Baili Liangliu talked about covering a bird's nest cup for a long time, and couldn't help blushing when he saw that everyone's attention was drawn to different levels of diet.

He knew what Wu Zhihe meant, and what he condemned was extravagance, waste, arrogance, extravagance, and the style of not doing practical things and only seeking superficial articles and good looks.

These problems, although they have changed in form, still exist in nature and are becoming more and more severe.

His correct way of answering, first, should be sure that Wu Zhihe's question is good!

Second, we should give feedback on how to solve those problems in order to change bad social customs.

However, Baili Liangliu's answer did not propose a solution to the problem, and even the existence of the problem was not confirmed.

Of course, he also has his considerations, and he also has his sufferings, that is, it is impossible for him to focus his efforts on that aspect now.

At the same time, due to the passage of time, the problem is more serious now than in the past, not just one bird's nest, but thousands of different species.

Since the problem is serious, ask him a new question.

First, it is more difficult to solve than when the problem is not serious.

Second, more people have such a problem, and it has become a new custom, so that the law does not hold the people accountable.

Of course, although these things are bad, they have not yet reached the level of illegality, and if they want to change, it is even more difficult to carry out than to hold the law accountable.

Since there were so many difficulties, he had no choice but to retreat.

Although his head is iron, he doesn't go up and bump into everything.

Now, although he doesn't interfere much with the progress of Wu Rendi and Mai Ke, he still wants to end the private visit to Weifu here as soon as possible.

His idea was to send the two upright and outspoken old men away so that he could continue on his way.

However, he thought it well, but it was ruined by the upright old man Wu Zhihe.

I heard that you are their boss, the boss, you want to be the head of Yuan, that is, you must have the responsibility of the boss.

That is, you are responsible for what you have done, your subordinates, and all your subjects.

"Not only do you have to admit your mistakes, but you have to have the courage to correct them.

"It's not for the sake of giving orders, being majestic and enjoying!

"Of course, it's okay for you to do other things well, blamelessly, and enjoy a little bit of majesty.

"Your colleagues and your subordinates can also accept it, and there are also some special treatments, and some fame outside the box.

"But if you turn a blind eye to those things that are wrong, refuse to admit them, don't think about changing them, and insist on making mistakes, you can't tolerate them!

"Then you're a corpse vegetarian!

"You're irresponsible!

"You're derelict in your duties!

"Then you are harming others and yourself!

"Then you should step down!

"Then you'll have to cut yourself off!

"Then you're going to ......"

If no one stops him, Wu Zhihe dares to catch Baili Lianglu there and denounce it to the sky!

Then, if you can't get enough, you have to fight at night!

Wu Zhixiang next to him took Wu Zhihe by the hand and said eagerly: "Big brother, this is in our family!"

"Baili Liangliu is our honored guest, he is not in court in your Prime Minister's Mansion......"

Wu Zhihe stopped talking and apologized to Baili Liangliu: "I'm sorry! ”

Everyone is also speechless, the upright old man is the upright old man, and he will not give up his principles when he apologizes.

It's like apologizing for a hit, saying I'm sorry, I should have hit you in the head, not your ass.

Baili Liangliu also has a stomach of grievances, I, the boss, only care about the area around my ancient farm, even if it is there, I don't care about it now.

Now the remaining 20,000 men of the expedition are under my direct control.

They have those questions you mentioned, and I can give them the "38" precept!

But I can't tell you this, that's the secret of our expedition!

I can't get enough of the rest, do you know?

Forget it, he definitely doesn't know, I'll just listen to it, and if there is no change, it will be encouraged.

So, Baili Liangliu smiled slightly: "Uncle Wu scolded well!

"It definitely had the effect of beating a horse and a mule at me!

"I will carry out a thorough examination of the whole membership, and the standard is to compare what the old man said.

"Once I find out that anyone dares to eat bird's nest as vermicelli, I want him to look good!"

Wu Zhihe was originally the prime minister's belly to support the boat, and he knew that Baili Lianglu was playing haha, so he laughed at it.

Wu Zhixiang was clever, good at seeing the wind and turning the rudder, and took the opportunity to change the topic.

He said: "I have heard that there are three aunts and six wives in your land, and once they are recruited, some women are ignorant and often victimized by them.

"Either by depriving money, or by taking clothes, when men are only illustrators, they ask for a great deal.

When the women found out about the evil, lest their parents find out, they could not bear to swallow their anger and hide it.

"It's all a small thing, and it can be omitted, but it's an introduction that can cause countless troubles.

"The one thing that they hate most is that they are acquainted with each other, and they are intimate with each other, and in this they will try to give birth to adultery.

"I thought that I had lost my nature in two places, and I foolishly took out money for their profit.

At the beginning of the instigation of the three aunts and six mothers-in-law, they either confused their sex with fine wine, or shook their hearts with obscene words.

"As soon as words can enter, instead of praising someone's wealth, it is praising someone's unparalleled beauty.

"For example, there are different methods such as coaxing people to go to the temple and luring them to the mountains.

"In short, once they use their hands and feet, they can't jump out of the circle with your three chastity and nine spirits, jade and ice.

"Even taking men as women, secretly cheating, all kinds of obscenity, and even more unspeakable.

"I don't know how many women from good families have lost their lives because of this.

"Fortunately, it is not broken, and it is not a small loss to corrupt the door.

"Set or be exposed, the name is lost, the ugly voice is outside, and the parents are like deaf, still in the dream.

This is due to the ignorance of women, who themselves are in the pursuit of fashion, greedy for comfort, and enough to invite trouble.

"But parents can't take precautions and enlighten in advance, so that the 'green bandana' is worn on the top, and it is also self-inflicted, who is to blame?

"When the boy heard the Book of Rites, there was a cloud: 'The inner words do not come out of the bundle, and the outer words do not enter the bundle. ’

"The bundle here is the meaning of the inner chamber boudoir, and there is a difference between inside and outside, and the order must not be disturbed.

"Just like a thief, you can't tell outsiders where you put your treasures.

"In the same way, you can't lead strangers to your place where you keep your treasures.

"The ancients were so cautious in the words of women, and the three aunts and six mothers-in-law were playing right and wrong inside and out, how could they not cause trouble?

"When these three aunts and six wives enter your home, you give them the key to enter the most secret place in the family.

"When they get the key, they can come and go as they please, and they can take your treasure with them.

"On this occasion, the treasures are your daughters, your daughters-in-law.

"As for showing up, going to the temple and facing the mountain, the warmth is unknown, and you can't ask.

"If a wise gentleman has insight into his adultery, and the women in the family speak and persuade from time to time, and regard the three aunts and six women as enemies, how can they act?

"If everyone takes precautions in advance, and the three aunts and six mothers-in-law are not allowed to enter, what tricks do they do?

"I heard that you have always been called a 'stepmother', and this kind of treatment of ex-wives and children is not regarded as a bane?

"Therefore they were poisoned in every way, or they were toiled by hard labor, or they were plagued by sickness, or they were allowed to go hungry and cold, or they were beaten and scolded often.

"All kinds of torture and suffering. Even if his father can love and care, does he have a back eye?

This is the first dark hell for children.

"The suffering of poor families is especially great.

"To the rich and noble, although there is a nursing mother to take care of it, it can't be too tormented.

But once the stepmother gave birth to a child, she hoped to swallow the family wealth alone, so she planned to design and slander on the pillow.

"Or accuse his daughter of not listening to the lesson, or accuse his son of disobeying his late mother.

"Or accuse yourself of being lazy, or accusing yourself of misbehaving.

"Even accusing a man of being close to stealing, and accusing a woman of adultery.

"All kinds of frame-ups, and so on.

"How can such weak girls and children be distinguished?

"A torture is nothing but a wail, and because of this it is tortured and dies or dies of sorrow.

"Those who have always lost their stepmothers can win!

"It is not as good as the father who protects the baby, and he knows how to prevent it.

Then the slander came into his ears, that is, he couldn't help himself, and after a long time, he became infected with the habit of his stepmother, not only could not protect him, but he gradually poisoned himself.

"In addition to the stepmother, there is also a 'stepfather'.

"Attacking inside and out, humiliating in every way.

"So that in vain there were some imps added to the city.

"This is all soft-hearted, only focusing on the love of husband and wife, ignoring the kindness of father and son.

"Please look at Da Shun's donation and burning, Min Zi Dongyue Lu Yi, Shen Sheng was slandered, Birch was wronged, through the ages, once you talk about it, you can't help but feel sad.

"Wouldn't it be sad that those who are in this situation, depending on the lessons of the previous car, still don't pay attention!"

Baili Liangliu listened to Wu Zhixiang's accusation, yes, it is an accusation, he is an accusation against the third aunt and six mothers-in-law, and it is also an accusation against those stepmothers, especially the accusations of those who have their own fathers and stepfathers, and they can't help but feel related.

These things, not according to those food, can explain a thing or two, it is a matter of human life, a matter of people's happiness in life, and he has no intention of defending those people, if it is possible, he would like to put them to death!

At this time, he suddenly remembered the chief matchmaker of the expedition team, Chen Baicao.

Of course, he thought of him at this time, not only because of her title, but also because of his relationship with her - prospective mother-in-law.

That's right!

This problem is best dealt with by our chief matchmaker, who not only understands this problem thoroughly, but also has an ideal solution that can be used as a model for marriage.

As for the rules of remarrying the stepmother, I don't know if she has it;

No, take the opportunity to let her get one, and she can use it sooner or later.

Also, before arriving at the Junzi Kingdom, Zhang Xing can say that their family is married by siblings, which is also a big problem.

However, if there is only this problem, it is not good to correct it with a lot of fanfare.

Now, since Chen Baicao needs to come over, the issue of intermarriage between brother and sister is also being dealt with.

made up his mind, so he whispered to Mai Ke and asked him to take Chen Baicao and Pan Lihua over.

These more complex technical operations, such as these transportation in different dimensions, are all operated by him.

It's not that others can't do it, but they are not sure, and once they make a mistake, they don't know where the mistake is.

At the same time, he told Mai Ke to give them the question of Wu Zhixiang on their journey, so that they could listen to it and familiarize themselves with the situation.

Mai Ke immediately went to handle it, and there was a question in his heart.

Pear blossom is coming over too? It seems that this has nothing to do with her, right?

However, he didn't ask, let alone say anything.

He still knows very well that Baili Liangliu has thoughts about Pear Blossom, and this state is still very clear.

Needless to say, if he is a military leader at the level of commander-in-chief, if he does not know what is going on around him, he will be too much to say.

For the boss, an old virgin, even if he can't help much, he doesn't put an oath in the way of him, and he can still do it if he needs to open the green light.

It is not difficult for those who will not be difficult, Mai Ke completed the transfer of Chen Baicao and Fen Lihua in a few seconds.

This is also the reason why Baili Liangliu's order is unimpeded, because the expedition is militarized management, in fact, it is not only militarized, that is, it is not ordinary militarization, but special militarization, one of which is that Baili Liangliu, as the supreme military commander, cannot delay for a second as soon as the military order arrives, and must be obeyed immediately.

As the daily operation of the six-dimensional space-time, their time is accurate to the thousandth of a second.

The arrival of Chen Baicao and Pan Lihua is, of course, to take that kind of invisible locomotive, although people are ready-made, but no one can see it.

Baili Liangliu did not leave the place, but opened a communication channel with the two, and told the two that they needed their help.

"Auntie, thank you for coming all the way to help! The kid has a reluctant request, I don't know if I should talk about it or not?"

"Say, forgive you for your innocence! I guess it has something to do with Pear Blossom, right? You only speak so unreasonably when it comes to my daughter, do you think I don't know anything about you hairy boy?"

Chen Baicao said wisely.

Baili Lianglu smiled shyly: "Those who know me!Yue ...... That's right, you and Pear Blossom appear more abruptly, in order to avoid being too shocking, when I introduce you, I will call you my mother-in-law, and Pear Blossom tweed, of course...... No doubt...... Logical...... Clinches...... Unprecedented......"

"Hee ......"

Seeing Baili Liangliu's stupid appearance of being at a loss and clumsy, Fen Lihua couldn't help laughing.

But he immediately realized that this occasion was not right, and lightning stretched out his little hand to cover himself.

Baili Liangliu, who was extremely nervous, was deaf and deaf at this time, and his eyes were clear to a very high level, and he immediately caught the sound.

Like a hound releasing the leash that controls it, Baili Lianglu immediately went wild: ...... Pear...... Flower...... It's my lady!"

Stretching out the head is a knife, shrinking the head is also a knife, and Baili Lianglu stretches out his head to be knifed heroically!

Huh, my head didn't fall off!

That's good! The car doesn't fall down, just push!

If your head doesn't fall, just blow it!

In order to achieve the effect of being covered with water and difficult to harvest, Baili Lianglu announced loudly: "My mother-in-law Chen Baicao and my wife Pan Lihua have arrived together, everyone is welcome!"

Several people from the expedition were familiar and immediately applauded!

Among them, Mai Ke drum is the most energetic, and it is definitely one as ten!

Because he wondered in his heart, when did there be such a breakthrough?

Not long ago, I had a general relationship, but in the blink of an eye, my mother-in-law and my wife were called.

This speed is a bit fast, worthy of being the boss!

Zhang Bao and Shao Shigong didn't know what applause meant, but when they saw Mai Ke drumming, he followed the cat and the tiger.

Zhang Bao has martial arts, and he automatically practices as soon as he applauds.

Coincidentally, his kung fu is an iron sand palm, so the applause is like hitting a gong.

Everyone else is "popping".

He is "bang-bang".

Wu Zhihe and Wu Zhixiang are also the first time to meet the occasion of applause, neither of them is a person who goes with the flow, and it can be known from the beginning of the speech that they are a clear stream and independent.

But when they saw the two people who suddenly appeared, they couldn't help but clap their hands.

Because it is not luxurious, the only celebration in the country of the gentleman is to clap his hands to cheer.

When the two saw the two of them appear out of thin air, they were suspicious, but when they saw the two of them, they dispelled all doubts.

The one in front of him is Chen Baicao, who is compassionate at first glance, and the key is that he is as stable as Mount Tai!

No wonder that thief boy Baili Lianglu called her mother-in-law, and she was as stable as a mountain, and her mother's heart was cherished.

Look at the young ...... again Ah, I can't see it!

That's the fairy!

Also, what does that smell like?

It calms people's hearts, like babies sleeping peacefully in their mother's arms.

That thief boy marries a wife like this, eight lifetimes of blessing!

However, the fact that he can have such a good wife shows that others are also wrong, not just a slippery boy.

Forget it, for the sake of his mother-in-law and good wife, I will spare him.

In fact, Wu Zhi and Wu Zhixiang Kunzhong can change their minds, and they have a great function of belonging to the pear flower.

Just now, Baili Liangliu added her wife, this is also the first time, and in front of everyone, it is equivalent to the nature of the official announcement, and even more powerfully, in front of her mother, this is the biggest difficulty in her mind.

So, after she heard it, she couldn't help but be overjoyed!

In a particularly good mood, the "Pear Blossom Dark Fragrance" floated out, and the two stubborn old men were hit on the spot.

In fact, the dark fragrance of pear blossom is the role of the sunshine, not only the stubborn old man, but also the unstubborn old man.

Not only the old man, but also the old lady and the little girl were affected, and the degree of influence was even deeper.

If you don't believe it, look at that little girl and fragrant girl, they are all hanging on Mai Gongming's body.

When Chen Baicao saw everyone like this, he couldn't help but feel moved in his heart and smiled.

Isn't this the time for me, the chief matchmaker, to stretch out his hand?

She became the chief matchmaker, so she naturally wanted to rule the whole world, but because of various factors, she didn't have time to show her strength, and her marriage was just a corner of the Far East in that small place.

Today she is the first time to come to a place other than Gu Nongwu in the future life, this gentleman's country, it seems that the name is in accordance with the sky, and it happens to be good.

Wouldn't it be nice to have a big fight here?

There is also the intermarriage of siblings and siblings, I didn't expect that the customs of the Far East in ancient times still existed here.

People are forced to arrange this because they can't find a person of the right age to marry the opposite sex, you are four or five thousand years later, the earth is full of people, and you still have brother and sister intermarriage, what is it?

If you don't tell me a sermon, I'm not done with you.

Don't look at me an old lady who didn't withdraw from you, if I'm really angry, tell my prospective son-in-law, I promise that you won't be able to eat and go around!

At this time, everyone was waiting to hear what Chen Baicao had to say.

"Hello everyone! I'm Chen Baicao, the world's chief mediator with special and plenipotentiary powers!

"If you have any questions about marriage, you can come to me, and I will be responsible for giving you a workable answer!

"What's the answer?

"That's my answer, it has to be the reality of your marriage, the act of your marriage. ”

"Why, you ask?

"Because I am the chief judge of marriage, what I say is part of the marriage law and has the force of law.

"The effect of this law is very strong, because it is supported by Baili Liangliu.

"Let me now talk about the main contents of the marriage law that I have enacted.

"Before getting into the specifics, I must state that this marriage law has not yet been universally introduced.

"It's just spread out in a range that is not too big, which is the size of ten Sumatra.

"We have a marriage law that has clear rules on how to marry.

"One of them is that intermarriage is prohibited within the three suits, that is, men and women cannot intermarry within the three generations of blood relatives.

"When it comes to intermarriage, of course, it can only be between men and women, and between the same generation.

In other words, it is not between men and women, not between the same generation, no matter how many clothes it is, it cannot intermarry!

"Of course, it's too far, if you can't talk about seniority, you can't ban it if you want to, then forget it, there's no way. ”

Hearing this, it was Zhang Bao who was more uncomfortable.

The marriage between brothers and sisters in the family stipulated by him violates the marriage law!

"Sister, give me an example, I like the example you gave the most, I understand it when I hear it, hehe. ”

Zhang Bao saw the stitches, and took advantage of Chen Baicao's breath to quickly ask questions.

In fact, asking the question is false, he wants her to open up the net for them.

Chen Baicao was speechless for a while, and increased his forehead with his hand, and he had to give an example of such a simple thing.

However, as soon as my mind turned, I was relieved.

The people on this island have always been incompatible with outsiders, and there is a talk of same-sex marriage in later generations, so I don't know if there is such a thing.

They are probably still in the same way as they have been since Genesis.

Naturally, there are not too many generations, and all kinds of bizarre things have appeared.

"Well, it's not that a man and a woman can't get married, or you can't marry two men, or you can't marry two women. ”

Zhang Bao's eyes widened suddenly: "That's okay, it's disgusting!"

Obviously, this kind of thing, even Zhang Bao, a person who advocates brother and sister marriage, feels incredible and absolutely unacceptable.

"Different generations are forbidden to marry, this is mainly to protect the weak, such as you, you are the head of the family, the head of a village.

"Once you are disrespectful to the old, why don't you arbitrarily take away your young junior girls as your daughter-in-law?

"So it's a restriction on the elders who don't respect the old. ”

This Zhang Bao himself understood, his cheeks flushed in an instant, he at least had such an idea, but fortunately he did not implement it.

He said with some joy: "That's why I stipulate that the marriage between brother and sister is the best choice!

Chen Baicao said: "Come on! It is illegal for brothers and sisters to marry, and I will talk about this later."

"After this regulation, the three dresses do not intermarry, and under normal circumstances, your grandchildren cannot intermarry.

"If your brothers and sisters have sons and daughters, they cannot marry your sons and daughters.

"For from your father, they are within three suits.

"But their grandsons can marry your granddaughters, because they have already made three suits, understand?"

Zhang Bao hugged his head and became annoyed, muttering: "It's so complicated! I have to think about it in order to smooth out their care." ”

Although Chen Baicao wanted to speed up, he could only give him a little more time when he encountered such a slow-brained person.

Zhang Bao suddenly raised his head: "I'm going to marry my sister's granddaughter, this is not within the three suits, it should be fine, right?"

Chen Baicao refuted: "No! Although this is out of three suits, it violates the principle that marriage must be carried out among peers.

"It falls within the scope of the prohibition of marriage between different generations. ”

Zhang Baodao: "Alas, I have to cheapen my grandson and let her marry my own grandson, this is always okay, right?"

Chen Baicao said: "Your grandson and your brother and granddaughter intermarried, and they came out of three suits, and they are the same generation, or between men and women, theoretically!"

But it also depends on whether the other party agrees, this marriage system prohibits forced marriage!

"Otherwise, you have a lot of power, and you don't want to do whatever you want?"

"My son ......"

"Okay, this example ends here, if you don't understand anything in the future, let's see how I deal with it first.

"When you need to take care of this in the future, just follow the cat and the tiger!

"It seems that you don't have the ability to do so in a short period of time, tell me, what's wrong with this link?"

Zhang Bao said: "Okay, I will learn from my old sister in the future! What else is the problem...... Oh yes! I have a big question!

"When did I say I was going to enforce your new marriage law with us?"

Chen Baicao glanced at Baili Liangliu.

Aren't you?

At this time, Baili Liangliu explained to Zhang Bao, Wu Zhihe, and Wu Zhixiang that they were here to fight pirates.

If the pirate accepts the adaptation, he can not fight, and he can not be a pirate.

Of course, the various systems also need to be adjusted, such as accepting their legal system.

He also made a special statement that this crackdown on pirates is a unified action of the whole world, and he is determined to eradicate pirates.

If it weren't for the fact that the pirates here were all immigrants from the Celestial Empire who didn't know how long ago, they wouldn't have used such peaceful means.

I have already attacked and fought hard a long time ago, and I have swept it away in one go.

Wu Zhihe and Wu Zhixiang first said that if they felt that these new systems were good, they could accept such conditions.

So they have to continue to listen to Chen Baicao's story.

Zhang Bao actually knew in his heart that the power of those pirates was strong in Philadelphia, and he would definitely not be able to defeat them, so he did not object.

Knowing what he knew, Zhang Bao no longer dwelled on it and continued to discuss the marriage law.

"When it comes to marriage law, I really have a problem, a big problem!

"Sister, you said that it is good to marry according to generation, and not to have three clothes, but which of us can determine their generation, can we say it by ourselves?

"For example, the younger generation of the family, I am very close, but I can keep an eye on about 10,000 people, and no more.

"Those lawless young people are not like your brother and me, typical loyal and honest, no lies.

"They're used to telling nonsense with their eyes open!

"If there are few people, I can distinguish them by memory, and now there are 200,000 of my descendants alone, who remembers?"

"Don't you have an official family register?"

"What is that? I don't know, but I dare say, it's not! ”

"What's going on?"

"Before we fled here, we had a complete record, that is, adults and children were recorded in one book.

Later, a traitor came out of the family, stole the record and handed it over to the government, and those people were arrested and killed according to the map.

"The whole family was almost wiped out! Thankfully, I escaped with my life when I went out fishing, and from then on, this kind of recording was banned.

"That's the problem, don't you remember that there are 10,000 people? Is there a register, and everyone is on it?"

"No, but I remember who those 10,000 people were. ”

"Brother, you're a good question! Now we have to add an essential piece of work.

"It's about establishing a complete household registration system, and all people have to be recorded.

"Don't worry, if you are under the management of Baili Liangliu, he can guarantee your safety.

"With the hukou system, we have a well-documented record when we approve their marriage applications.

"This evidence comes from this household registration system.

"Go back and give me an order that men and women who are going to get married recently register all the members of their families. ”

Zhang Bao said, "Okay! I'll give them orders." ”

Chen Baicao asked: "You can just explain the matter of household registration, and now I ask you, intermarriage is not allowed within three suits, there is no problem with this, right?"

Zhang Bao said: "Mmmmmmmm, even if there is no problem! Even if there is a problem, even if I don't understand, isn't there still an old sister." ”

Chen Baicao said: "In this case, you immediately order to cancel the marriage of those brothers and sisters you were originally married to." ”

Zhang Baodao: "Okay, I'll order it together! But what about the marriage of those brothers and sisters who are already married?"

Chen Baicao also had a headache: "Let's keep those things the same for now." ”

Chen Baicao continued: "There is another thing in marriage that is the matchmaker, what is that matchmaker, and what does that matchmaker mean?"

"Media concubine means solemn marriage, that is, taking the very important matter of marrying a man and a woman seriously.

"Anyone who neglects this matter will be punished by the law.

"This is also a measure to prevent the three aunts and six women from taking trouble in chaos, and now such men and women are too undignified to cooperate indiscriminately.

"They are very casual, even more casual than eating, not much different from those wild beasts.

"It's pretty much the same all over the world, even in Sumatra.

"That is, the country of gentlemen is better, but it is not completely nothing, you two old guys, don't be complacent.

"Also, you don't have a law that once you are gone, you can still guarantee that your descendants will be the same as when you were still alive?

"Don't dream, so your kingdom of gentlemen also needs a written marriage law.

"I don't care if you need other written laws, I only care about marriage.

"Do you know that man is not as good as a beast if he is not restrained, especially in modern society, man has lost the simplicity of the past!

"The so-called well-dressed beasts mean them.

"Those beasts, there is also a natural limitation, when the spring grass germinates, it causes their lust to flourish, and they will only be paired in pairs.

Therefore, the cooperation of their animals can be said to be entirely due to the impulse of lust, and there is no other mind.

"They all do it on a whim, pass quickly, and then a year goes uneventful.

"And the practice of those who are not limited is to learn from those beasts, forgetting that they are human beings, the creative crown of the Creator.

"Because I don't have a high level of awareness of my own noble qualities, and I don't have any control, I do it arbitrarily, and I mess up.

"You know, people and animals are different!

"The lusts of men and women are inherently impulsive, and the lusts of young men are especially impulsive.

"It's not just a moment, it can pass quickly, but it can flourish at any time throughout the year.

So if it's not controlled, those impulsive men and women will mess around.

"On the other hand, since they cooperate by erotic impulses, they only arise on the spur of the moment.

"Then once you cooperate, the heat of the erotic impulse gradually decreases, and you can't help but become cold.

"At first, there were small contradictions, and then the contradictions became bigger and bigger, and over time, they even developed into disgust with each other.

"Don't you know that if the things of the world go in too fast, they will definitely go back very fast.

"What is too easy to bind must be very easy to disperse.

So there are many, many couples who cooperate freely and divorce freely.

"You should all see a lot of this, right?"

Zhang Bao proudly straightened his chest: "Of course! Brother, I have seen more joys and sorrows of young men and women than others have seen all of them!"

"I'll tell you about some of the most thrilling ...... you've seen with your own eyes."

Wu Zhihe and Wu Zhixiang also kept nodding.

Chen Baicao really wanted to hear it, after all, she was a woman, and her curiosity was also very strong, but this time was not right.

She's going to preside over big things!

So he stopped Zhang Bao and said: "Stop, you! If you have a lot of stories, I'll find that Wenren Yixin to interview you when you go back."

"I guess some people like to hear it, now let's get down to business, where?"

"Okay! Brother listens to my sister! ”

Chen Baicao said: "The most fundamental purpose of the cooperation between a man and a woman is to let the two of them form a permanent family.

"On the basis of this family, enjoy eternal happiness for future generations, and continue to multiply.

"If it's just a spur of the moment, and then you go your separate ways, you go your separate ways, and you go against that goal.

"If a man and a woman often divorce after marriage, then where will the eternal family be organized, and where will happiness be enjoyed?

Obviously, it is not okay to be too casual to gather and disperse like this.

"By the way, this involves the issue of the stepmother you just mentioned!

"The problem of stepmotherhood is actually rooted in the wrong marriage.

"The mistake of the parents, the punishment falling on the child, is the greatest injustice to the child.

"There are countries where the divorce rate is so high that it is a very serious problem.

"There are so many children of single parents, so many children living in the shadow of stepmothers!

"All of this must be considered in its entirety at the time of marriage, and a solution must be devised through the judgment.

"So, I came up with a way to communicate with the media, the matchmaker means planning, and the concubine means discretion.

You don't understand the meaning of these two words, and you don't understand the two words combined, so you have to start from the beginning.

"If you are going to marry a man and a woman, you must inquire or see that there is a person in a certain family who can be married or married.

"Of course, that person has to be in addition to the three suits, and his gender is opposed.

"Then the first step is to invite your relatives, friends or neighbors, always be old and virtuous, reliable people, to come out and be a matchmaker.

That is, they first discussed whether these two people were worthy or not.

"There are some relevant issues that need to be thought through.

"Such as how old you are, how you look, what your temperament is, what your talents are, how you behave in your daily life, and so on.

"These things need to be identified first to see if they can take further time and effort.

"Everything has been decided, and then I will go to the other side and say that this action is communication, communication with the media.

Then, on the other hand, I also invited a matchmaker.

"I also learned about the basic situation of the other party in advance before I went to meet the matchmaker of the other party.

"The matchmakers of the two families officially met to exchange information with each other to see if they matched.

"To be able to achieve a marriage, you must meet the standards in terms of basic requirements in order to succeed, otherwise there is no need to talk about it.

"After the matchmaking of the two families has discussed and decided, everyone agrees, and then set a date for the wedding ceremony.

"The achievement of things, everything is said by the two matchmakers, so it is called a media concubine.

"According to this method, there are several advantages, and I am not too troublesome, so I will explain them to you one by one.

"When you have understood, let you speak to your children and grandchildren.

"This kind of media concubine has many benefits, you must know it.

"The first advantage is that you can avoid the stimulation of male and female lust, and if you don't meet, you can't be stimulated if you want to!

In other words, if you meet, you can't do it without excitement. ”

It has to be said that the traditional way of marriage in China can be called a high-rise, far-sighted, and high-rise building.

Because it has solved many problems in a forward-looking manner, it has contributed greatly to the stability of the family and even to the stability of the country.

Even in later generations when free marriage was advocated, the truly upright people still held on to the essence of it.

Only people who are extremely selfish and selfish regard this thing as a personal goal and a means to satisfy their own personal interests.

For those people, there is actually no real love.

Because true love is for the sake of loving others, and it is better to sacrifice oneself.

It is conceivable that people who are extremely self-interested can sacrifice themselves for the sake of their lovers.

In this pursuit, pushed to the extreme, it is the closest person who becomes his biggest enemy.

Therefore, the marriage regulations implemented by Chen Baicao are consistent with the traditional marriage content of China.

They are all big in the country and small in the family, and they are put first in the goals pursued by individuals.

Individual happiness can only be guaranteed if the State and the family are able to exist in safety.

Although Chen Baicao is very clear about these deeper and more comprehensive truths, when it comes to it, he can only start with the specific content.

Otherwise, they may all be confused by the second monk.

Therefore, after saying the first benefit, Chen Baicao also gave a detailed explanation.

Because if the man and woman discuss it directly, although the parties on both sides have the intention of making a careful choice, after a passionate man and woman meet, the meaning of choosing a prudent choice is often no match for the impulse of lust, and there are people who are in a hurry and have no time to think carefully, and even field battles on the spot are not uncommon.

"In this way, it destroys the foundation of marriage!"

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