A missing chapter between chapters 382 and 383
"Ding Guilan, do you want to go back to live in Qi Bo's house, you have to think clearly, you think clearly, I will call Qi Bo Qijie, otherwise, if you feel sorry for your youngest son, then continue to live in your youngest son's house." ”
Hearing that she was going back to live, Ding Guilan's whole body trembled, she didn't want to go back, she just didn't even dare to look at Qi Bo with her eyes.
"Village chief, you just 'force' me to have no money, since my mother wants to live in Qi Lang's house, then live in Qi Lang's side, but I don't care about alimony. ”
After saying that, he didn't want to pay attention to the matter, patted his ass and left, he thought that if he didn't raise it, what could the village do with him?
Qi Lang and Qi Haifu's "women" came over with Qi Dafu, and when they saw Ding Guilan, they were all angry.
"Is that still a human being? How did you take care of your mother like this?" Qi Dafu saw Ding Guilan, who had grown old all of a sudden, and burst into tears.
"Old woman, do you see clearly now? What the hell is the son you gave birth to?"
"Woo woo woo!" Ding Guilan cried when she saw Qi Dafu.
"You don't want me anymore, you don't want me anymore, old man, I don't want to live in the third family anymore. I'm not confused anymore. Boss, the second is that I was wrong. I used to be sorry for you two, why did I give birth to such a thing? I'm blind!" Ding Guilan cried vigorously.
On the one hand, the village chief had already explained the whole matter to the Qi family brothers.
Hearing that Ding Guilan was actually picking up snails and oysters on the tidal flats, and living such a life, the two brothers couldn't wait to go over and smoke Qibo Kid now.
Although Qi Dafu said that he wanted to divorce Ding Guilan, the two have lived for so many years, and they have children who have a deep relationship.
People are like this, when they live closely, they are easily blinded by family affection, and they like to listen to some good words and soft words. is why there were so many "traitorous" ministers in ancient times?
Throughout ancient times, the "traitorous" ministers all had a common characteristic, that is, they were extremely talkative, and they spoke with the emperor in their hands, so that the emperor could not be happy in his heart?
Such people are usually bored and bored together, where can they be called like?
Looking at the emperor is still like this, not to mention the family of the ordinary people, there is a way that the emperor loves his son, and the same is true for ordinary people.
Giving birth to the eldest son is generally a higher expectation, at that time I feel that the eldest son is the son inheriting the father's business, so the meaning of the eldest son is different, the middle child is basically not valued, because there are younger ones to take care of, giving birth to a boy, there is already the eldest son, so everything is so-so.
Mi'er, that's if you feel spoiled, you're not afraid, anyway, if your brother is in the way, what are you afraid of?
Children live in a more relaxed environment, and they are surrounded by laughter and laughter, and such children are more unscrupulous in speaking, so they can generally speak more than the eldest son, and they will like to make their parents happy.
That's because they have been with their parents for a long time, and they usually know what their parents like. Don't look at children, children like to observe words and "colors" the most.
When facing the eldest son, it is usually not easy for parents to show their feelings, because different ways of education and different attitudes towards children lead to the difference in children's "sexual" personality in the end.
As long as you observe the family in life, you can find that the parents who manage a lot will have more restrained children, and the parents will be more diligent, and the children will be lazy.
And the parents are lazy, on the contrary, the children should be more diligent, there is no way, life is hard, they can only do their own things, and they may have to help the lazy parents do things.
The most important thing is to force parents, once the parents are pressed, the children will appear humble, are pressed every day, how do you make the children strong? Before the emotional intelligence was low, in the face of other children, they could not be strong at all, and the oppression by their parents became a habit, and they were forced to act in society.
On the contrary, children whose parents are more reasonable, children will also appear reasonable, everything is reasonable, that is, the child's own environment is like this, and the parents who are quite unreasonable, the same child will also appear to be quite unreasonable, since childhood, parents teach by word and deed, how can you let him be reasonable?
So parents are a mirror of their children, don't blame your children for not being good, that's all educated by yourself.
Qi Dafu is like this now, he is extremely remorseful, hating himself for listening to Qi Bo's words in such a daze, and treating his eldest son and second son as tools to make money.
When he looked at his old wife, his tears of remorse were too late to flow, knowing that with Qi Bo, his wife would not have a good life, but he always had a glimmer of hope, but Ding Guilan was the mother who gave birth to him, and he could be more respected.
As a result, in just half a year, Ding Guilan was already so old that she was almost blind in her eyes.
When she saw Qi Dafu, Ding Guilan covered her mouth and cried, and Qi Bo heard that the eldest and second child and his father were coming, so he ran away a long time ago.
Qi Dafu went to Qi Bo to settle accounts, and even the door of his house was closed, and he only sent Qi Huang to deal with the whole thing.
"Grandpa, uncle, I'm very sorry, my brother and I went to school in the county seat, and I didn't know about 'milk' and 'milk', and when I came back, 'milk' and 'milk' said that my eyes couldn't see, so I took her to let Qi Xuan see her eyes. I really didn't mean to. If I live on Xiaoyang Island, I will definitely come to the house to take a look, and I will know about the "milk" and "milk", but I am usually busy with my studies, and I don't have any time, plus I have to earn my own and my brother's tuition, I really don't have time to come to the island, I know this is my parents' fault, please forgive them, they have been arrogant and ignorant since they were young. Qi Huang's words are very interesting, and they express several things.
The first expression had nothing to do with her, on the contrary, she took Ding Guilan to see a doctor.
The second expression is that her parents don't give her tuition, and she has to earn it. She was pathetic.
The third layer of meaning is a vague expression, she is not on the island, but there are still people on the island, and the sisters of the Qi Xuan family actually watched Ding Guilan being abused, and they never cared about Ding Guilan.
The fourth meaning is that the reason why parents are like this, it is that the two elders have not been educated well, and they have made their children arrogant and ignorant since childhood, which has created today's results.
In summary, it's not their family that's at fault, or it's you yourself who didn't raise your children well.
Listening to what Qi Huang expressed, Qi Xuan was "hehe", but there were really fools who fell for Qi Huang's old time, and they were dissatisfied with Qi Xuan.
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