"Welcome to the 'Perfect Love Show', I'm the host Zhou Ling. The hotline has been connected, so let's hear the story of the first audience member today.

This audience is a post-90s girl, and she is about to marry her boyfriend who has been in love for eight years. But she suddenly feared that life would not be satisfactory after marriage, so she wanted to ask herself how to overcome such fears.

In fact, premarital phobia is a very normal phenomenon.

We all know that marriage is not the same as being in love. Entering into marriage means that from now on, you will not only have responsibilities for each other, but also for two families.

Your life is no longer only about wind and snow, but firewood, rice, oil, salt, and all kinds of trivialities.

So how do you overcome your premarital fears?

In fact, I think this is very simple, we can divide it into three points to alleviate.

First, most premarital fears are due to the preparation of the wedding, or the unhappy cases of the people around you, which lead to fear of your future married life.

In fact, you don't have to be like this, there are thousands of misfortunes in the world, but happiness is very simple. Other people's lives cannot be reproduced, and the relationship between two people, such as people drinking water and knowing themselves, you don't have to use other people's lives to make yourself afraid.

Life is your own, and you have the final say on how you want to live it.

Second, many people are afraid of marriage because of sudden and huge changes, which make them unable to adapt.

At this time, you have to figure out one thing, what your purpose is,

If you know that you can simply enjoy the freedom and chic of love, and cannot accept some of the constraints and responsibilities of marriage, then I advise you to give up the idea of marriage as soon as possible.

Because it's not only irresponsible to yourself, but also irresponsible to others.

But if you're ready, you don't have to worry about it at all.

Wind and snow and snow and firewood, rice, oil and salt do not conflict. Just because life is ordinary doesn't mean there will never be surprises.

Third, lack of confidence in one's lover.

You must have this worry, worrying that your lover will not pay so much attention to you after getting married. Those little pleasures and intentions when they are in love will be gone.

First of all, you have to determine whether the person in front of you is the person you want to live for a lifetime, after all, a lifetime is so long, you have to choose someone you like to spend your life with.

Second, you have to set your own principles and bottom line.

No one wants to guess your mind all the time, and no matter how patient you are, you will be annoyed one day.

At this time, the communication between husband and wife is extremely important. For some points that you need to pay attention to, you must tell him solemnly.

Finally, I would like to say that girls who are about to enter into marriage, do not forget that since that man is what you have already identified, you should trust him.

Don't keep all your thoughts in your heart, since you walk through that door, you are no longer you, but you.

Put your hand into his hand, and speak to him what is in your heart.

You know, marriage is not a solitary path. Your lover will support you until you are old.

One room, two people, three meals for four seasons, the rest of your life is long, and you can give me a lot of advice.

Today's program is coming to an end here, thank you for listening, I'm the host Zhou Ling. ”

Speaking of this, Zhou Ling took off his headphones, lowered his head and stroked the diamond ring on his ring finger lovingly, his eyes were gentle.

"I'm off work, so you should go home early. ”

Zhou Ling glanced at Rong Xiao'an and Qian Zhenzhen, who were newly married, but his smile was no longer as cordial as before, but a little alienated.

Qian Zhenzhen looked a little bad, and she hadn't spoken to Rong Xiaoan all day in the live broadcast room today.

"Thank you, Sister Zhou. ”

Rong Xiaoan made Qian Zhenzhen a cup of jasmine tea, but was pushed away by Qian Zhenzhen's twisted face.

Didn't they all say that the newlyweds were blended with oil in honey, and the two had a conflict after only a few days of marriage.

However, Zhou Ling didn't care about the two of them. To be honest, that incident didn't hit her that hard. But she was still a little stubborn.

She took her bag off the hanger, put on her coat and went out.

But before he had taken a few steps, he heard a fierce quarrel between the two inside.

"It's only been a few days since we got married, and you have to come back to work! I haven't heard of anyone who is married and doesn't even have a honeymoon!" Qian Zhenzhen's tone was filled with infinite resentment, and even trembled.

"Isn't there anything I can't do about it! The cost of marriage and the cost of renovation basically spent all my savings. We still have to pay off so much mortgage every month, if we don't hurry back to work, will the two of us go to drink the northwest wind?"

Rong Xiao'an's voice sounded tired, even a little impatient.

Zhou Ling shook his head, wrapped his clothes tightly and left quickly.

She wasn't in the habit of staying here and listening to the corner.

In fact, Qian Zhenzhen belongs to the typical example of not being able to adapt to married life.

In her mind, she probably still thinks about how romantic it is after marriage, and thinks about the ups and downs.

But in fact, where is there so much romance? The mortgage alone is enough to crush two people.

But the two of them have nothing to do with her, and remembering that tomorrow is the day of the preliminary round of Rong Zheng's painting competition, her steps can't help but be brisk.

"Hey, Zhou Ling, we really have fate. ”

At the door of the radio station, He Shuo leaned on the sports car loudly, holding a large bouquet of roses.

Zhou Ling didn't forget that Rong Zheng was disfigured last time because she talked to him, she didn't even look at He Shuo, and left directly bypassing him.

He Shuo saw Zhou Ling leaving, and hurriedly chased after him with roses.

"Zhou Ling, don't be so faceless, right?"

He stretched out his hand and pressed Zhou Ling's car door, thinking that he was very handsome, he approached Zhou Ling.

Zhou Ling's face sank, he took a deep breath, and said coldly: "Let go, I will act as if nothing happened just now." Otherwise, you know what kind of temper Bai Xiao is. ”

He Shuo smiled disapprerovingly, "You told Bai Xiao, she will only think that you are seducing me, and you will be the one who suffers at that time." ”

Zhou Ling was angry, but it was undeniable that what He Shuo said was indeed the truth.

According to Bai Xiao's style, even if he knew He Shuo's heart, he would put all the fault on her.

But this does not mean that she can tolerate He Shuo twittering crookedly in front of her.

She clasped her hands, glanced at the rose in He Shuo's hand, and smiled, "You won't give me this rose, right?"

"What, can you give me a face now?" He Shuo straightened his back and handed the rose in his hand to Zhou Ling.

Zhou Ling sneered and picked up a small card in the petals.

It reads: The most beautiful flower for the most beautiful woman.

"Mr. He, so many women, can't they all be deceived in this way?"