Qin Wan adjusted her emotions, she needed to calmly and objectively judge what to say to her next based on the girl's reaction.

If you are too emotional, it is easy to be affected by the girl's emotions.

"Child, you heard from my aunt that every mother loves her child.

It's just that different people will use different expressions.

You see, it's so windy now, and you're sitting there, and your mom is going to be distressed to see it below. ”

After Qin Wan finished speaking, she wanted to take a step forward, but she hadn't moved yet, and the girl's excited reaction startled her.

"She won't feel sorry for me!

She was an old, ugly, and fierce person, and she said she wanted me to die.

Then I'll die to her!" the girl's hand holding the railing trembled slightly, her body swaying back and forth in the wind.

Qin Wan's brain went blank for a moment after this scene, she couldn't imagine that her words would bring her such a violent stimulus.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong, don't get excited!

Child, can you turn around and let Auntie look at you?

You said that Auntie is a gentle person, and Auntie thinks you are a kind child.

Because Auntie's children also say that Auntie is old and fierce. Qin Wan quickly sorted out her language, allowing the girl to resolve the anger just now.

Qin Wan wanted to step forward but didn't dare to move, her eyes anxiously looked in the direction of the police and firefighters for help.

They can only be anxious, dare not move, it is too dark and the environment is not familiar to them, and they dare not rush to the rescue.

When the girl heard Qin Wan's words, her mood calmed down a little, but she didn't turn her head.

"Auntie, you go, no one will understand my feelings.

I feel like I came into this world by mistake. The girl suddenly burst into tears.

The sound of crying that was blown away reached Qin Wan's ears and became a thorny Langya bang that hit her heart.

Psychological guidance and emotional management are really important for children in the process of growth.

She almost forgot how she did it in the first place when Yueyue and Liangliang were adolescence, because she didn't even feel that the child had grown up.

may be because Zhou Bin does more, or the children are born with high EQ and IQ, and self-management is better.

Looking back now, Qin Wan actually felt very happy at this time.

Shaking her head, Qin Wan pulled her thoughts back, listening to the girl's cry, she felt that she couldn't comfort her anymore.

When many people encounter such a situation, their first reaction is to persuade them with good words.

But this effect is not good at all, and sometimes it can cause disgust from the persuaded.

They will feel that you don't have a backache when you stand and talk, that you haven't experienced what they have experienced, that you can't empathize, and that the words of comfort you say are dry and unwarm.

Qin Wan remembered the days when she was a child, when her parents were busy with business, she and her younger brother cooked and did their homework at home.

I may not have felt that sadness at the time, but after the precipitation of time, it will feel extremely difficult in retrospect.

"Child, Auntie doesn't know what you've been through, so she doesn't know how to comfort you.

Can you listen to Auntie's story?

When my aunt was a child, when she was about ten years old, my brother and I were at home.

My parents worked hard to earn money outside, and no one cared about our siblings.

Sometimes I was hungry, but I didn't have any money, so I learned to cook.

At that time, liquefied gas tanks were used, which was dangerous to look at.

I couldn't twist the switch, and I didn't turn it on for a long time.

My brother was hungry and hugged my leg and cried.

At the time, I thought that my brother and I must have picked it up from the garbage dump by my parents. ”

When Qin Wan said this, her mood also sank, because she really thought that she had picked it up more than once.

As for Qin Yun's attitude towards her, he said that it was good to pick it up, and Qin Wan was like she owed her a lot in her previous life and came to repay her debts in this life.

When the girl heard Qin Wan stop, she couldn't help but ask, "What happened later?

Qin Wan was stunned for a moment, it seemed that this method was effective, and her mood immediately improved.

"That time, I never turned on the gas stove, and I pulled my brother to squat at the door and wait for my parents to come back.

The kind neighbor grandma saw us crying and pulled us home for a full meal.

Kid, you know what?

I think of that meal with only white rice, a plate of green vegetables, and a plate of stir-fried celery, and I think it was the most delicious meal I had ever eaten in my life.

You see, even though my parents are gone, there are still people who love our siblings.

Later, I learned from my neighbor's grandmother how to turn on the gas, how to stir-fry, and how to steam rice.

In this way, my brother and sister never went hungry again. ”

After listening to Qin Wan's words, the girl didn't speak, she looked up at the sky, Qin Wan knew that she must still be crying.

"Child, your mom must love you, it's just that she may have done it in a way you don't like.

Also, it's not just your mom who loves you in this world.

For example, I'm standing here now, and I've been writing emails before I came, answering a lot of parents' questions about their children's troubles in life.

They are anxious, worried, and worried about their children, but they only talk to us adults.

They don't talk about their stress and pain to their children.

They use their best efforts to provide the most pampering and care to the children.

Children, parents are also human beings, they will also be tired, they will suffer, they will be sad.

Sometimes they can be a little irritable with us, but we have to be considerate of them. Qin Wan said as she felt as if she was talking a little too much, so she quickly stopped.

She was watching the girl's reaction, as she had been quietly looking ahead.

In front of the girl is a relatively tall office building, and now there are lights in the individual windows there, which means that there are still people working overtime and not going home.

"Kid, it's uncomfortable to sit there, isn't it?

Or you change your position, and Auntie will talk to you slowly.

If you have any troubles, you can tell your aunt.

Auntie swears that everything you said is a secret between us, and you will never let a third person know, believe me, okay?"

Qin Wan tried to make the girl let down her guard for the first time, she knew that she might not necessarily succeed, but at this time, she had to dare to try.

The girl shook her head and did not speak.

"Can you turn around and sit down?

We're chatting, you've been putting the back of your head at me, and Auntie is feeling sad too.

Auntie thinks you look down on Auntie, so you turn your back to Auntie. ”

At this moment, Qin Wan felt that she was possessed by Brother Bin, pretending to be pitiful and hypocritical, and she felt a little too much.

But in order to save people, just pretend, she felt that after she went back, she would have to study the hearts of adolescent children.

The girl thought for a long time before slowly turning her head and glancing at Qin Wan.

Through the way she turned her head, Qin Wan guessed that she should have learned dance, because girls who have learned dance turn their heads differently from ordinary people.

When the dance teacher turns his head and keeps his head in training, he will repeatedly emphasize that it is the neck that drives the head, not the head that drives the neck, and the expression of the eyes.

A girl who has studied dance for more than five years will subconsciously drive her neck whenever she turns her head.

"Son, you're very good-looking.

You've been studying dance for a long time, right?

My aunt had also studied dance before. ”

Qin Wan's words made the girl's mouth open wide, and she looked at Qin Wan with shocked eyes.

Qin Wan smiled slightly, she knew what she was going to talk to the girl about next.