Some people say that life is beautiful, with poetry and distance.

Especially as a newlywed couple, that little day is really quite nourishing, and the world of the two can be said to be very comfortable.

But once a child is born, the standard of living plummets.

What the?

You say a two-person world?

The world of the two of them is a ghost

Unless the child is brought by the elderly, or the family has the money to directly ask a nanny to help take it, otherwise if it is brought by itself, the young couple will not be said to be a two-person world, and it is impossible to sleep at night.

In addition, this child is simply a money-spending machine, milk powder, paper, diapers, toys, supplementary food, all kinds of places where money is spent are all over the sea, and children's things are all expensive.

Adults, if you are reluctant to spend money to save a little, more than 100 yuan of clothes, just buy a cheap dozens of dollars, 300 yuan of pants can also buy a few dozen dollars, originally ate steak, under the restaurant, in a month not next time, eat the cheapest dishes can also be mixed, but the child is different.

The food and use must be the best, or the best of the current parents, and the money is spent like water.

Li Yongan and Zhao Cuilian have such feelings, but although they say that life is very hard, and they are not at ease when they used to live in the world of two, it is undeniable that having children seems to have hope in life and sustenance in the future.

Although this so-called sustenance seems to be relatively slim now, after all, there are very few pensions for children when they grow up.

After that, I don't think it's a good thing to help raise the child by yourself.

However, this is not so particular for Li Yongan and Zhao Cuilian, because they raise a daughter, and in their words, this definitely belongs to China Construction Bank.

Not to mention anything else, as long as you train your daughter to become a college student, and save a dowry of 100,000 yuan after graduating from college, you can basically get it, and there won't be too much money, and then the daughter gets married and eats almost the man's family.

If you give birth to a boy, it's different, after graduating from college, it's just the time to start helping your son, marriage, bride price, house, grandchildren, granddaughters can be said to spend money like water, it makes people feel creepy when you think about it:

Sometimes Li Yongan is also thinking about what people are doing when they are alive?

Why do you have to get married?

If you have to have children, isn't it good for two people to live in a two-person world?

But having said that, it's still impossible to get married and not have children.

The children have grown up and reached the age of about three.

Li Yongan is busy in the unit, in order to be able to earn more milk powder money, and now he finally took a three-day vacation to finally arrive in the account to play, and he is also looking for this Fuyuan County, not for anything else, just because of the low consumption in Fuyuan County.

When he thinks of the past three years, Li will always have almost a handful of tears and snot.

God knows that as a pillar of the family, as soon as he opens his eyes, the mortgage, car loan, children, milk powder money, it is like being able to dream, a hard mess, and sometimes he can't stand it at all.

According to the previous boss's unhappy look, he slapped it and slapped it on the table and said Lao Tzu is gone!

But now, it's really not going to work, don't do these three words completely removed from Li Yong's mind, after all, people still have to live, and the money for milk powder and diapers for children when they open their eyes must be earned

Although life is more difficult and difficult, you always feel that everything is worth it when you see your child.

"Wife, you too, the past three years have really worked hard for you, you have quit your job in the past three years, and it is really not easy to take care of the children at home"

Li Yongyong said leisurely, and his wife Zhao Cuilian on the side nodded heavily, revealing a bitter smile

"No way, who let our old man take the child and my concept is completely different, together are all quarrels, the child or their own is the safest good or bad, good or bad are all their own, fortunately, the child is three years old, I can go to work after going to kindergarten, but I have been out of society for three years, I don't know if I can make up for it"

The world is so unfair, after three years of separation from society, the experience of previous work and the accumulated resources have been wiped out, and everything has to start from scratch.

I have to say that this society is really quite unfriendly to women, but this is not absolute, and it does not necessarily mean that the mother must quit her job to take care of the child at home after giving birth.

In general, it depends on the two people in the family, who has a high salary, who has a high salary enough to support the family, who will go to work, and who has a low salary that is not enough to support the family, then stay and resign to take care of the children, that's all.

It's just that under normal circumstances, men's wages are thousands of dollars higher than women's, after all, just like what is said on the Internet now, a girl gets two or three thousand yuan a month, and she can arrogantly say that I don't eat, I don't drink what I have at home, and I don't need you to support myself, I can support myself.

Although after paying the rent, there are not a few pennies left for eating and drinking every month, and even moonlight, but the boys who are looking for a talk partner basically will not dislike it.

But men are different, if you only take two or three thousand yuan to rent this house, I'm afraid you won't even be able to find a partner if you get married.

After all, when the time comes, the object will say a word, you can't even support me with two or three thousand yuan, why should I marry you?

This is probably the biggest injustice between men and women in society.

"Okay, okay, although we used to be very difficult, but now the child is in kindergarten is a new stage, we should also be able to take a breath, this time I deliberately chose Fuyuan County as a tourist place, just want to treat you well, our family of three has not been out to travel for a long time"

Li Yongan said happily

Although life is relatively hard, everything is developing in the right direction

This time I traveled to Fuyuan County, just to relax myself and my wife and just children.

"Okay, okay, okay, that's right, hurry up, I heard that we have a very large population in Fuyuan County during this period of time, if you can't find a parking space if you go late, you can't book a room, then it's troublesome."

"It shouldn't be, it's all the Internet era, and the room can be booked in advance, so there's no need to be so nervous, then again, we haven't come out to play for a long time, I'm really excited" Li

Yongan said excitedly, his eyes were shining, and he looked at the time

Not much to say, I saw that Li Yongan and Zhao Cuilian drove the car to the parking lot of Fuyuan County, and then stopped the car, the two of them excitedly raised their heads and looked at the signboard in front of them to welcome you in Fuyuan County, showing a bright smile, after taking the things, locked the car door, and quickly walked towards Fuyuan County, holding hands, there was a feeling of returning to the first date in the love period.