Chapter 513: Then Qualify Yourself
Ji Lei didn't expect that Qianqian would directly say such a thing.
Could it be that Xin'er has already told the relationship between the two of them shallowly?
Also, Xin'er is a very simple child. She didn't have the slightest experience in such a thing as a relationship! plus the man she liked was once the person her sister-in-law was going to marry her.
To deal with such a question, she naturally has to ask shallow!
Moreover, Qianqian understands more that children like Xin'er who live in a family like Xin'er should do when dealing with feelings.
"Shallow, do you think I'm a man who thinks differently? The two of us haven't been separated for a long time, and I seem to have feelings for other women in my heart. ”
Hearing Ji Lei say such words, her heart was very happy.
Because, after getting along with Ji Lei for so long, even as a friend, she can be regarded as knowing what kind of person Ji Lei is.
"I think I'm staying with you, you've never been in love with me for so many years. The reason why you are marrying me now is because your mother is sick and may not live long in this world, so you don't want your mother to have regrets and leave this world, so you will choose to marry me. ”
And when Ah Si appeared, you were still telling him again and again that you would marry me because you loved me, but in your subconscious, there was always a sense of inferiority and trouble. Because you obviously feel that Ah Si is a very strong person, and you don't want to let yourself stick to the slightest bit of face. ”
"Ji Lei, don't care, at this moment, the reason why I will say such a fact so directly is because I want you to face your own heart. I have been with Xin'er for so long, and I love her like my own sister. So I hope she can find happiness in her life. ”
In fact, a person does not say that there is a mind reading.
It's just because she knows another person very well, and when she is really a friend and a lover, because she cares. Because of such a care, he will pay wholeheartedly.
So at this moment, almost every word that Qianqian said reached Ji Lei's heart.
"Shallow, you are really a very smart person with a very delicate heart. No wonder Mr. Gu loves you so much!"
Ji Lei really sighed from the bottom of his heart at this time.
It turns out that in the past, Qianqian already knew himself so thoroughly.
Maybe the two of them were just using each other at that time, completely thinking about something.
I never thought that things would go so far, like this, but such a way can be regarded as a kind of perfection.
"Ji Lei, tell me, what kind of heart do you have for Xin'er! If you have feelings, then say them out loud, if you don't feel them, make a decision immediately, don't give Xin'er hope. Because I can clearly feel Xin'er's heart for you. ”
"Because there are a lot of good men in this world. If you don't like her, I'll let her bury the relationship deeply. Then go out alone for a walk, maybe you can meet a more perfect man. ”
There is no threat or intimidation to say such a thing.
I just hope that Ji Lei can be more clear about his intentions.
Xin'er is a very simple girl, and in a relationship, she doesn't want her to be hurt deeply.
Although in many cases, an outsider may not be of much help in a relationship. However, Shallow felt that the two of them should be reminded when necessary!
"However, Xin'er is a very good person, she is so kind and lovely, especially her identity and background are still unattainable for me. So I don't know what to choose, I don't know if I can give her that happiness. ”
Hearing Ji Lei's worries, her own worried heart instantly relaxed.
"Now that we're dealing with this, we're putting everything aside. If you want to have this qualification, stand by Xin'er's side. Then make yourself stronger. In fact, what I want to say is a relationship, without those worldly things. To love is to love, not to love is not to love, there is no right, there is no wrong, there is no first come and no last arrival. ”
Ji Lei may have just started because of this relationship, although he heard Qianqian say such encouraging words, but his heart was still a little wandering, he didn't believe in himself, but he was afraid.
"Ji Lei, we have been together for so many years, I believe you know very well what kind of identity and background I have. Maybe you don't know what our life together was like after I met Asth. I can tell you very clearly that Ah Si's family is very good, they don't care about the worldly people who are right, the only thing they care about is that two people really love each other, it's enough. ”
Shallow said such a long sentence sincerely, but listening to her, she still saw hesitation and worry in Ji Lei's eyes.
It may be that in such a relationship, men and women choose differently.
After all, a man has too many responsibilities to bear, because of a love, then he must work harder.
Treat his beloved girl, he should give her the most powerful guarantee and the happiest material conditions.
The family in which Xin'er lives is not him, and it can be completed or obtained after a few years of hard work.
Maybe in Ji Lei's heart, he feels that such a responsibility is really heavy, but he loves him like this and doesn't want to let go.
At this moment, there will be hesitation and hesitation, which is also a very normal psychology of a person.
Because no one knows what will happen in the future.
"Ji Lei, in my heart, I think you have always been a very good, courageous, responsible, and responsible man. So I hope that in this relationship, if you are sure of your heart, don't give up easily. Because, whether it is Xin'er or their family, it will be very good. ”
Shallow may not quite understand, why is Ji Lei still so scared at this moment?
But at this moment, one of the things she wants to do is to give Ji Lei some encouragement, comfort, and courage.
"You should be going abroad soon! You are a very smart person, since Ah Si has given you such a good opportunity, you will definitely work hard to cherish it. Ji Lei, as long as you grasp and make good use of such an opportunity, when you come back. Give yourself another three years, and I believe you have the qualifications to stand by Xin'er's side. For such a low-hanging fruit, you should make yourself work harder. ”
"Some feelings, once missed, want to redeem again, but it is difficult. In this world, not everyone will be like As. No matter how much time passes, his heart will not change. ”