378 Live and learn
Old Man Gu was not interested in listening to him, and glanced at him silently.
"Don't worry too much, after all, there is an old lady ......," Chu Yun comforted.
Old Man Gu sighed again.
"Thanks to her, the Gu family has been able to stand for so many years. It's not so much that I'm the head of the family, it's better to say that you, Mrs. Gu, are the backbone of all of us. I know who I am, I'm myself and on others, and I want the world to behave to my high standards. But how is that possible? I am who I am, and no one else can be me. In order to stand up for the image of my father, my four silly sons hardly saw me laugh when they were young. Later, when they got married, I tried to put up my grandfather's image, and my grandchildren tasted the same taste as their father. ”
"Old man......"
Chu Yunji couldn't help but stretch out his hand and gently swept Old Man Gu's back: "Don't think so...... Everyone respects you and likes you very much, and although they know that you don't like to laugh, they know very well in their hearts that you are very arrogant. Just because you don't like to laugh doesn't mean you're unhappy. ”
"I don't understand what you're saying. Old Man Gu was so angry that his nostrils were big.
Tsundere, you're big!
Chu Yunji smiled: "Everyone has long had insight into your arrogance, but you still think you are hiding it well." Actually, you don't have to worry about being too harsh, because you have given them love. As long as they have given the right love, they will not go astray. ”
“…… Have I given it?" Old Man Gu was a little dazed, "I mean, of course I did, but is it correct...... In our era, there was no systematic education concept at all, and the education of children was always beaten or scolded. Although I don't like to beat and scold my juniors arbitrarily, I haven't given them much warmth. I used to think that would be enough. But now, I have learned more advanced educational concepts, and I have begun to reflect on whether I have not done enough in the way I was educated......"
"You alone, maybe not enough. But with the addition of the old lady's, it's complete. ”
"She's her, I'm me, and can't be mixed up. ”
Old Man Gu frowned: "Children should get the same correct love from their father and mother, instead of only getting warmth from their mother, but only being strict with their father, this kind of education is very deformed." ”
"Old man...... May I remind you...... Your youngest grandson is almost 30 years old...... Do you think they're kids?"
"No matter how old a person lives, he will always be a child in the hearts of his parents!" Old Man Gu blew his beard and glared.
"Yes, yes, you're right. You continue. ”
“…… Recently, I read some related materials and began to reflect on my own educational philosophy. Alas, I didn't expect it, it's hard to change habits. As soon as he encountered something, this temper ......" Old Man Gu swept his heart with the back of his hand: "...... Still in a hurry. ”
"Why do you still look at these things?" Chu Yunji was very curious: "You are all this age, can't you enjoy your happiness?" and still think about how to educate the younger generations?"
"Happiness? People are not blessed until they are old. Every day I am with you, Mrs. Gu, I am enjoying happiness. I've enjoyed decades of happiness!" As soon as Old Man Gu talked about his beloved wife, his face was full of tenderness, and he stroked his beard with a smile.
"Great, this can stuff me with a mouthful of dog food. ”
Chu Yunjian silently gave him a thumbs up.
So, my point is: people live to learn. It cannot be said that because of his age, he refuses to learn advanced concepts. ”
"Yes, you're right. ”
"Moreover, Xiaoxiao was so enthusiastic to recommend those videos to me, I have seen them all, oops, I really don't know if I don't watch it, it turns out that there are such good educators in China, and I am willing to share her advanced educational concepts with everyone......"
"What?" Chu Yun was stunned: "Why is Xiaoxiao also mixed up here?"
"Hmph, people Xiaoxiao is much more filial than you! You're busy all day, and you don't know what you're busy with, and you don't even bother to call me. But what about Xiaoxiao, who Xiaoxiao calls us at least once a week, but you can make the old lady Gu beautiful~ You're almost snotty bubbles. ”
Chu Yunji: "......"
He had no idea that Shen Xiao had done such a thing behind his back.
He also thought that Shen Xiao was a person with weak kinship and didn't like to contact his elders.
But now it seems that Shen Xiao treats everyone equally.
As long as she is good to her, she will try her best to give back to the other party in the way that the other party likes.
Chu Yunji couldn't help but giggle happily, complacent that he had found such a lovely girlfriend.
Old Man Gu saw through what he was thinking at a glance, and snorted coldly: "Don't think that Xiaoxiao's filial piety means that you have filial piety, tell me yourself, how many calls have you made to me these days?
"Old man, just spare me. I'm so busy these days that I don't even have time to call Xiaoxiao, where can I still have time to call you?" Chu Yunzhi was helpless.
"I just don't have the heart......! No matter how busy you are, you have to catch your breath, don't you? You just don't think about us two old immortals, right?"
"The more you talk, the more strange it becomes, I'm done with this, and I'll take Xiaoxiao to visit you two the next day, is this still called no heart?"
"Humph......"
Old Man Gu knew that he was making trouble unreasonably, so he was scolded by Chu Yun like this, he snorted twice and stopped talking.
He just likes Chu Yunji's junior too much, the Gu family has so many children and grandchildren, for some reason, Old Man Gu is the most compatible with Chu Yunji. When he is with his children and grandchildren, Old Man Gu will not be so arrogant. Only when he was with Chu Yunji, Old Man Gu couldn't wait to be arrogant to the sky.
What's interesting is that Chu Yunzhi is also used to him.
Old Man Gu could see that Chu Yunji was used to him not because he was the head of the Gu family, but because Chu Yunji sincerely respected him and admired him.
Although there is no blood relationship between him and Chu Yunji, from the day he picked Chu Yunji home, the Gu family and Chu Yunji have had a constant bond.
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Shen Xiao accompanied Mrs. Gu hand in hand and went back to the room to get the ancient grease cream.
When passing through the corridor on the way, I met the fourth daughter-in-law of the Gu family, Gu Xingjian's mother.
Gu Xingjian's mother, Lan Xi, is a woman who walks with the wind, wearing a flowing skirt printed with cyan ink paintings, and two wide gauze bands hanging from the back of her clothes, which will fly in the wind as soon as she walks, as if she has a pair of transparent wings behind her.