Chapter 44: Empathy

Does leaving a group look unsociable?

Perhaps, but it must be insignificant.

Some people can't get rid of the habit of jealousy in their lives, and even think that what can you do with idle words, will you be so serious?

There is no discussion of what is right and what is wrong......

Everyone thinks differently, so there is a definition that things gather like and people gather by groups.

If everyone is fine, it's a sunny day-

Sincerity is not non-mainstream, on the premise of not disturbing other people's lives, your life is happy with you.

And looking at this matter from the perspective of positive energy, it naturally triggered a wave of withdrawal from the group, after all, the truth is there, the emergency department is fixed, it shows that people are performing well, why should you be judged here?

If you can't eat grapes, you say sour, is it interesting?

The internship is already very tiring, and having a role model in front of it is also a kind of sustenance and hope, who is really sick?

Glance.

Since then, the internship group of the four schools has gradually cooled down, and even if someone is still inside, no one has spoken. Originally, it was an exchange group of three school interns, but when the nature changed, there was no value in existence.

Among the six people in Qin Traditional Chinese Medicine College, Chen Qin quickly set up his own group chat.

And Chen Tongwei also formed a three-person team, and the first sentence in the group was that he sent -

"Cool, run away after pretending, hahaha. ”

Wang Fei: "Smiling face." ”

Monday: "Smiling face." ”

No one knows if there will be any intersections in the future, but the experience of the first internship is definitely unforgettable.

So, in a happy mood, the shift clocked in at seven o'clock, and the emergency internship of the two officially came to an end. Chen Tongwei also wanted to invite his senior brother Yu Jian, Jing Dong and Dr. Chen to dinner, but was politely rejected by the three of them.

"It's not that we don't give face, you have a rest tomorrow, and we still have to go to work. ”

"You have to be really hearted, this meal is owed, and when your internship is over, you can find an internship unit, and you can get together again when you are free. ”

The three instructors spoke from the heart, and there was nothing to be embarrassed about.

Anyway, they have also experienced 'medical troubles' together, Chen Tongwei and Yu Jian still have the scratches of an old lady on their bodies, and they are ready to reunite, they are familiar to this extent, and there is no need to be limited to formality.

After work, they scattered.

Tomorrow is a day off, Wang Fei and Chen Tongwei are going to report to the new department, and they have to prepare when they go back.

After waiting at the emergency door for a while on Monday, Su Quan came.

The two are in the same hospital building, and it is an exaggeration to say that they have not seen each other for a month, but it is true.

Su Quan's internship in cardiothoracic surgery involves the heart of the core of the human body, and the proper high-end department, even in the so-called chain of contempt for doctors, is also the existence of the first three grades, compared to the emergency department, the high-end does not know where to go.

Then, as mentioned before, the novice village character runs to the dragon slaying battlefield, and after the dragon slayer warrior kills the evil dragon, you may not be able to move the dragon corpse, and what you can do may be......

Clean up the feces that the dragon was scared out of by the warriors?

Well, it's a bit ugly, but that's the reason.

After a month, there is no progress in learning, and the only benefit may be that I have a one-sided understanding of cardiothoracic surgery and know the practice direction of the department.

The school teaching internship is mainly mixed with a graduation certificate.

However, Su Quan was lucky, and he was transferred to the emergency department for the second time, and he was finally able to gain something.

"Hanging hair, hahaha, starting tomorrow, I'll mess with you. ”

Zhou Sheng hated the word 'hanging hair', and even after four and a half years with Su Quan, he couldn't understand why the southern people's verbal Zen was so ...... So fine.

It's so delicate that you have to take out a hair all day long to talk about things.

But it is not realistic for Su Quan to change his words, it is not easy for authentic Lingxi people to speak Mandarin clearly now.

"I can't take you, Wang Fei is such a solid person, and he has also been abused to doubt life, you are prepared, it is one thing to learn something in the emergency, and you will definitely peel off your skin when you are busy. ”

Su Quan nodded approvingly: "Definitely, if there is another internship opportunity, I will also stay." ”

His expression was resolute.

When others say this, they may not believe it on Monday, but it is only hot for three minutes, and reality will soon teach you how to be a man.

But Su Quan is different, there is a mature soul hidden under the shallow surface, which is also the reason why Zhou Sheng can play with him, Lingxi people who seem to be big and smug and have strange bones, have a bad background and poor family conditions, and can get out of the poor mountain village by their own efforts.

I heard him say once on Monday that when he was in elementary school, he had to walk more than three hours from home to school, and when he went to school in the county seat in junior high school, he got on his father's motorcycle, but he had to squeeze in the shed of the construction site with his father every night, and he had to help with work from time to time.

In such an environment, it is really not easy to boil out a medical student, even if the specialty is not very good in partial imaging clinics.

Su Quan understands the benefits of internships, and if he performs well, he may be able to sign an internship contract after graduation.

He didn't have time to waste, and wasting an extra day was wasting his family's money.

He also has a brother and sister in school.

"Let's go, I'll treat you to dinner. ”

Zhou Yi laughed a little: "Okay, I'll kill you." ”

Su Quan smiled, and he didn't know why he was happy.

Zhou Shengsheng actually knew that he had wanted to invite himself to dinner for a long time, and Su Quan's Central Institute had an internship place, but he wanted to come for him. And even if his family is not good, Zhou Zhou will not refuse.

It is possible to be empathetic to friends, but never to be compassionate.

The former is empathy, empathy, comparing the heart to the heart, putting yourself in the other person's shoes to feel the other party's situation, the latter is a little pitiful, charity, which self-respecting person, will be willing to feel sympathy for themselves from others?

What's wrong with me, I'm also a human being and need your sympathy?

This truth was told by Grandpa to Zhou Sheng.

Leaving the hospital, the two squeezed the bus to school.

Off-campus food street, stir-fried in the mountain city.

Two people, four courses.

If you want to donburi rice, you can cover and pour it separately and serve it separately, and the kind with rice in addition is half the price cheaper than stir-frying, and then I ask for a pot of pork rib soup, and neither of them drinks.

Even if the cover was poured separately, a meal cost Su Quan almost a hundred yuan, but the two of them were really happy.

After the meal, Su Quan sent Zhou Zhou to take a taxi on the side of the road, and before getting into the car, he suddenly said: "By the way, my dad has sent two boxes of Luo Han Guo to your grandfather in the past two days, you remember to remind your family, lest the express delivery come, I don't know what it is." ”

"Huh, you ......" Zhou Sheng was stunned, he didn't expect Su Quan to have a backhand.

Su Quan knew about the situation of the Zhou family's clinic.

In his sophomore year, he went to his home as a guest, and happened to hear that his father wanted a source of Luo Han Guo, so he quietly asked his family to send a box over, not to contact the business, mainly Lingxi produced this thing, Zhou Zhou helped him a lot at school, he wanted to thank him.

A large box of fifty catties will cost hundreds of pounds even if it is wholesaled locally.

Now two boxes, not cheap......

Without waiting for Zhou Zhou to finish speaking, Su Quan waved his hand: "You're welcome, it's also that my family doesn't grow Luo Han Guo, otherwise I can give you a few more boxes, my relatives have a seed, it's not expensive, it's so expensive that I can't afford it." ”

Finally, the car was gone.

Zhou Yi couldn't cry or laugh, and finally sent a WeChat message: "Thank you." ”

"Hanging hair, things are not given in vain, you are familiar with the teaching, and you will help me talk more the day after tomorrow. ”

Su Quan didn't understand......

With an intern on Monday, what can you say for him?

Such a sentence is nothing more than to let him accept it calmly.

When I went home, I told my grandfather about the situation on Monday.

Grandpa smiled and said: "You don't have to tell me this kind of thing, forget what grandpa told you? Friends must be empathetic, not sympathetic, you really treat him as a friend, it is normal for you to come and go, don't think so much, I have seen that child, he is not the type of fat man with a swollen face, he is a good boy." ”

For Zhou Yi, Zhou Shouming was very relieved, his grandson was trained by him to be much more reliable than his son, and at the moment, he only stopped at the point, and he didn't say much.

The affairs of the clinic have been busy, and Sister Liu and Dad are cleaning.

Monday was going to help, and Grandpa was going to go upstairs to rest.

At this moment, the closed glass door of the clinic was pushed open, and the person who came stumbled a few steps and almost fell, but when he entered the door, he didn't look at the Zhou family, but turned around and shouted-

"Hurry, hurry, dead old man, you should hurry up!!"

Shouting, hoarseness!!

Following her gaze, Zhou Yi and Grandpa's eyes chased out.

It's just that my eyes touched the situation on the street outside the window, and my whole body was shocked, and my scalp was 'buzzing' and numb......