Chapter 628: A Woman's Greatest Pursuit in Her Life
This afternoon, Wan Chenxi and Shan Ying chatted for a long, long time.
It has always been Wan Chenxi who has been talking about some of her experiences and experiences abroad, and has roughly told Shan Ying what has happened abroad in the past three years.
Shan Ying, on the other hand, was a good listener and never opened her mouth to interrupt Wan Chenxi's narration.
She understands that Wan Chenxi has been abroad alone for more than three years, and no one can listen to her heart, let alone understand the loneliness of her young girl in a foreign country.
Those people only saw the light in front of Wan Chenxi, but they couldn't see the sweat and sadness that Wan Chenxi paid behind the scenes.
For Wan Chenxi's experience abroad, Shan Ying empathizes, once upon a time, she was as innocent as Wan Chenxi in the past, never thinking too much about the intrigue to fight, just want to live a stable life and live an ordinary life.
Don't seek to be rich and expensive, just to ask for a warm and warm home, but unfortunately, fate seems to have played a big joke with them, so that they are ordinary and ordinary, but they can't live plainly.
It can be said that Shan Ying and Wan Chenxi are not women who want a rich life, let alone rely on men to live, but they both changed their lives because of a certain man, which became the beginning of their nightmares, so that they had to become the best in their fields, in order to no longer be bullied by others.
The two who were sympathetic to each other had already hit it off at first sight, and it didn't take long for them to become sisters.
Speaking of which, Shan Ying and Wan Chenxi have not been together for a very long time, or even a short time, but in that short period of time, they have established a deep emotional foundation.
It's better to be a sister than a sister.
Even Xue Mi'er, Wan Chenxi's former best friend, never let Wan Chenxi feel this way.
In the past, when Wan Chenxi and Xue Chenxi were together, the two were more like playmates and good friends between their peers, but they didn't feel like relatives, and even before Xue Mier and Wan Chenxi became best friends, the two were just pleasing to the eye, and Zhang Xun was the bridge between Xue Mier and Wan Chenxi officially became best friends.
Maybe Xue Mi'er didn't have many other ideas when she first got along with Wan Chenxi, but since she fell in love with Zhang Xun, her relationship with Wan Chenxi has become more and more intimate.
In Wan Chenxi's eyes, Zhang Xun met Xue Mi'er because of her introduction, but Xue Mi'er had already known Zhang Xun, but Zhang Xun never knew her and never cared about her.
Wan Chenxi was innocent and naΓ―ve at the beginning, and thought that she could match them, but unfortunately in the end, Wan Chenxi didn't pull the two of them together.
After returning to the East China Sea, Wan Chenxi also tried to contact Xue Mi'er, in Wan Chenxi's impression, Xue Mi'er and Zhang Xun were both involved by themselves, tied to a sightseeing cruise together, and suffered a lot of torture, just when she jumped into Wensi Lake, she also vaguely saw the anxious eyes of the two.
In the past few years, the mysterious person has only told Wan Chenxi about the dynamics of the Lin family and the Shangguan family, and as for the recent status of her friends, she will never mention it.
One is that she is worried that after Wan Chenxi hears their news, she can't help but contact them.
Another important point is that the mysterious person wants Wan Chenxi to enrich her abilities and develop her strength abroad without distraction, otherwise Wan Chenxi wants to return to the East China Sea, and she doesn't know what year and month it will be, and even if she returns to the East China Sea, she will still be swallowed to the point that there are no bones left.
Therefore, except for knowing that Xue Mi'er and Zhang Xun are safe and sound, Wan Chenxi's other circumstances are not very clear.
But now that she has returned to the East China Sea, Wan Chenxi naturally won't fail to learn about the situation of her two good friends, although her identity is not suitable for being exposed to outsiders now, it's okay to just learn a little about the dynamics of relatives and friends, but she won't contact them for the time being.
Night fell quietly, Wan Chenxi and Shan Ying glanced at each other and couldn't help laughing.
"Third sister, it's been a long time since I've said so much, and it feels so good to say what is in my heart. Wan Chenxi stood up from the beach chair and stretched comfortably, feeling the pores of her whole body moaning/moaning comfortably.
"Yes, I haven't chatted with you like this for a long time, three and a half years, you are finally back, Chenxi, your performance today has made me see a different Chenxi, a more stubborn, more excellent Chenxi, the third sister is proud of you. β
Also stood up and walked to Wan Chenxi's side and stood at the bow of the deck, Shan Ying always had a pleased smile on her face, she felt that the current Wan Chenxi was really grown up, and in the past she really regarded Wan Chenxi as a little sister who had to be cared for.
But when I saw her today, and in the afternoon conversation, Wan Chenxi gave her the feeling that she was a mature and generous girl, without the irritable impulses of the past, maybe there are, but Wan Chenxi can hide these emotions very well, giving people the feeling that she is generous, noble and elegant, with a smile and a smile, and her gestures seem to be new, and she can't see that Wan Chenxi is a girl who grew up in an ordinary family, just like a pampered eldest lady since she was a child.
"By the way, third sister, how is Sister Mei now, I often hear him say abroad, Sister Mei has not been in good health recently, but she still has to work, what's going on, I remember that before I left the East China Sea, Sister Mei's health has always been good, how can it become bad?" Wan Chenxi turned her face with a mask on her side, like an angel dreaming at night, full of ethereal mystery.
The smile on Shan Ying's face did not decrease at all, she didn't seem to be very worried about Sister Mei's body, and looked at Wan Chenxi's puzzled expression with a big smile, and did not answer her words.
Instead, he asked Wan Chenxi an inexplicable word: "Chenxi, what do you think is the biggest pursuit of a woman in this life?"
Hearing Shan Ying's words, Wan Chenxi was stunned, with thousands of questions floating in her mind, and replied in a whisper: "Career, family, children?"
"Hehe, you little girl, you are a ghost, you have told everything, but what you see is only a superficial phenomenon after all. β
seemed dissatisfied with Wan Chenxi's answer, but there was no trace of anger.
Shan Ying looked at Wan Chenxi, who was still unknown, and sighed secretly in her heart: Chenxi is only a girl in her early twenties after all, Rao has experienced some changes, and has also experienced the trials and tribulations of life, but she still can't really understand what a woman wants in her heart, maybe in Chenxi's heart, her most important pursuit is different from others.
"Third sister, what do you say is a woman's greatest pursuit in life? Isn't it career, family, and children?
"Maybe you're right, a woman's biggest pursuit is nothing more than a career, family and children, and often after pursuing these, they will fall into a particularly embarrassing situation for women. Shan Sakura said with a sigh, as if she had experienced something that she had deeply understood.
"What awkward situation?"
Wan Chenxi knows that Shan Ying is a doctor of psychology, and she always likes to get to the bottom of things, and she can analyze the essence of many things at a glance, so as to perceive things that are difficult for ordinary people to understand, and it is precisely because of this that when Shan Ying is doing something, she will also have a lot of tangled thoughts in her heart.
As the saying goes, it's rare to be confused, and sometimes, it's not that you have to see through the essence of things to be really powerful, but you know that the essence of things is unacceptable, but you can self-hypnotize and pretend to be confused.
This is something that even many older people find difficult to do.
It's easier said than done, but it's not as simple as it seems.
That is, they all ignore that the career, family, and children they are pursuing, the key point is that the sense of security in their hearts is enough to make them feel down-to-earth. β
"Aren't they all the same, what's the difference?" Wan Chenxi thought deeply as if she didn't understand, and her eyebrows curled, indicating that Wan Chenxi was indeed thinking, but she didn't feel any difference.
"Women regard their careers as their greatest pursuits, and they will inevitably ignore many beautiful scenery in life, unique scenery in life, and even pay their own lives and a lot of bottom lines, and the pursuit of career is not to make themselves strong and give themselves a sense of security?
Isn't the family even more so? How many women regard the family as the whole of their life, but in the end they delay themselves in vain, perhaps once they were beautiful and moving, making their husbands proud, and with the passage of time, it is inevitable that they will be old and yellow, and who can guarantee that their husbands will continue to be the same? At that time, what will be left of the woman?
In fact, children are also part of the family, women dedicate their lives to children, let children go to cram schools, go to extracurricular classes, learn all kinds of so-called necessary skills, send children to school, step into society, and finally be busy with children's marriages, and then worry about children's children, you say, is this the biggest pursuit of our women?
It is undeniable that many women of multiple generations live together are quite satisfied and happy, and spend their lives in dedication, but are all women willing to be so selfless?
Women also have the right to live a good life, instead of putting everything they have on a certain thing, career, do they really have to pursue the pinnacle? family, do they have to give up their dreams and become a complacent housewife? children, women must be their slaves for the rest of their lives?
Sometimes, let go of your own comfort, happy life, there is enough to bring a sense of security to yourself, a solid reliance, when you want to make trouble, accompany you to shout, when you want to cry, hand you tissues, comfort you, and even cry with you, when you want to have a stable home, he can make you feel the warmth of home in the first time, children are no longer the only ones in a woman's life, children do not need to be too spoiled, do not need to be too accustomed, as long as they grow up happily, it is enough, why ask so much?
Therefore, career, family, children, in the end, are nothing more than women lacking a sense of security and reliance that makes them down-to-earth. β
After saying this, Wan Chenxi was already stunned, and she also knew that women needed a sense of security to feel down-to-earth, but she had never thought about it so much.