Chapter 343 The negotiator made a new move, and he had a quick impression
After returning to Shenyang, Caizi didn't go out for a week, mainly to accompany Hashun Geri and Nasha, in order to make up for the lack of these days, relive the warmth of the past, and then sort out his current troubled and 'chaotic' thoughts. */.//*
A week later, Caizi went to work, and he was sitting in his office and worried.
His mobile phone rang, and when he saw that it was Lu Dalin calling, he picked it up and Lu Dalin asked with concern: How is the progress of the old girl's affairs?
The talented man has been treated coldly by the old girl these days\\
Lu Dalin listened: I heard that there are any negotiators in the Public Security Bureau, and I don't know if they will help Lao Ya's psychological disorder.
Caizi smiled, he: Big brother, what is this public security bureau negotiator doing?
Lu Dalin: Listening to the special 'door' is to persuade those stubborn criminals who are ideologically 'radical', such as jumping off buildings, taking hostages, and so on.
Caizi: Lao Ya is not a stubborn criminal? What will the negotiators do?
Lu Dalin: Look at that, the old girl is more difficult to deal with than the stubborn criminals. It is estimated that her mind is in that stubborn state, and the old girl's current state is actually more stubborn than the stubborn. If not, find those negotiators and let them come up with ideas?
Caizi: Is this a sick 'disorderly' going to the doctor?
Lu Dalin smiled: Even if it's it, it will work!
Caizi: The negotiator of the Public Security Bureau, but I don't know anyone?
Lu Dalin: Find Erguang and ask him to help find one.
Caizi: Experiment, experiment?
Lu Dalin: Okay, what tricks do they have? Maybe the east doesn't shine and the west doesn't shine!
After Caizi and Lu Dalin finished talking, he dialed Erguang's mobile phone, and Caizi truthfully and Erguang had intentions\\
Erguang also smiled after hearing this, and he: Big brother, you are using negotiators for this matter, it seems that \\?
Genius: \u201Z is not for the negotiators to go, but for the negotiators to come up with ideas.
Erguang: What kind of negotiation experts are just police officers with negotiation experience, and there are no special 'door' negotiation positions in our bureau.
Caizi: So how do you call an expert?
Erguang: Experienced, able to adapt to changes, clear mind at critical moments, and able to accurately judge the other party's psychological intentions are experts in this field.
Caizi: Ah! That makes sense.
Erguang: According to your situation, the old girl should be a mental obstacle. Let's find the old political commissar, who is qualified to be called an expert negotiator. In the past few years, he has encountered cases involving negotiations, and he has successfully persuaded them and has certain experience in this area.
Caizi: So, when are you looking for it?
Erguang: \u201Z will go upstairs now to see if he's there, and if you're talking to him, I'll call you again?
Caizi: Then you can go quickly, right?
After putting down the phone, Caizi thought that he had to turn to the police for help at this critical moment. It seems that there are no police in this society, and many things are really not good! It is really right to transfer Erguang to Shenyang!
Not long after, Erguang called: The old political commissar happens to be free, can you hurry up and come?
Genius: \u201Z Go now.
Putting down the phone, Caizi and Lao Hai went straight to the district bureau. After getting out of the car, the talented man took three steps and two steps upstairs to the old commissar's office.
This 60-year-old political commissar has never seen it before, and this is the first time he has seen it.
Erguang made an introduction, and after the talented man sat down, the old political commissar: Erguang just made your matter simple, you are here, you are in detail.
When the genius heard it, maybe this old policeman would have some tricks. He slowly went from the old girl's disappearance to looking for it, until he found it, and the old girl's current situation was truthful.
Old Political Commissar: Old girl, how far is your face now?
Caizi: I don't know the specifics, and she doesn't let people see her face! I guess except for her husband and daughter, who is her aunt and sister-in-law, have seen it, no one else should have seen it. Listening to her aunt and sister-in-law, her face is gone, and the injury is definitely not light.
Old commissar: This is the biggest obstacle.
Then the old commissar: Now she means that she is dead before, and the main reason why she doesn't want to face reality should be her face. You have to look at things the other way around, that is, you have to think backwards. What would you do if you were her? Thinking about the problem in this way can find a breakthrough in solving the problem.
Caizi: I haven't thought about this, if it's her?
The old commissar asked: Didn't she not want to see her family? Because she hated her family for sending her to study in Chishan, because that incident was the cause of her bad luck. It's also a hurdle.
Caizi nodded after hearing this.
Old Political Commissar: There is another problem, that is, in the current situation, her life is so difficult. This is also one reason why she is afraid to meet people, and it is also an obstacle.
Caizi: \u201Z went to these times, and I understood that I was going to help her. But why is she still unwilling to accept help?
Old Commissar: Actually, he hates you too! What do you think if you let it go and think that you hate people coming to help you?
Caizi nodded after hearing this.
Old political commissar: A 'girl' child, if her face is ruined, her heart will die. For a 'woman', the face is her life. Why don't 'women' like to do beauty now, because they are not confident in their faces, which is also a kind of psychological disorder. It's just that the symptoms are mild and not to the point of affecting health, but the meaning should be the same. Old girl, she didn't dare to face the reality and remember that nightmare, this is a normal psychological phenomenon. Plus over the years, she has become accustomed to her current life, and her family has become accustomed to her living with a scarf every day.
The old commissar took a sip of water, and he continued: her current situation is a psychological disorder, and her mental obstacle must be solved. The best way is to find the root cause and the breakthrough of the problem. Genius, do you know where the root is? Where is the breakthrough?
Caizi shook his head: I don't know, I haven't thought about this problem! I really didn't think about it so much, I just wanted to move her with practical actions!
Old Political Commissar: It is because of this obstacle that she is unwilling to accept your sincere help. She should be on this mentally now. She understands that you are sincerely persuading her and really want to help her, and her psychological disorder has formed after she has been hurt, and the root cause is in her face. Because her face is not in good shape for a while, there is no breakthrough here.
Caizi nodded again.
Old Political Commissar: The breakthrough should be in her children, hasn't she ever been? If it weren't for these two children, would she have died a long time ago? You have to find a breakthrough here, and now it is the only breakthrough, because this is the reason and hope for her to live.
Caizi: The root is in the face, and the breakthrough is in the two children? But how to find the breakthrough?
Old political commissar: Next time I talk to the old girl, don't talk about the past. Only talk about her child, but talk about what the child is cute, well-behaved, obedient, and pitiful. Talk about the child's present, talk about the child's future, talk about how her child is different from other children of the same age, etc. There is also one thing to remember here, only children are good, don't have children's shortcomings, especially if children have fatal shortcomings, don't avoid them. The shortcomings will make her lose confidence in her children, and then there will be no breakthrough.
Caizi: Old political commissar, you kind of understand.
Old Political Commissar: This is how they generally adopt a negotiation method in the face of some 'radical' criminal suspects, which has the advantage of distracting her from being 'radical' about something. Let her slowly forget the unpleasantness, and cover her sad place with a film first, so that she does not have time to think about her sad place, that is, her sore place. Try to show her sunny side and let her turn her main attention to your problems. Let her brain not have a chance to think about anything else, especially her 'extreme' problem. Let her only think about how to solve your problem, let her focus on your problem, make her think, push her to solve. After this thought was slowly fixed, it was subtly changing the subject. Instill your solution in her. Convince her that your solution is the best or the only way, and that your solution will give her hope.
Erguang: Big brother, this is the old political commissar's many years of experience!
Genius: \u201Z can't understand it yet, but I'll figure it out.
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In this way, the talented man chatted in the old commissar's office for half a day, although he didn't fully understand the old commissar's things, but it also opened his mind.
When he came back, he began to wonder what he was going to do when he went back, and he thought about it for two days.
Thinking about it, he and Hashun Gerri discussed who to take that day?
Hashun Gerili: If it's a conversation, or Wang Yue, why don't you take her there?
Caizi: This is not good, take him alone, Zhou Guangren will not be at ease, and he is also a little unconfident in himself.
Hashun Gerili: No, you can go with you?
Caizi smiled, he: You are not at ease?
Hashun Ge Rili: \u201Z go, it's just \\ I just want to see the old girl, don't worry about you!
Caizi: What do you think of her, she won't let you enter the 'door'!
Hashun Gerili: You forget, it's the 'Mongolian' ancient tribe, and my grandfather is also a herdsman, so he knows herdsmen better than you.
Caizi: What are you going to do? I haven't married a daughter-in-law or have a child.
Hashun Gerili: You're really stupid by the old girl's question, you won't be your sister\\?
At this point, she laughed, and then said, "yes, no? She knows you don't have a sister." That's it?
Caizi: You are your uncle's sister, Zhou Yueyue.
Hashungerili: Yes, she wouldn't be disgusted.
Caizi: Why did you come here, I didn't mean to talk to you and take you to something? A few words were dragged to your topic?
The genius slapped his big 'leg': Is this the old political commissar's thinking shifted? Who do you take with you to solve the problem? The mind follows you. I'm starting to think about your question, and it's time for my sister's question.
Hashun Gerili: Look at you, surprised! What kind of transfer does not transfer?
Caizi: You don't understand this, and you only 'figured' it from the old political commissar.
Hashun Gerili: So, you don't want to take it?
Genius: \u201Z think it's better for you not to go?
Hashun Gerri was a little angry, "Listen to you, listen to you at all times."
Caizi: That's right, I'll go with Lao Hai tomorrow, and I want to try the old political commissar's recruitment. If not, you'll go again next time, okay?
Hashungerili: Then you can go, I hope you can succeed.
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