032 Is it enough to eat and drink?
Xiao Yi's father sincerely felt guilty for his previous contempt.
He just said that he could stay in it for at least half a year...... Half a year? Hehe, people have already gone crazy.
Shen Xiao smiled and continued to ask, "Daddy Xiao Yi hasn't ordered food yet, do you think if I send you some food and drink, you can last longer?"
"No, really can't. Xiao Yi's father shook his head in horror: "The most painful thing in it is that I can't communicate with people, and there are no entertainment facilities to pass the time, what's the use of just having food? Can fried chicken talk to me? Can Coke make me happy? This experiment is so terrible, it's just ...... It's inhumane, I'll tell you, it's inhumane!"
Seeing him so indignant, Shen Xiao's smile deepened.
"Daddy Xiaoyi, congratulations, you have finally experienced what 'emotional deprivation' is. ”
"Emotional deprivation?" Xiao Yi's father looked up in confusion.
"The purpose of this experiment is to study what will eventually become of human beings who are emotionally deprived. Shen Xiao said softly: "Father Xiaoyi, if I tell you now: How good this experiment is for you, you don't lack food or drink, what are you not satisfied with-what would you think?"
"I'll be angry, angry. Xiao Yi's father sank his face: "What's the use of not lacking food and drink? Of course, it doesn't mean that people will starve to death, but that not lacking food and drink is the most basic condition, the most basic, if you don't have this condition, you don't have to do experiments, everyone is starving to death." But if this condition is met, will people be happy? Will they be able to live well? Not at all! In addition to material conditions, they need a lot of things!"
Xiao Yi's father was stupid, and when he was in a hurry, he became even more incoherent: "You have to talk to people, right? You have to have something to pass the time, you have to ...... In short, even the prisoners in prison have no such thing. You can find someone to talk to in prison, and you usually let it go, otherwise you would have gone crazy a long time ago. ”
"What you mean is that people need many, many emotional fulfillments in addition to eating and drinking. You mean that people need to communicate with others and get happiness from many sources?"
"Yes, yes, that's it. Xiao Yi's father wiped the sweat on his forehead: "Teacher Shen will still say, I am stupid and can't speak......"
"Xiao Yi's father......" Shen Xiao clasped his hands into fists and rested on the table: "You finally understand Xiao Yi's feelings." ”
“……!?”
Xiao Yi's father widened his eyes: "You...... What do you mean?"
"Don't you always tell Xiao Yi: The children now don't have to worry about food and clothing, and the conditions are much better than ours before, what are you not satisfied with?"
Xiao Yi's father was speechless.
Shen Xiao narrowed his eyes and smiled: "Now do you know why the child is not satisfied......? This is what you have just learned, and I hope you will not forget it. ”
"No, Mr. Shen, this, this is different......" Xiao Yi's father weakly defended.
"It's the same. Shen Xiao said coldly: "Do you think that the child has food and drink at home, and can go to school and study, which is equivalent to meeting all the needs of the child...... But no. You have never had emotional communication with your child, and your child is not emotionally satisfied by you, so he is miserable. ”
"But, even if I don't understand, the child ......"
"The child's mother is quite weak at home, right? I can see that you are in charge of this family, and the child's mother can't intervene at all. Shen Xiao lowered his eyelids: "A weak mother can't give her child enough security." The most basic condition for emotional needs is a sense of security, Xiao Yi's mother can't even meet the most basic requirements, and Xiao Yi doesn't get much emotional satisfaction from her. ”
Shen Xiao took his eyes off Xiao Yi's father's face and floated out the window: "As for Xiao Yi's grandmother, let alone it." There is an insurmountable generation gap between the elderly and children. The elderly can only take care of the children's food and clothing, ensure that the children are fed and clothed, and other emotional needs can basically not be met. ”
Xiao Yi's father opened his mouth wide, and the blood on his face receded cleanly.
Shen Xiao turned back, looked directly at Xiao Yi's father, and said word by word: "In other words, Xiao Yi's life in this home has always been the life you just lived in the bedroom. You just said that if people don't communicate with other people, they will quickly go crazy. But Xiao Yi can neither communicate with his father nor his mother in this family, let alone communicate with his grandmother, and at school, he can't make friends because of his introverted inferiority, so he can't get emotional communication from his classmates, you say, is he going crazy?"
Xiao Yi's father's eyes trembled, his lips trembled, and he wanted to say something, but he couldn't say it.
It's a mess in my head.
"Why hasn't Xiao Yi gone crazy and done something out of the ordinary? Because he has online games, he can write novels, games and novels are his windows to the world, and his soul is hidden in these things, waiting for someone destined to understand him and establish an emotional connection with him. But these two windows, one was forbidden by you, and the other was torn apart by you, so Xiao Yi, who was in pain, finally chose to climb onto the rooftop. ”
Shen Xiao looked at Xiao Yi's father, whose eyes were red, and said calmly: "Xiao Yi's father, this is the whole mental journey of Xiao Yi who wants to die, you can feel it." ”
Xiao Yi's father was lying on the table, and no one could see his expression.
Shen Xiao's words were like a thunderbolt hitting his Heavenly Spirit Cover, he couldn't think about anything clearly now, he needed to slow down.
Seeing him like this, Shen Xiao knew that he couldn't talk about it anymore today.
But that's all that needs to be said.
Shen Xiao stood up: "Let's do this today, let's go back, don't disturb you to think about it." If there is a problem, you can contact me through the QQ number on my business card, I am all there. ”
With that, Shen Xiao pulled Officer Li and left Zhang Xiaoyi's house.
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A few days later, Officer Li contacted Shen Xiao and told her that he was going to visit Zhang Xiaoyi, and asked Shen Xiao if he would like to go with him.
Shen Xiao immediately agreed.
The two came to Zhang Xiaoyi's house again.
This time, when he first stepped into Zhang Xiaoyi's home, Shen Xiao noticed that something had quietly changed.
The home is no longer cold and oppressive, there are one or two cute pillows on the sofa in the living room, and there are car models and robot models that children like on the TV cabinet.
Although they are small changes, they are very important because they mean that Zhang Xiaoyi's father has also begun to change.
In the past, the living room was the territory of adults, and children were not allowed to play here, because children had to study, and the living room was placed with a TV, which was obviously not suitable for children to stay here.