Chapter 434
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This aunt actually disapproves of the actions of the couple from the bottom of her heart, especially his sister-in-law, who originally seemed to be a knowledgeable person, and many things can be understood clearly with him, but who knows that since giving birth to a child, the whole person seems to have never regained his senses.
Whether it was such a very different treatment of the two children before, or the fact that he simply gave his daughter to them to raise later, no matter in any aspect, his sister-in-law's approach could not get a little recognition from this aunt.
He has given birth to three children, all of whom are sons, and in his eyes these three children are equally important, so his preferences and preferences for them must be different, but no matter what, they are all their own children, and the palms and backs of their hands are their own hands, even if there will inevitably be some differences when treating them in ordinary times, but this uncle and aunt and wife have tried their best to be fair, and it is of course normal to have preferences, but it does not prevent them from expressing their love for each child.
It is also natural for children to have competition with each other, after all, everyone is looking forward to being able to get more love from their parents, but no matter what, in fact, this is fluctuating within a range of qualified and full scores, he can say that although the love for the three children is different, but the gap is not too big, in his opinion, only in this way can the situation between the children be stabilized. In his opinion, if there is excessive preference for a child, it is not a good thing for him to be a parent.
Isn't that what his eldest brother and sister-in-law are like this? Since the birth of the two children, all the attention of the couple seems to be focused on the little child and the little daughter, of course, this situation is understandable to everyone at the beginning, after all, the little daughter does look like she may not die at any time, for a child who is frequently hovering on the verge of death, it is a matter of course to get more love, but as the child gets older and older, after having a sense of autonomy, the attitude of the couple has not improved, but has intensified, it is a little unbearable。
After all, in infancy, even if children can reflect the attitude of the people next to them, but their sense of autonomy is not so strong, in their consciousness may be survival is the only thing that needs to be thought about, as long as they are alive, they will not cry if they are well cared for, but when they have self-awareness, they can produce obvious differences between themselves and other people, and when they think about it, they should pay attention to their attitude.
Obviously, the couple feels that their eldest daughter seems to have been staying in infancy, as long as they give him food, clothes to wear, and let him live without freezing and starving, as if the child has no other requirements, this is simply an unbelievable thing, in his eyes, there may only be a little bit of change in the younger daughter day by day, a little fluctuation in the body can attract their attention, and in their hearts, the eldest daughter seems to be a dispensable existence, anyway, as long as she is given enough material foundation.
But raising a child is not like this, you are fully committed to one child, and having another child watch you ignore his existence is a very cruel thing in itself. It was because I had seen the eldest brother and sister-in-law treat the two children so differently at that time, so the little girl's uncle and sister-in-law could say that uncle and aunt like that, and I envied them for having a pair of lively and lovely daughters. Although this is said to come from the depths of this aunt's heart, it is also because he saw the difference in treatment of the two children, which is too huge, and it is inevitable that people will feel distressed and sympathetic for the eldest child after watching it, and at the same time, he will say such a thing, doesn't he know that he will have another child, and he may have his own daughter, and if he has his own daughter, who would be willing to raise someone else's child.
His original intention was just to hope that the eldest brother and sister-in-law could take the issue of children's education seriously, and he could see that they were too biased and ignored their eldest daughter too much, but he didn't expect his words to be understood by the eldest brother and sister-in-law to mean something else, so that later, when they really couldn't stand their eldest daughter being around them, they directly packed the eldest daughter and sent it to themselves.
But who can blame this? Who let himself say such a sentence too much, so that people directly said, since you don't have a daughter, we will send you a good, this kind of parents as goods directly packaged and sent away to the aunt is also an eye-opener for this aunt, looking at the poor little girl, staring at the round eyes, although the eyes contain sadness and pain, but still nervously looking at themselves, at that time can be said for a moment, this aunt is still very soft-hearted sympathy for this little girl.
Abandoned by her own parents and given to others like a gift, it is indeed a feeling that ordinary people can't experience, and this aunt did have the idea of raising this little girl well and cultivating her as her own daughter at the beginning, but who knew that some things that happened later made her cold to this little girl, but now when she heard her husband mention this little girl again, this aunt inevitably remembered herself, and the pitiful scene she saw in this little girl at the beginning inevitably caused the sympathy she had for this little girl in her heart, and once again surged into her heart。
Originally, he didn't feel that there was any difficulty in hiring a teacher for this little girl, not to mention that he quickly measured the pay and benefits, although the benefits were very small, it may only make up for the kind of sympathy that the couple had for this little girl, once the payment was also not big, for a family like them, it was not a huge expense to invite an elderly teacher to come back here and give the little girl to read and write.
It can even be said that this silver may be the money for making clothes for the servants of the palace once a year. And this money is not paid every year, after the little girl learns to read and write, she no longer needs further teaching from the teacher, after all, she is just a girl, as long as she can read and write, she can read.
However, the book gentleman invited by his three leather boxes was the one who really spent a lot of money on them, and the family itself has a certain talent, but he has not made new progress on the road of drinking for the time being, so he was invited by them to come to the house to teach the three young masters.
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