Yuxin and Yinglong have been together for a while, but Yinglong is still unfamiliar with Yuxin's parents.

As for the relationship between the two, Yinglong's parents agreed, and they hoped to have a daughter-in-law like Yinglong said.

In front of his parents, Yinglong described Yu Xin as a knowledgeable, intelligent, virtuous, and beautiful and well-behaved girl.

Yinglong's parents, although they have not met Yu Xin in person, know from Yinglong that the Xia family may not be very supportive of their continued relationship, so they do not plan to invite Yu Xin and her parents to meet for the time being.

Therefore, the Ying family's parents still have some worries about the relationship between Yinglong and Yuxin. Although the Ying family is optimistic about Yuxin, they still have some concerns about her parents' attitude.

Yingnan and Milan also discussed their son's issue at their home in Ben Cheng.

Once the old couple was watching TV at home, Milan remembered Yinglong.

Milan said, "Although Yinglong is a good person, he doesn't have a house in Lake City, and our ability as parents is limited, so we don't have much spare to help him. ”

Yingnan thinks it's not just that, "You must know that Yuxin's family sees more than that, although Yinglong is diligent, his education level is not as good as others." ”

Milan thought about it too, and said: "Listening to Yinglong, Yu Xin seems to be a graduate of a key university, and her work unit is good." ”

Yingnan nodded and took a puff of his cigarette: "Yinglong's situation doesn't look optimistic, if only we had some way to help him." ”

But Milan said: "We have helped all who can help, although Yuxin is willing to date Yinglong, but her parents may not necessarily approve, maybe they want to find a son-in-law with better conditions than Yinglong." ”

Yingnan sighed: "So far, Yinglong's situation, we can't help it." ”

He held the cigarette butt, recalled the matter of Yinglong's entrance to university that year, sighed deeply, and said to himself: "No one can think of Yinglong's affairs, and we don't want to do this. ”

Milan looked at Yingnan: "The child is his father, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and it is useless to just worry." ”

Yingnan was silent, so he answered and threw away the cigarette butt in his hand.

Milan saw that Yingnan was silent for a long time, so he said again: "Listen to Yinglong, Yuxin is a good girl, although we haven't met, but if people are really good to Yinglong." I just don't know how the two will get along in the future, after all, they haven't known each other for a long time, so it's okay for them to get to know each other slowly. ”

Yingnan raised his head and said: "As the old saying goes, good things are grinding! Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time, take your time, don't be too anxious!"

Milan smiled: "This is reasonable, good things are grinding, and lovers will eventually become married!"

Yinglong knew that his parents supported him, but his parents also told him not to be too anxious, to think carefully about their future, and to learn more about it.

As the saying goes: "Good things are grinding", not to mention that there are lovers who eventually become married, don't be in a hurry.

However, Yu Xin's parents' attitude is obviously not optimistic.

One day, Yuxin thought about Yinglong during a meal and decided to confess a few words to her parents.

Yu Xin's mother cooked a few dishes and asked Yu Xin and her father to come over for dinner.

At the dinner table, Yu Xin was silent, and when her mother saw that her daughter was silent, she asked, "Yu Xin, do you have something on your mind?"

Yu Xin raised her head and glanced at her parents sitting next to her, plucked up her courage and said, "Mom and Dad, you should know about me and Yinglong, right?"

The father glanced at his daughter and said slowly: "Yuxin, we know a little, but it seems that Yinglong is still a little far from you!"

Mother whispered: "Yuxin, you have to think clearly, marriage is a lifelong thing!"

Yu Xin saw that her parents didn't support her, so she said angrily: "But marriage is also my own business!"

The father stared at Yu Xin: "There is no turning back when you open the bow, you don't want to be clear before marriage, and you will regret it after you get married." ”

When her mother saw this, she said, "Yuxin, you have to know that when you get married, you will find out that there is anything wrong, and it will be a big trouble to separate." ”

Yu Xin was not convinced: "Am I not very satisfied now? I haven't found anything bad! Why do you say that." ”

The father resolutely objected: "Judging from the current situation, does Yinglong have the ability to form a small family?

Yu Xin was stunned for a moment, she knew that her father would say this, so she was silent for a moment: "Mom and Dad, I don't care if the other party has money or not, even if you don't have money now, you can get married when you have money in the future!"

The mother smiled: "Yuxin, don't be too naïve, girls can't afford to wait." Besides, Yinglong, will he wait?"

Father also sneered: "Then you say, when will Yinglong have money, do you say?"

Yu Xin was a little speechless, but she paused: "Don't you know, marriage depends on people, not just money can get married, your set is now outdated!"

The father mocked: "When you can't open the pot, let me tell you, Yuxin, our opinion is right!"

Yu Xin retorted angrily: "Dad, you are too much!"

Seeing that her daughter was angry, the mother hurriedly played a round game: "Old man, don't say that! Can't we Yuxin look at people? She is also a smart child!"

Yu Xin turned to her mother and said, "Dad said this, is he sure that Yinglong and I will not end well, right?"

Her mother comforted her and said, "Mom and Dad are not trying to stop you, but you are still young, you must know that marriage has no material guarantee, and it is unsustainable, you know?"

Yu Xin persuaded her parents: "But we all have jobs and are fully capable of living independently, so you don't have to worry about this." ”

The father smiled: "Young man, haven't you heard of the mourning of poor couples? Where is the little money for the two of you? You will know when you have a child." ”

Yu Xin was not convinced: "But did you have money in the first place?

Mother was a little embarrassed: "But now is the present! If you were in our time, we would support you!"

Yu Xin said angrily: "It was okay in the past, but it can't work now, what is the reason? Is it poorer now than before?"

Seeing that she didn't understand, her father put down the dishes and chopsticks: "I said Yuxin, you don't know, although we were poor in the past, we still have the ability to support our family." But you see that now, the material conditions are so demanding, what don't you need to spend money? It costs money to buy a house, get married, and have children, is the money enough for the two of you? Moreover, Yinglong is also culturally different from you, and if the two of you affect your happiness in life because of your different concepts, what will you think in the future?"

Yu Xin felt that her father was really strong in words, where was there any conceptual gap? Yinglong is a young man who likes to read, but he doesn't have the same level of education as her, but Yinglong is not stupid, he likes to use his brain in many things, and he is not worse than himself at all.

And Yinglong is very dedicated to her, which is much better than some men who are in the twilight.

When Yu Xin heard this, she couldn't help but feel a little blocked in her chest, but she still persuaded her parents bitterly: "You can't just look at some objective conditions, you must know that you must have an emotional foundation to live together." Yinglong is a serious man, and he is good to me. If I listen to you and find a playboy in the future, what will I do, you have to think about me?"

Seeing that he couldn't persuade his daughter, the father sighed: "Yuxin, you only talk about such a boyfriend now, and you haven't met anyone else, that's why you think so." Why don't I introduce a young man to you, not to mention the long-term plan, you just need to understand. See how others are doing. So you can have a comparison, you say that's good?"

Yu Xin saw that her parents were very tough, so she said: "You are too arbitrary, I don't want to fight with you! Anyway, now I only like Yinglong! As for the economy, I won't open my mouth to you!"

The mother looked at her daughter and felt that she was too dead-eyed, so she slowly persuaded her: "Yuxin, what your father said is actually reasonable." It's good for girls to be emotionally single-minded, but you might as well get to know others first, anyway, don't let Yinglong know. Let's get to know each other first, okay? You don't plan to be a boyfriend first, you just compare him with Yinglong, do you think that's okay?"

Yu Xin was so angry that tears were about to flow out, she had never seen her parents so stubborn. Does her marriage have to be decided by her parents?

But if you want to get married, will someone replace her if there is any problem?

Yuxin put down the dishes and chopsticks and said, "Don't eat, I'm full." ”

With that, he walked back to his room.

She entered the bedroom, tears streaming down her face, her parents whispered something in the dining room, but Yuxin couldn't hear anything clearly.

She felt very aggrieved, Yu Xin has always been an obedient child, but her parents were unanimously opposed to this matter, and they also said so many reasons to emphasize the shortcomings between her and Yinglong.

Yu Xin couldn't think of any reason to defend herself, her parents were too stubborn and only admitted one reason, that is, Yinglong was not suitable to be their son-in-law. If you have to find it, find a man with better conditions to be worthy of her.

Yu Xin was a little disheartened, she couldn't imagine that her parents were so arbitrary, otherwise they wouldn't have said a lot of Yinglong's shortcomings, and finally moved out an "ideal" object to introduce to her, and said it so reasonably.

It sounds like everything is very considerate of her situation, everything is thinking about her, and she just wants Yu Xin to compare, which is too unkind.

Yu Xin felt that all her parents' words were so light, what was this thinking about her? If Yinglong knew about it, she didn't think she was stepping on two boats, how should she explain to Yinglong at that time?

Even if she understands it, can Yinglong believe it? If it was introduced by her parents, it was all because she didn't look down on Yinglong, how embarrassing would that scene be.

In this case, where is Yinglong's face, and who can be blamed in the end?

Yu Xin thought, there was endless bitter water in her stomach, but who should she talk to? She didn't dare to call Yinglong, for fear that he would be angry, which would cause a misunderstanding, lest the two of them break up unhappily.