282 Your destiny is in your own hands

Only himself, thinking about it day and night, even dreaming of seeing Shen Xiao wearing a wedding dress and walking towards him.

He even had the names of the children of the two of them in mind.

Only...... Shen Xiao is not on the same channel as him at all.

In fact, he also knows that this kind of thing cannot be forced. Shen Xiao was already very wary of men, and now being able to be so close to him is already a great progress. But marriage is Shen Xiao's minefield, Shen Xiao can accept a lifelong love with him, but he can't accept being his wife.

For Shen Xiao, marriage is a curse.

If they love each other, then why do they have to get that marriage letter?

This is bound to be impossible. If Chu Yunji's love was such a superficial love, Shen Xiao would not have liked him.

And if they don't love each other, then what can a marriage certificate protect? Chu Yun advises whether to cheat or cheat, and it will not change because he has received a marriage certificate.

Therefore, in Shen Xiao's logic, marriage is something that does not need to exist at all.

If you are worried about the problem of your child's household registration, there is no need to get married, because now single women can also register their children.

When the child goes to school, he should attend the parent-teacher meeting, and Shen Xiao and Chu Yunjian can still participate together, regardless of whether they have a marriage certificate or not, how to take care of the child or how to take care of the child.

In families with marriage certificates, widowed parenting abounds, which shows that marriage certificates really cannot protect feelings.

It can only safeguard interests.

But the problem is that Shen Xiao and Chu Yunjian both have their own careers, and if they get married, it is easier to cause losses to each other's interests.

In this case, it is better for everyone to be refreshing and refreshed, take care of their own careers, and get a marriage certificate...... Forget it.

Of course, weddings can still be held, after all, Chu Yunji looks like he particularly wants a wedding...... Although she didn't quite understand Chu Yunji's mood, Shen Xiao was a very considerate girlfriend, and if it really came to the day when she felt that she could hold a wedding, she would still give Chu Yunji a dream wedding. (?)

But the marriage certificate ...... Forget it.

Shen Xiao was extremely afraid that he would become someone's wife in law.

Although a husband who kills his wife will not be convicted of abuse under the Domestic Violence Act, it depends on the extent of evidence collected by the prosecutor. If the prosecutor is unable to obtain strong evidence that the husband committed intentional homicide or intentional injury, the trial will sentence her according to the domestic violence law.

Under the domestic violence law, the maximum penalty is seven years.

Although some husbands kill their wives, they will be sentenced to life imprisonment.

But forensics is not as easy as everyone thinks.

A lot of people beat their wives to serious injuries and end up with a very light sentence – because you can't be sure that he hurt someone on purpose.

Shen Xiao didn't understand very much: why a stranger beats a stranger, just prove that he has beaten someone, you can conclude that he deliberately hurt someone.

But the husband beats his wife and sees his wife bruised all over his body, but he still needs to prove that he didn't mean to hurt people?

Could it be that if you become a husband and wife, if you don't mean it, you can hurt others without taking due responsibility?

Shen Xiao couldn't understand it at all.

It's not that she doesn't distrust Chu Yunji, but her experience and psychological shadow since she was a child made her firm belief: instead of leaving her fate to others to decide, it is better to firmly control her fate in her own hands.

So she decided not to get married for the rest of her life.

This is not anger, it is not revenge, this is a choice made after careful consideration out of self-protection.

Chu Yunji also understood Shen Xiao's psychological barrier, and he did not intend to force Shen Xiao to marry him.

Because just like Shen Xiao said: they don't have a word about what they want to do.

He and Shen Xiao have only been together for a year and a half, and they don't know each other's families very well, and they are still in the stage of guessing each other, at this time, it is not suitable to get married at all.

Even if it was the end, Shen Xiao was still unwilling to marry him, so it didn't matter.

His loyalty to Shen Xiao and Shen Xiao's love for him will not change because he does not have a marriage letter.

If something really changes someday, then without that marriage certificate, the two will be able to separate more smoothly without any sequelae.

Chu Yunji felt that this was also good.

As long as Shen Xiao can stay by his side all the time, it doesn't matter whether he has that marriage certificate or not.

He loved her far more than his own life, and since his life could be given to her, these worldly rules became unimportant.

Besides, there are couples abroad who have given birth to N babies but are not yet married. But the father's duty that people should fulfill is also fulfilled.

Any questions? No problems at all.

Chu Yunzhi was so relieved to himself.

Although, men's natural sense of class always makes him a little uneasy, he always wants to have a definite proof that Shen Xiao belongs to him completely.

But since Shen Xiao was unwilling, this uneasiness was suppressed in the bottom of Chu Yun's heart, and he never turned it out again.

He only hoped that Shen Xiao could be happy, and other than that, nothing else mattered.

If getting married makes Shen Xiao unhappy, then don't get married.

If childbirth makes Shen Xiao miserable, then don't give birth.

Marriage and children, for Chu Yunji, that is not important.

The only thing that matters is Shen Xiao.

As long as Shen Xiao is willing to accompany him, he will have nothing else to ask for in this life.

——

The turmoil of the adopted female star passed without danger.

In addition to the phone call from Chu Junhuai.

"Brother, what's the matter?"

The moment Chu Yunji saw the caller, he knew what Chu Junhuai was calling for.

Sure enough, Chu Junhuai's earnest voice came out of his mobile phone: "Yun Ji, you'd better stay away from those people in the entertainment industry in the future." There are always a lot of paparazzi behind their tails, and if you get close, you'll get into a fuss like this one. ”

"I know. Chu Yunji accepted his brother's suggestion very simply: "I'll pay attention." ”

"I'll take care of this for you this time, but next time, I won't be able to help you that much. You know, there are many pairs of eyes on me, and on my family. You know, Yun Zhi?"

"I understand. Chu Yunji didn't intend to argue anything with his brother, and still answered very succinctly: "I'll pay attention." It's hard work, big brother. ”

“…… Alas. ”

Chu Junhuai was silent for a long time, and let out a sigh: "Yun Zhi, you didn't go home in the Mid-Autumn Festival last year, and you didn't go home during the Spring Festival...... Are you still complaining about us?"

"Don't dare. Chu Yunji replied quickly.

Chu Junhuai frowned: "I don't dare, I just still complain." ”

“…… Brother, it's late, you should rest early. ”