Because I have done IVF too many times.

After Maimaimai was born, An Shuyi's physical condition has not been very good.

The doctor said that in her case, she would have to recuperate for at least five years before she could consider having another child.

When Maimaimaimai was three years old, An Shuyi began to listen to her tone: "Giant panda, do you want a younger brother or a younger sister?"

Maimaimai shook his head like a rattle very firmly and resolutely: "Don't have a brother, don't want a sister, the baby panda likes to be alone." ”

After that, no matter how many times I asked, the answer was the same.

An Shuyi thought that it might be that Maimaimai was still young, and she didn't quite know what it meant to have a younger sibling to grow up with her, but she didn't know that Maimaimai's refusal was because when she was still ignorant, her parents often joked with her.

The couple often say that the vitality of Maimaimai is too strong, and the living space of the elder brother and younger brother has been squeezed out, and they are born to be an extremely domineering child.

What Mom and Dad said as a joke left a little shadow in the hearts of the young Sanmai children.

At the beginning, Maimaimai suspected that his domineering was a murderer.

Later, it simply rose to the point that there should be no such species as brothers and sisters in this world, she should be domineering and self-respecting.

This is also why, after another two years, when An Shuyi's physical condition allowed, and once again proposed the topic of having a younger brother to grow up with Maimaimai, the Sanmai child, who already had the name of buying boss in the kindergarten, immediately exploded:

"What brother, what brother, what brother? Don't you know that there is family planning?"

"If you dare to put your brother in your stomach, I will dare to go to the neighborhood committee to expose you. ”

"As long as I'm here, you don't want to have any other children. ”

"You know your brother and brother, and you know that you are patriarchal. ”

"You wish it was me who was being contested in the stomach at that time, not my brother and brother, right?"

From anger to grievances, from tears in the eyes to tears, the reaction is not small.

It's completely a posture that if you dare to have a younger brother, I will dare to give my younger brother no "competition".

Mai Hai and An Shuyi don't know when they have a problem with Mai Mai Mai's guidance.

Anyway, the result is there, and buying Lego is very resistant to having brothers and sisters who grow up with me.

That year, Maimaimai was five years old, and An Shuyi was thirty-eight years old.

Because of the "desperate obstruction" of buying, buying, buying, and buying, and Ann Shuyi did not go to the test tube again.

The matter of having another child has not been officially put on the agenda for several years.

An Shuyi has always wanted to do another test tube in her heart, and there is one more, or even two children, but there is no one at home to support her.

In addition to the obstruction of buying, buying, buy

After all, in that era when the test tube technology was not particularly mature, doing so many test tubes was already a great harm to An Shuyi's body.

When the two of them didn't have a child before, there was no way to stop An Shuyi from doing test tubes again and again.

Now that they have already bought and bought, they don't want to force another son at all.

Small obstruction, big opposition, until An Shuyi is over forty years old.

Gradually, I lost this thought, and accepted the fact that the buyer only has and will only have one child.

The daughter strongly wants to abide by the family planning policy, and An Shuyi has nothing to say.

An Shuyi "abides by the law" year after year, and when she is about to reach the age of knowing the destiny of heaven, the country begins to open the two-child policy.

At that time, An Shuyi, who got along with Maimaimai like a friend, joked with her daughter again:

"When you were young, you said that if I dared to give you another brother, you would go to the neighborhood committee to accuse me of being a child. Now that the country encourages a second child, several of your classmates' parents have also given birth to a second child, do you think I should also add a younger brother to you to play with?"

Maimaimai, who is already in high school, laughed after listening to it:

"Hahaha, you're all too old, and you're still thinking about this, are you really fake?"

"Don't think you're really a young man just because you look young? You don't know you're almost fifty yourself?"

"You don't really think that you and my classmates and parents who gave birth to a child in their early twenties and are now rushing to add another child are in the same situation?"

"Ms. An, you better accept the reality. ”

Maimaimai thinks that An Shuyi has been a joke with her since she was a child, which is one of the funniest ones.

"Who are you talking about?" An Shuyi was very angry, even if Maimaimai was a giant panda, then she couldn't just bully the mother of pandas.

"Of course I mean you, my mother. "Haha, let me tell you, if you can still give birth now, you will give birth." You have a big business, and you want to have a son to inherit it, can I manage it?"

She didn't believe that Mai Haiyang would be willing to let An Shuyi, who was nearly fifty years old, give birth to a child.

Although it is not unheard of in the news that a couple who are fifty years old or even older have risked their lives to do test tubes, buyers do not belong to such a situation.

Mai Haiyang is not at all dissatisfied with the fact that he only has one daughter, after all, he used to be a person who could even accept adoption.

An Shuyi said that she was joking when she said that she was going to have a second child.

It's also a joke to say that she is born.

Since it's a joke, forget it.

Until Maimaimai graduated from high school, no one mentioned this unreliable thing again.

However, Maimaimai had just entered university, and a phone call from the United Kingdom changed the originally harmonious family atmosphere of Maimaimai.

An Shuyi's first overseas hospital in the UK for IVF began to sort out the information of frozen embryos because she needed to move.

An Shuyi's fourth-level embryo in the British hospital, which was supposed to be abandoned, has been frozen for almost twenty years.

In the doctor's opinion, the frozen embryos have reached such an age, which is considered the limit, and it is not meaningful to continue to freeze without trying to transfer them back.

The maximum number of years so far for a human frozen embryo to be successfully transferred and give birth to a child is 19 years and 7 months, which must also be a relatively high-level embryo.

The embryo that An Shuyi had to freeze before was originally the lowest-level fourth-grade embryo that did not meet the requirements for doing test tubes.

It is already very insufficient, and it has been frozen for so many years, which is a pure waste of space.

The doctor recommended that the fourth-grade embryo be treated humanely.

The nurse called this quick call, just a routine notice.

It's a small thing.