135 How can reality and love be both?
She just happened to swipe a video about an ancient online game, telling about the grievances of the profession of a wet nurse.
Combined with the most popular song "Left Finger Moon", netizens filled in the lyrics and sang by themselves, using this difficult song that spans three octaves and ordinary people can't sing even if they stretch their necks, singing the resentment of the therapeutic profession.
"A thousand butterflies in the left hand, and a water moon in the right hand. Fingertips knocked 100,000 keyboards ......"
“…… Open the outbreak, and the next bite will be full. What about you??? I can't see—"
"I have my left hand on the traditional sound, and my right hand on the bottom. You took a step Nie Yun and rushed to the opposite side......"
"You're back, ahh
"I can't get milk, ahhh
"Knock you, is it easy to play a cure?"
"Running Nima, my legs are broken——!"
The lyrics gradually became irritable, making Tang Yuanyuan fall crookedly on the sofa with joy. Even though she had just undergone a sea change a few hours ago and cried like a tearful person, she still laughed at the funny, high-quality videos.
Tang Yuanyuan frantically typed and sent a barrage, what "you have coins", "real", "sing the most ruthless lyrics with the sweetest voice", as long as she can think of it, she will send it out all in one go.
Ms. Mai listened to her daughter snorting and laughing while typing and sending barrages, she turned her head and tried to look at Tang Yuanyuan with her eyes wide open, but found that she seemed to have not seen her daughter's appearance clearly for a long time.
She's grown up......
is no longer the little girl who would fall down after walking two steps, crying every day and refusing to go to kindergarten, pestering her to tell her stories.
She now has her own thoughts, her own circle of friends, she likes things that only young people can understand, and she pursues a tomorrow that her parents could never dream of.
Ms. Mak saw her daughter smiling so happily that she couldn't bear to disturb her.
It wasn't until Tang Yuanyuan watched the video and laughed enough that Ms. Mai said, "Yuanyuan, my mother wants to talk to you about something, can you come over?"
“……”
Tang Yuanyuan raised her head, and the smile on her face suddenly disappeared.
She locked the screen of her phone, took off her headphones, put them in her bag, and rubbed them around before reluctantly sitting on the edge of the bed.
Ms. Mai looked at her daughter gently and said in a low voice, "Yuanyuan, if your parents are separated, will you be sad?"
"No, it won't. Tang Yuanyuan replied indifferently.
"Then you are...... Agree that Mom and Dad are separated?" Speaking of the divorce, tears welled up uncontrollably in Ms. Mai's eyes.
"Does it have anything to do with me?!"
As soon as Tang Yuanyuan heard her mother's words, she immediately broke out: "I think you parents are really funny! You didn't need my consent for a moment from falling in love and getting married until you gave birth to me, why do you need my consent when you divorce?
Ms. Mak was stunned.
She didn't expect this kind of logic.
She has lived in a single-parent family since she was a child, and blamed all the unsatisfactory life on her mother's divorce, she always thought that she had a say in her parents' marriage, but when Tang Yuanyuan said this, she suddenly figured it out: yes...... Feelings are a matter between parents and have nothing to do with children. If the child's consent is not required when the union is united, why should the child's opinion be sought when the child is separated?
It's not at all fair to put the life choices of parents and the emotional fate of two adults on a single underage child.
What did the child do wrong?
Why do children carry these things?
Adults who can't handle marital feelings well on their own are thrown to underage children to make a ruling? Children really have eight lifetimes of blood mold before they can be put on the table with such immature and self-reliant parents.
Adults should handle their feelings maturely and steadily. If you like it, you'll be together. If you don't love, you will part peacefully. Don't involve the child. Even if they no longer love each other, they can still continue to love their children. A parent's love for their children should not be interfered with by their own marriage.
Even if divorced, the child's father is still the child's father, the child's mother is still the child's mother, and the blood relationship will never change.
It is true that once a divorce occurs, some people will throw aside the children they had with their ex-wife/ex-husband as if they did not have the children.
But this kind of person, even if he is not divorced, will not love his children.
Children are not the bond of marriage, and marriage will not be the security of children.
Love is.
But now, Tang Yuanyuan's father has no love for Tang Yuanyuan, and he is even more disgusted with his wife.
Then there is no need for this marriage, this father-daughter relationship, to survive.
Ms. Mak kept taking deep breaths, and she felt a terrible tightness in her chest.
She understood the truth.
But she still couldn't make up her mind.
Because she has no financial strength.
Economy...... Without economic support, it is impossible for her and Yuanyuan to survive.
But she has been out of society for more than ten years, and now she is going out to look for a job again, what decent job can she find?
Which company wants her?
She used to study music, but she majored in music theory education, and she came out to be a music teacher at most. However, she is so old, which school will want her?
She also took a piano at that time, but after all, it was an elective, and she really didn't play very well. More than ten years ago, she could barely play a revolutionary etude, but now, if you ask her to play Kikujiro's summer, it is estimated that she will choke enough.
At this level, what kind of job can she find?
The family does not have much money, and her husband has a firm grip on the economic power, although he usually gives her family, but the money has to be used every month to pay for water and electricity bills, living expenses, the salary of the housekeeping aunt, and Yuanyuan's study expenses...... It seems that there is a lot of home, but there is not even 1,000 yuan left every month.
So in the past ten years, she has not had any savings at all.
This is why she didn't dare to leave her husband, because once she divorced, she was bound to live on the streets, she couldn't find a job, she couldn't afford to rent a house, she couldn't live, how could she take care of Yuanyuan?
As soon as she thought of these real life pressures, Tang Yuanyuan's mother would immediately have an anxiety attack, chest tightness and shortness of breath, and she couldn't breathe normally at all.
Tang Yuanyuan looked at her mother quietly, she knew that her mother had an anxiety attack.
The financial predicament is a knot in my mother's heart. This is a very real problem, and it cannot be solved by shouting two slogans and drinking two bowls of chicken soup.
Tang Yuanyuan remembered what Shen Xiao told her:
- You have to make her understand that she is not without nothing, she is not without support, she still has you.
- You'll always be ...... Be by her side.