086 You haven't changed

Zhou Wangce began to fidget.

But he didn't want to throw in the towel easily.

Shen Xiao was just a stranger, she had only met the two brothers for the first time today, why did she say that they had a problem so arbitrarily!

"Mr. Shen, don't care about these trivial things, right? Let's talk about movie sponsorship, okay?"

"If Mr. Zhou doesn't want to talk, he can leave now. Shen Xiao didn't bother to argue with him, and handed his hand to the side: "The door is over there, you can do it yourself." ā€

Zhou Wangce stared at the door next to him, and then looked at Shen Xiao's indifferent face, a wave of anger surged into his heart, but for Zhou Chenxi's sponsorship, he could only press it down.

"Willing to listen to Mr. Shen's teachings. Zhou Wangce lowered his head.

"Zhou Chenxi has been in charge of everything for him since he was a child, right?"

Shen Xiao looked directly into Zhou Wangce's eyes: "It's as big as applying for any volunteer, as small as peeling a shrimp, you helped him decide to deal with it, right?"

Zhou Wangce shook his head: "We are indeed more spoiled by Chenxi, but we don't do everything for him as Mr. Shen said, and we also pay attention to cultivating his self-care ability......"

"If Zhou Chenxi's self-care ability is up to standard, you won't have so many instructions for him. You have failed to develop this ability to take care of yourself. You don't have to argue any further, after all, the facts are in front of you. ā€

Zhou Wangce was silent.

What Shen Xiao said made him unable to refute.

Shen Xiao continued unhurriedly: "Did Zhou Chenxi like any outdoor sports when he was a child?"

"Yes, he likes to skateboard. ā€

"Is it still slippery?"

"It's not slippery. ā€

"Why didn't you skate? At what age did you start liking it, and at what age did you start giving up? Do you remember?"

Zhou Wangce pondered for a moment and said, "He liked skateboarding when he was 8 years old, but he didn't skate twice, and he stopped skating." I haven't touched a skateboard since. ā€

"Why didn't he slip, do you know why?"

"He said it wasn't fun......"

"You didn't accompany him when he skateboarded?"

"I have it, I've been guarding him by the side!" Zhou Wangce hurriedly said: "I also reminded him to pay attention to his posture and be careful not to fall, I am very concerned about him!

"It's your fault. Shen Xiao smashed a hammer on Zhou Wangce's head.

Zhou Wangce was stunned.

"Weird...... Blame me? How can I blame that? What did I do wrong?"

"I guess, Zhou Chenxi must have fallen, and he fell quite hard, right? And what was your first reaction? I think, your first reaction was to rush over and help him up, and then start complaining that he didn't listen carefully to what you said, and didn't do the 1234 points you prompted, that's why he fell, right?"

Zhou Wangce looked at Shen Xiao blankly: "He didn't do what I said, he fell so badly, of course I have to reprimand him...... Otherwise, what if he falls again?"

"He's fallen, he's been taught a lesson, but you still have to reprimand him, do you think it's the right thing to do?"

Shen Xiao hit the nail on the head.

Zhou Wangce was speechless again.

"Zhou Chenxi was originally quite well-behaved, what do you say and what he does, although he will complain, he will never resist you, right?" Shen Xiao suddenly changed his words.

Zhou Wangce was stunned, and subconsciously replied: "Yes, that's right." ā€

However, from the age of twelve or thirteen, he suddenly became disobedient. He became very disobedient, he didn't study hard, he was hot for three minutes, and he was very disgusted with your teaching to him. As soon as you're going to reason something with him, he'll turn away, won't you?"

"Yes!" replied Zhou Wangce excitedly.

Shen Xiao was right in every sentence, as if she was standing there watching Zhou Chenxi rebel.

"Mr. Shen, why do you think he is like this? I think he is a very competent brother, and other brothers are definitely not as good to my brother as I am, but I work so hard, Chenxi still doesn't appreciate it. I don't know what he's thinking!"

Zhou Wangce was distressed.

He cares more about this younger brother than anyone else, but the fact is that he is getting farther and farther away from his younger brother, and now Zhou Chenxi is like fire and water with him, although he still has to rely on him to pull sponsorship, but if it is not necessary, Zhou Chenxi does not want to meet him at all, and it is usually difficult to ask Zhou Chenxi out for a meal.

Good two brothers, how did they get to where they are today?

Zhou Wangce was puzzled.

Shen Xiao quietly watched him there, sighed, and suddenly smiled.

"Mr. Zhou, do you know what the trajectory of human development is?" asked Shen Xiao.

Zhou Wangce's eyes straightened: "I, I don't understand what you mean......"

"You see, when you are youngest, you are not in kindergarten and you have to snuggle up with your family. What does he often say at this time?"

"I—I don't know...... Talking so much every day, where do you remember ......"

"For such a young child, what is on the lips must be 'Mom said', 'Mom said'...... Right?"

Zhou Wangce suddenly realized and nodded: "That's right, that's right." ā€

"When the child grows up, goes to kindergarten or even elementary school, what will be the words on his lips?"

Zhou Wangce was still thinking about it, and Shen Xiao revealed the mystery: "It's 'the teacher said', 'the teacher said'." ā€

"......" Zhou Wangce quieted down.

Shen Xiao continued: "When he grows up and goes to junior high school, what will he talk about?"

Zhou Wangce seemed to realize something, and began to feel a little uneasy.

Shen Xiao stared at his uneasy eyes: "It's 'classmates say', 'classmates say'." Children after the age of 12 care more about what their peers think than what their family thinks. And they no longer want to listen to people's nagging, because you have been talking about those truths for more than ten years, and he will memorize them, so what is the point of you talking about them again? It is useless except to bore him. ā€

Zhou Wangce raised his eyes and looked at Shen Xiao for help: "Mr. Shen, what do you mean...... What am I doing wrong?"

"You've been wrong, and you've never changed it. Shen Xiao told the truth very bluntly: "For Zhou Chenxi, you are really too strict in control, and your management is not the correct management." You protect him like a porcelain doll, don't allow him to make mistakes, don't allow him to get hurt...... The child who was grown up in such a way has already been covered by you, and you still expect him to break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly and make a career?"

Without waiting for Zhou Wangce to refute, Shen Xiao rushed again: "Zhou Chenxi once had the opportunity to resist, and adolescence was his biggest rebellion. But he has not succeeded in changing your grip, for your total control of him has reached a pathological level. He can't break away from you, so he can only twist himself into a shape that fits in with you. But because you are sick, Zhou Chenxi, who is compatible with you, will definitely not be healthy. ā€