One day when I came home from school, I saw Xiaoxue, and her arm was blue and purple, "Xiaoxue, what's wrong with you?"

The child just kept his head down and didn't speak.

"Xiaoxue, what's wrong with you?" After my questioning, Xiaoxue finally burst into tears.

Xiao Xue said to me, "Mom, I was bullied by Xiao Ming today. ”

"Who is Xiao Ming, and why is he bullying you?" I asked curiously.

Xiao Xue said with tears in her eyes, "Mom, Xiao Ming is my tablemate, he often pulls my braids, and today I don't know why he suddenly hit me." ”

"Why? Didn't the teacher say anything about him this time?" I asked.

Xiao Xue shook her head and said, "I told the teacher before, but the teacher always said that it was my problem, and never criticized Xiao Ming's mother. Speaking of this, Xiaoxue cried again.

Looking at the child's tearful appearance, my heart was like a knife, how can this teacher be? How can this be like this, it is unfair! I am simply not a little moral to be a teacher, and my child is bullied like this, but instead of criticizing that Xiao Ming, he said that Xiao Xue's is not, no, I have to ask that teacher tomorrow.

I woke up early the next day, I didn't have to go to work, and the child's problem had to be solved today.

I dragged Xiaoxue to the kindergarten.

I lowered my head and asked, "Xiaoxue, which teacher is that criticizing you?"

Xiaoxue pointed at me.

I saw a woman in her twenties, tall, handsome, and amiable, how could she do such a thing?

Thinking of this, I said to her, "Hey, are you Xiaoxue's teacher?"

The teacher looked at me strangely, "Yes, I took their Chinese class." ”

"Then yesterday I heard that Xiaoxue had a conflict with her friends, and it was the friends who bullied her first. ”

As I was talking, Teacher Yu looked at me, "We have already investigated this matter, it was your Xiaoxue who disturbed other people's things, so that child was very unhappy and fought back, it was your child who had a problem." "She's menacing.

I couldn't stand it anymore, Xiaoxue explained next to her, "No, I didn't touch his things at all, it was the little boy who wanted to snatch my schoolbag, and if I didn't let him grab it, he would bully me." ”

Xiaoxue cried again when she said this.

Unexpectedly, the teacher was not to be outdone and said, "And your Xiaoxue often likes to talk, this time the incident is obviously her problem, so she won't admit it." ”

Who should I trust? I still believe in my children, because Xiaoxue never lies, and I know Xiaoxue's qualities.

I remember one time, Xiaoxue was playing with other children in the community, and they were playing with a teddy bear at that time, and Xiaoxue liked it very much.

Later, when I came home, I saw Xiaoxue holding the toy bear of the neighbor's child, and I was very angry, thinking that Xiaoxue had taken other people's toys because she liked them.

"Xiaoxue, what are you doing with other people's toys?" I was very angry.

"Xiaoxue, why are you taking other people's things? You know, this is very bad, I teach the child harshly. ”

Xiaoxue just lowered her head and didn't speak, "Xiaoxue, you told your mother, why?"

Finally, Xiaoxue couldn't help it, her tears flowed down in big drops, and I felt distressed when I saw it.

The tone of my voice softened suddenly.

Pulling the child to me, I asked Xiaoxue, "Xiaoxue told her mother, what is going on?"

Xiaoxue cried and said to me, "Mom, I didn't take her toys, it was the neighbor's Yuanyuan who left the teddy bear here, I liked it very much, so I picked it up and played, and Mom, I played with it for two days, and I gave it back to her." ”

"Xiaoxue, you didn't lie to your mother. "Nodding heavily in the light snow.

I believe in my child, after playing for two days, Xiaoxue returned the teddy bear to others, in fact, I have forgotten about it that day, it was Xiaoxue who said to me, "Mom, I have been playing for two days, although I also like Xiaoxiong, but I should return the bear, she must be very anxious." ”

Xiaoxue looked at me with wide eyes, and I suddenly remembered that Xiaoxue had said that she would send the teddy bear back after two days of playing.

"Good. I happily agreed.

Yes, the child is so sensible and honest, can I not be happy in my heart?

Something like this happened today, and I'm sure my kids won't lie.

Since I was a child, I have taught Xiaoxue to say whatever she wants, and even if she makes a mistake, there is nothing as long as she tells her mother honestly, and her mother will definitely forgive her.

This is one of my educational philosophies.

So this time, her teacher must have listened to Xiao Ming's little friend's lies.

For the sake of my family's Xiaoxue, I said to the teacher over there, "Let's call Xiao Ming over now and ask if it's okay?"

"I think let the two children tell each other the reason, because this matter can't be so unclear, you must know that Xiaoxue is often bullied by Xiao Ming, and every time she comes back, her clothes are either wrinkled or crying. It's very sad every time, and I feel like this has to be resolved. And you need a teacher, you must administer justice. ”

I persisted.

The teacher looked at me impatiently and said, "This parent, I still have classes later, I don't have time, I think you should find his homeroom teacher for this matter." ”

"Chinese teacher, I know that you are their Chinese teacher, but I think this incident happened in your class, so I think you should deal with this matter and not drag it out. I said calmly.

The teacher looked at me as stubborn and he couldn't do anything about it, so he had to say to me, "Okay, you wait for me, my class will be over later, let's talk about this matter again." ”

Okay, then I'll wait, anyway, I have time, and now Xiaoxue is my baby, if something goes wrong with the child, I won't be at ease when I do anything.

Thinking of this, I walked around the campus, to be honest, the campus is a pure land, sitting here immediately makes the whole person feel very young, especially looking at those young and sunny faces, I feel that I have returned to my childhood.

Turning around, I came to the school gate, and at this time I saw an old man who was cleaning, careful and meticulous, and I walked over.

"Uncle, I'll help you, you can rest. I said with a smile.

The uncle looked at me and said, "This is my duty." ”

Well, I'm idle and bored. Xiaoxue is going to class, and I am still waiting for his teacher, so I will sit in the courtyard and bask in the sun, the sun is warm, and the whole person is very comfortable.

At this time, the old man swept the floor and dragged him over, looked at me and said, "Girl, why are you here?"

"I'm waiting for my kids. I'll wait for her teacher to say something. ”

I explained to the old man, who looked at me and said, "Oh, which teacher are you looking for?

I said the name of the female teacher, and the old man thought for a while and said, "Oh, that Chinese teacher, well, I still know something about her, because I have been in this school for several years, and this Chinese teacher is still very good in class, but it is very strict with the students, some of them are very strict" The old man said this, paused, and stopped talking.

"Uncle, my child has a conflict with others, I don't know why this Chinese teacher always thinks about favoring other children. It's just because of this that I always feel very twisted in my heart. I explained to the old man.

To be honest, he is such a stranger, and it is not appropriate for me to say this to him, but I thought about it for a while, because there is no one who can help me now, especially since I am in this strange city with a child, and I need someone to listen to my heart.

Uncle looked at me and said to the girl, "Do you know, now in school, gift-giving has become a trend, this Chinese teacher is basically all teachers are very fond of gift-giving, as long as you give gifts, she will take care of your children, will take care of your children, if you don't give gifts, then the teacher is estimated to be a little mean to girls, I have seen a lot." The old man pouted at me.

It's just like that.

I suddenly thought of this, I came to this school, and I haven't given a gift to Xiaoxue's teacher yet, so it must be very problematic for me.

"Uncle, is it really? Is it really that serious now?" I asked him.

He smiled and said, "Oh, this girl is so naïve, when is it now? You have to know that in society you have to give gifts to leaders and teachers in school, so that he will pay attention to your students." ”

The old man was talking, I remembered my childhood, when I was a child, my math grades were very bad, and my math teacher was also laissez-faire, and didn't care much about me, unless it was a bad mood to teach me a lesson, so my life was very miserable.

Later, my mother gave the teacher 10 pounds of eggs, and the math teacher took very good care of me and asked me to answer questions every day. He took good care of me, and when I thought of this, I understood that his atmosphere had not changed for decades, and it had intensified.

Thinking of this, I continued to ask the uncle, "Uncle, what kind of gift do you say I should give?"

The uncle thought for a while and said, "I think it's better for you to send some more expensive ones, you know, the day before yesterday, I saw a parent give a mobile phone to the teacher, and the mobile phone cost thousands of yuan." ”

I don't have that money, I muttered in my heart, and the uncle seemed to see my mind and said to me, "If you do this now, you either don't give it, or you can give it to a more expensive one, you have to know that now, you can't take it if you give too light a gift." "Uncle looks very experienced.

My heart is bleeding.

You know, I don't have a job yet, I'm already struggling to take care of my daughter, and I'm giving gifts to teachers, and I don't have the money.

Forget it, no matter what happens today, I want to get this matter clear, at least I want him to know that my child is not the kind of casual bullying, and she also has a mother.