Now that she has Li Jin's solution, she is very happy in her heart, and she can't wait to urge at the moment.
"Of course, immediate action can be taken, but this two-pronged approach must be divided into separate actions, and only by taking individual breaks can mediation be successful. Li Jin also said with confidence.
Jiang Ting listened to Li Jin's statement and felt that it was indeed very reasonable, so she pondered for a moment and replied excitedly: "Li Jin, what you said is very right, then let's do what you say! I'm responsible for convincing Brother Lin Zi, and you can solve Sister Xiang's ideological baggage, do you think it's okay for me to arrange like this?"
Li Jin saw that his mediation plan was adopted by Jiang Ting again, and he felt very happy in his heart, it seems that his image has been further improved in front of Jiang Ting.
In the past few days, Li Jin has worked hard to think about the results, and now it is finally not in vain, it seems that his specific plan will be put into practice tonight, and the solution of the problem will definitely be able to achieve his wish, and such a gratifying situation is really refreshing enough.
Li Jin also thinks it's very good about Jiang Ting's arrangement just now, didn't someone say before that men and women don't get drunk when they drink together? Li Jin also feels that the communication between the opposite sex is easier than that of the same sex, and maybe the success rate is more satisfactory than he imagined.
Thinking of this, Li Jin also said confidently: "No problem, since you handed over Sister Xiang to me, then you can put one hundred and twenty hearts, and I will do everything I can to persuade Sister Xiang at that time, and ensure that I can complete the task satisfactorily, and I will never hold you back!"