"For a lifetime?" Shen Xiao added to his words.

Chu Yunjian just wanted to say "yes", but when he saw Shen Xiao's eyes, he suddenly couldn't say it again.

"Could it be...... Do you think a lifetime is not suitable?" Chu Yunji tried to discern Shen Xiao's mind clearly, but it was really difficult, because Shen Xiao could always think about things from some angles that he had not thought about.

"One life is too long. Shen Xiao walked to the Spring Warm Pavilion and saw that this pavilion was arranged warmly and elegantly, so he couldn't help but walk in and find a place to sit down.

"A lifetime is a long time," Chu Yunjian sat an arm's length away from her, "Do you think that such a person cannot exist?"

"Do you know why many couples are glued together like glue when they are young, and they can't tear apart, but when they are fifty or sixty years old, they suddenly feel that they can't stand each other and finally choose to divorce?" Shen Xiao asked rhetorically.

Chu Yunji pondered for a moment and said: "When I was young, it was a time to share hardships and hardships, and many contradictions were covered up under revolutionary friendship and were not exposed. But when you are fifty or sixty years old, it is the time to enjoy wealth...... As we all know, many people can only share weal and beg, not wealth and prosperity. ”

"That's one thing. Shen Xiao sighed softly, "There are not the vast majority of people who can only share weal and woe and cannot share wealth and wealth, this type of divorced couple is more because they didn't have time or pay attention to the emotional communication between two people when they were young." They have a common goal, work together, build their own kingdom together, work is all they have in life, and their partners are their comrades-in-arms, so they basically communicate content that has nothing to do with emotions, such as work, such as children...... These are not personal emotions, these are just lives. ”

"But ......" Chu Yunji was a little confused: "Then the two couples, what else can they talk about?"

"I can talk about anything except work and children. ”

"Uh...... That's ...... Talking about the future?" Chu Yunji asked tentatively.

He kept observing the expression on Shen Xiao's face out of the corner of his eye, adjusting the content of his speech according to her expression: "Or...... Talk about your dreams......

"Actually, it's all right. Shen Xiao smoothed the wrinkles on his pants: "You can also talk about your childhood, about the harm your parents have caused to you, and about how your parents once loved you...... Talk about what you like, what you want to do with each other in the future, and where you want to go......"

I don't know why, hearing Shen Xiao say this, Chu Yunzhi suddenly depicted a couple in his mind, they snuggled up to each other, chatting about what Shen Xiao said just now.

The joys and sorrows of childhood.

The love and hurt of parents.

Own dreams, common future......

As they spoke, the couple's hearts became closer and closer...... Chu Yunji could even feel that their souls had undergone a high degree of fusion at that moment.

Is this what Shen Xiao is talking about emotional communication?

Truly...... Talking about work and children is not up to this height.

How to fuck up colleagues, how bosses are arrogant, how naughty kids are, how expensive school district houses are...... These trivial things in life will not allow the two to integrate emotionally.

No wonder...... So many couples' marriages fall apart in their old age.

I haven't gotten the right communication and communication for decades, and after a few decades, I'm afraid I can't understand each other's voices at all, right?

At the age of fifty or sixty, most couples are retired, have no jobs, and their children have already started a family, which is the moment when the couple's emotional needs are highly intertwined.

But everything needs to be honed and practiced, and the same goes for emotional communication. Couples who haven't experienced much emotional communication in decades can become overwhelmed by each other when it comes to such moments. Each other's hobbies and things they care about have become different...... Gradually, we can only go further and further in different directions.

Separation is an inevitable consequence.

"It's really better to listen to your words than to read for ten years. Miss Shen is worthy of being a psychological counselor, and every word she says can be said to people's hearts. Chu Yunzhi praised.

Shen Xiao smiled indifferently and didn't say anything.

Her indifferent and detached attitude made Chu Yunji can't help but want to get closer to her and understand her better. But Shen Xiao was too cold, and he didn't know where to start.

After being silent for a long time, he thought of a topic that Shen Xiao might be interested in: "Miss Shen, you said before that you usually stay at home and play games on weekends. Actually, I also have the same hobby, I don't like to go out on weekends, and I also like to play games with friends at home, I don't know which game Miss Shen usually plays?"

"I play any game, I don't pick and choose. Shen Xiao didn't seem to intend to talk about this issue in depth, and answered very perfunctorily.

Chu Yunzhi refused to give up: "Which game is it?" I recently played a game called a desperate life, Miss Shen should have heard of it, right?"

"Desperate for life, of course I've heard of it, the hottest game now, everyone calls it duck. ”

"Yes, that's right! It's this game! Is Miss Shen playing?"

"I've touched two handfuls once in a while, but I haven't gotten into them much to play. ”

"Then which game does Miss Shen usually play a lot?"

“……”

Shen Xiao was very unruly about this stubborn Chu Yunji.

After hesitating for a moment, she whispered, "I've been obsessed with the Fierce Man King recently. ”

"Fierce Man King! It's a brush-brush game.,There's basically no plot.,There's no market for it among girls.。 Chu Yunji exclaimed, "I didn't expect Miss Shen to like playing this game!"

"What do you mean?" Shen Xiao glared at him in displeasure.

Chu Yun hurriedly explained: "Don't get me wrong, I'm just very surprised, because I also like this game, but my friends, there are not many people who can play this game, and they can't get enough people to open a room." ”

Shen Xiao didn't accept his clumsy explanation at all: "You don't think girls can play this kind of game that tests operations, do you?

"I definitely didn't mean that!" Chu Yunji's face changed greatly, and he hurriedly raised three fingers and swore: "I just simply sighed, I definitely don't mean to discriminate against girls who can't play!"

"Hmph, you'd better not. Shen Xiao put away his arrogance and glared at him coldly: "I will never allow anyone around me to discriminate against girls in a grand manner." ”

"No, no, I will never do this kind of tasteless thing. Chu Yun swore to the sky.

Shen Xiao calmed down and slowed down his tone: "The game of the King of Fierce Men does not have much market among girls. However, there are still a lot of female players, and I have seen many female players who play Fierce Man King, if you need it, I can introduce you to it. I'm sure they'll be happy to get to know you, a handsome guy. ”