The tense wedding preparation period is busy, but not chaotic.

When the auspicious day was approaching, the new house, wedding, wedding banquet venue and other matters were arranged on time, and Xiao Li was relieved.

In the past few days, if you want to ask Xiao Li how he feels, just one word, tired. However, for the relatives and friends who were taken to Gensokyo to live in the hotel, in addition to excitement, they were still excited.

Without him, the pomp and circumstance of this wedding was so big that the relatives of the two families were dumbfounded on the spot, and from the moment they got on the private plane to the present, there are still many relatives who have not come to their senses.

Flying on a private jet, staying in a luxury hotel, and chartering a dream home fantasy village, I heard that the banquet will be held for three consecutive days, and the band is said to be world-class musicians......

What's this kind of treatment?

I've only seen it on the news, when the son of the richest man marries a wife or something, it really happens to him, and anyone will think that he hasn't woken up......

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On the eve of the wedding, Xiao Li's new home was bustling.

How romantic is the wedding, the little couple wants to go, Xu Qing'an has his own set of ritual procedures, according to traditional customs, the bed ceremony on the day before the wedding banquet is the most important, to worship heaven and earth, inform the ancestors that a wedding will be held, and according to the eight characters of both men and women, to arrange the position of the new bed to worship the bed mother.

The reason why the bed ceremony is the most important is because there are too many customs and customs in traditional Chinese weddings for thousands of years, if you completely follow the ancient system, no matter which ancient system is followed, we can choose a standard three books and six rituals is enough for you to play, and speaking of which, our familiar worship ceremony does not belong to the three books and six ceremonies.

In every different era in history, people will always give full play to their subjective initiative in traditional customs and ceremonies, how to pay attention to how to come if there are conditions, how much to remove from the conditions, how much to remove red tape, but there are always some core etiquette rules, which have never changed for thousands of years, and these etiquette rules that have been preserved are all the essence of the essence, and the bed ceremony before the wedding is one of them.

Just like the new house move-in ceremony, you can not set up a banquet or celebrate, but "opening the stove" is a must. In the same way, when getting married, the bed used for inheritance and expenditure is the most important thing, and you can delete all the troublesome etiquette rules of the wedding, but you can never delete the head of the traditional bed-making ceremony.

Therefore, Xiao Li, who felt that he could just swing casually and look good, was decisively beaten......

As you see fit?

Well?

"What do you young people know, the placement of the new bed cannot be facing the door, and the pillar bed in the new house cannot be facing the pillar! The diagonal position of the door is the most perfect!"

Xu Qing'an jumped up with a critical hit: "Don't get in the way here, go with me to worship the ancestors." ”

After educating his son, who didn't know anything, Xu Qing'an happily called "good wife" to continue the bed-making ceremony.

The "good woman" is the person who is responsible for helping the newlyweds to carry the bed, the person who makes the bed, and the person who spreads the happy fruit, and is a person who is to be carefully selected for the whole blessing.

The so-called blessed person refers to her parents, brothers and sisters, a happy marriage, children and daughters, and a good family economic situation. In this way, the carefully selected "good wife" can bring good luck to the newcomers.

"Make the bed, make the bed, beaming, men and women get married, and the candle cave room ......"

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One shop for mandarin ducks to play in the water, two shops for dragons and phoenixes to be auspicious, three shops for fish and water acacia, four shops for long love, five shops for early birth of noble sons, six shops for children and grandchildren full of ......"

The good wife made the bed while reciting the auspicious words of blessing the newlyweds, and after making the bed, it was "scattering the tent", that is, sprinkling red dates, longan, peanuts, chestnuts, lotus seeds, etc. on the bed, implying the early birth of a noble son.

"A handful of walnuts and a handful of dates, sprinkled with children running all over the bed. One is glorious and rich, and the other is full of gold and jade. Three sprinkled three yuan and the first early, four sprinkled dragon and phoenix with auspicious. Five scattered houses worship the prime minister, and six scattered six cranes grow in the same spring. Seven husbands and wives grew old together, and eight horses returned to their hometowns. Nine times nine nine long life, ten times ten perfect auspicious!"

Listening to the auspicious words of the "good wife", the happiest thing is that relatives and colleagues come to see the lively children, clapping their little palms and reading with great interest:

"Plant seedlings early, harvest grain early, give birth to noble sons early, and enjoy happiness early. ”

"Peanuts peanut talk peanuts, there are men and **Yangping ......"

"Don't just clap your palms, the golden boy turns over the bed, go up, roll, flip, and get the blessing of the newcomer!"

"Good wife" shouted, and the children, who had already been impatient, giggled, rushed up, jumped on the bed and jumped wildly, rolling in fancy ......

After the bed is the most fun to turn the bed, in the tradition of many places, pay attention to the golden boy to belong to the dragon boy, now, what zodiac baby is auspicious, the golden boy can be a jade girl is no problem, male baby female baby who is not a baby?

"Turn over the bunk, give birth to a boy! Turn over, give birth to Xiucai! Turn over, give birth to Jinshi ......"

The good wife clapped her palms, cheering for the children, and the parents behind her were the same, clapping their palms with a smile and cheering.

All of a sudden, the group of "demons" danced wildly!

Xiao Li covered his eyes and didn't dare to look at it, obediently, but don't collapse the bed......

Turning his head, Xiao Li also put away his laughter, knelt respectfully in front of the ancestral spirit card, and listened to his mother reciting the ancestral text.

“...... Lamei Tuyan, when the number of nine midwinter, the wine is fragrant, it is the time of the flower feast of the ancestors, the ancestors are fragrant, and the blessings of the family will be given forever......"

"Zong Gong is celebrated, and the marriage is auspicious. Today, the daughter of Mr. Che Huaide in Jinxi County, Jiangxi Province, Che Xue Girl and her beloved son Jun Han are selected as a century-old couple. ”

"Fu begging ancestors, come to the grid to taste, like to see the present day, three stars according to the household, flowers and candles, wish him a year, a hundred years of old age, raise the case with eyebrows, respect my ancestors and my ancestors, silently bless ......"

"Dare to sue. ”

can be regarded as looking forward to his son getting married, and after three worships, Xu Qingan is already in tears......

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In the early hours of the morning, the bride Che Xue also began to comb her hair.

The hair-combing ceremony will also invite a blessed elder to comb the bride's hair, which is similar to the principle of making a bed. Originally, I wanted to invite Chairman Wang, but Aunt Wang refused, and she didn't dare to say that she was a blessed person. Therefore, the hair-combing ceremony was personally attended by Che Xue's mother.

In the boudoir, the red brocade silk has been spread out from the inside to the outside of the courtyard, and the corners of the eaves corridor are hung with red silk cut flowers, and the eyes are full of red and gorgeous.

It's just that compared with the excitement and joy of Xiao Li's family, the festive arrangement failed to completely cover up the sadness caused by the separation.

"Once you comb your hair, you don't have to worry about being rich;

The second comb is combed to the hair, disease-free and worry-free;

Three combs to the hair, many sons and many longevity;

then comb to the end, raise the case and raise the eyebrows;

The second comb is combed to the tail, and the wings fly together;

Three combs to the end, forever knotted and concentric;

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The antique wooden comb exudes a faint sandalwood fragrance, in front of the bronze mirror, Che Xue's eyes are red, and tears keep rolling in her eyes, and the mother who is sitting with her back to Che Xue has already burst into tears, paused, hugged her daughter in the back, and choked with tears in her ear:

"There is a head and a tail, and there is a lot of wealth in this life......"

"Mom......"

Che Xue's nose was sore, the tears in her eyes couldn't hold back any longer, she turned around and buried her face in her mother's arms, and the brothers and sisters behind her were also red-eyed.

"Okay, the girl should get married, go put on makeup, the big day......"

"Hmm. ”

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