Chapter 482: There are always more ways than difficulties
Zhou Bin asked for a week's personal leave from the unit and found several housekeeping companies, just to find an aunt who could help take care of the children during the day.
Ever since he knew that Qin Wan had depression, his heart was in his throat every day.
Seeing the way she held a knife when she was emotionally out of control, Zhou Bin knew the dangers of this disease, so he didn't dare to delay for a moment.
Finding an aunt is only the first step, just to reduce Qin Wan's mental and physical pressure.
Although Zhou Bin's salary is not much, in the small town of Sedum, there may not be a few dollars left after inviting an aunt.
He felt sorry for Qin Wan, so naturally he didn't care about money, and he wouldn't save a penny that he should spend.
The second step is to slowly repair Qin Wan's subconscious damage caused by taking care of children and work pressure from a mental point of view.
Although this matter may be very simple to say, in fact, where to start and how to express it are all difficult points.
Zhou Bin would contact Lin Yang almost every day and ask him what to do.
Lin Yang also guided him very seriously. As long as he treats Qin Wan well, Lin Yang will not have any prejudices against him.
Zhou Bin also bought a lot of books on psychological rehabilitation and hid them in the office, and he would take them out to read a few pages during his breaks, and slowly explore his experience.
In the few days of leave, Zhou Bin learned very well about making milk powder, changing diapers, changing clothes, bathing, wiping prickly heat powder, etc.
In this way, when he comes back from work, he will help take care of the children, and Zhou Bin will be fully responsible for the gap between the two aunts.
In this way, Qin Wan will be much easier when she comes back from work.
Once the pressure on the person is reduced a lot, the tense nerves will slowly return to their original positions.
Qin Wan's face had a smile again, and the tone of her voice returned to her previous softness.
Zhou Bin did not relax on the results of the first meeting, he knew that as long as his son did not grow up and sent to kindergarten, Qin Wan could be depressed at any time.
So he has a long-term plan, and his work is generally fixed, he neither wants to be promoted or raised, nor does he want to change units, and he will raise his son healthily within three or five years, and Qin Wan will be content to go through this parenting period smoothly.
Regarding Zhou Bin's changes, Qin Wan saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart, although she was diagnosed with depression and needed medication to suppress it.
Qin Wan herself is also very active in cooperating with the treatment, she doesn't want to be as unreasonable as a madman at a young age and hurt people.
While taking medication for treatment, Qin Wan enrolled in a Pilates yoga class and used meditation to regulate her physical and mental health.
As long as it is something Qin Wan wants to do, Zhou Bin supports her 100%.
The life of the two of them passed much more smoothly.
Wu Chenglan occasionally brought Yueyue over to see her brother, and she didn't help Zhou Bin too much, and Zhou Bin also knew that it was better to count on anyone than to count on himself.
For the family's expenses, Qin Wan can always arrange them properly, Zhou Bin's salary card has always been with her, except for Aunt Day's salary, the rest of the living expenses need to be supplemented by Qin Wan's salary.
Coupled with her adopted son, although Qin Wan was promoted and increased by 2,000 yuan, it was not enough, so she used the one million given by Qin Yun to slowly subsidize it.
Zhou Bin knows the situation at home, and he also knows whether the money is enough or not.
So in his spare time, Zhou Bin worked part-time online as a live broadcast coach.
At first, he was not very comfortable with this way of working part-time, after all, his previous work experience and influence were there.
The platform gave him a good advice to put on a mask and sunglasses to demonstrate his movements, so that others might not recognize him.
Zhou Bin, who was bound by economic pressure, compromised, anyway, he was serious about teaching everyone self-defense and fitness, and there was no deception.
At the beginning, he secretly hid in Yueyue's room to broadcast live, and many fans said that the room style was too kawaii.
Zhou Bin changed the guest room, at the beginning there were not many fans, and he could get flowers and a reward of about ten yuan for an hour of live broadcast.
But he doesn't feel ashamed, and he relies on his own skills to gain fans.
A month after he really became popular, a junior girl went to work as a tutor and met a drunk man who teased her on the way back to school.
The girl used the self-defense techniques taught by Zhou Bin in the live broadcast, the drunk was knocked to the ground by the girl, and when the police arrived, they praised the girl's professionalism.
When the girl returned to school, she left a message under Zhou Bin's live broadcast account, saying that she thanked him and rewarded him with a lot of gifts.
When Zhou Bin took the time to see this message the next day, his live broadcast account had already exploded.
The number of fans rose by thousands by an hour, and by the time he broadcast live at night, he already had hundreds of thousands of fans.
Everyone admired and admired the body and skills he displayed, and this time his income began to increase dozens of times.
When he got a rich reward for Qin Wan, Qin Wan didn't know what he had done.
Qin Wan was worried about his hard work and hard work in addition to being moved, his identity must not be revealed, otherwise this would be an indescribable trouble.
Zhou Bin said that he didn't plan to do it for a long time, and he would stop doing it when he saved a certain amount of money.
And the purpose of what he did in the first place was not to make a lot of money, but he didn't think of it crookedly.
When autumn went to winter and everyone put on thick coats, Zhou Bin kept his promise to close his live broadcast account, no longer update and no longer log in.
In fact, he didn't make much money, half of it was divided by the platform, and the rest was given to Qin Wan to supplement his family.
Liangliang had already started teething, and Qin Wan cut off his breast milk and started drinking milk powder, so the expenses would be even greater.
Qin Wan dismissed the confinement sister-in-law who worked at night, and the confinement sister-in-law's salary was twice that of the aunt, although it was Grandpa Ding who was out, Qin Wan also felt that it was a waste.
Liangliang's current routine is the same as that of adults, and he is in the spirit during the day and sleeps on time at night.
In this way, Zhou Bin and Qin Wan took him to rest at night, and took turns to make milk powder at night, neither of them was so tired, and the child was also very good.
Qin Wan's depression went for re-examination several times, and each time it got better than the last, and the doctor said that as long as she maintained such a relaxed mood, there would basically be no problems.
Because as the child grows up, the stage when the child will bring more fun than hard work is coming.
At that time, the various cute states of babbling children will make parents feel that all the hard work is worth it.
And their emotions have gradually increased, and when they begin to observe words and feelings, and speculate on their parents' thoughts, they will really make their parents feel that God has sent an angel down.
At this time, the mother basically no longer has the possibility of depression.
The period of high incidence of postpartum depression has basically passed at this time.
Zhou Bin was finally relieved after knowing this situation, it didn't matter how hard he worked, he was mainly worried about Qin Wan's sequelae at a young age, then he couldn't forgive himself.
watched his son grow up day by day, from the original ugly mallet head to the current tiger head and tiger brain, white and tender cute baby with big eyes and long eyelashes.
Zhou Bin only sighed in his heart: The genes are strong, and all that this child shows after growing up is the advantages of Zhou Bin and Qin Wan.