Chapter 382: Persecution to have a baby
Yan Yanyu thought that his father had said these things in the hospital, and Bai Tian also answered. I felt that my father should not ask about these things anymore, but I didn't expect to bring it up again now.
What they said during the day in the hospital was perfunctory, and neither of them had any plans to have children in recent years. Not to mention that both of them are busy with the company's affairs, so it is impossible for her to have children if she has a phobia of having children.
She has not forgotten that she has depression, so she basically has extravagant hopes for her children. She understands her parents' desire to hold their granddaughter, but she really can't do anything about it.
It's not that I haven't thought that my father's health is not as good as before, and if she can get pregnant, maybe it will make my father's spirit better. She consulted Jiangsu Yi, and he also meant that it was better not to get pregnant until the depression was cured.
She can work hard to overcome the fear of having a child for her father. Perhaps when the baby is a month old, she will be able to feel the presence of the child, and maybe she will overcome the fear in her heart.
But depression is not something she can control. And Jiangsu said that having a baby would worsen her depression because the mood of the pregnant woman is unpredictable. It will also make pregnant women more angry because of morning sickness and pregnancy exertion.
If the emotional aspect is not taken care of, it can also make pregnant women mildly depressed. According to her current state, she is not suitable to have children. If the depression recovers quickly, it will take at least about three years.
"Dad, I don't want children yet. I'm still a little sad because of the kid who lost before. ”
Father Yan listened to Yan Yanyu's words, and his eyes full of anticipation gradually dimmed. He thought that after so much time had passed, his daughter should come out.
If it weren't for the fact that he was persecuted a little tightly this time, it is estimated that his daughter would still not tell him these heartfelt words. He is not the kind of unreasonable father, he wants Yanyu to be happy more than anyone else.
But if two people don't have children for a long time, the marriage won't last long. Children are the bond between two people's feelings, and many things will be changed when they have children.
Since his daughter still has some shadows in her heart, he will not force it. Now his life is one day at a time, and he can't die with this regret.
He can't ask his daughter so selfishly, everything is as it is. He believed that if he was destined to meet his grandson, he would definitely do.
"Yanyu, Dad doesn't force you. Don't be too stressed, just let it be. ”
Yan Yanyu felt a little sorry for her father, but she really had no choice now. If that happens, it's irresponsible for the child. Looking at her father's disappointed face, she couldn't stop feeling sad.
She knew what her father was worried about, and she didn't want him to leave with regrets. It's because her body is so uncompetitive that she suffers from depression.
"Dad, don't worry. When Yanyu comes out of the last incident, he will definitely give birth to a chubby granddaughter for you. ”
Daylight didn't let Yan Yanyu continue to talk to Yan's father, listening to the conversation between the two of them was simply too sadistic. One is dedicated to his daughter, and the other is sad because he is sorry for his father.
Yanyu's current situation is not suitable for having children, and Yan's father's body will definitely be able to see the birth of the next generation. In order to leave a thought for Father Yan and let him live hard with hope, he can only say this for the time being.
He knew that the smoke and rain had a shadow on the miscarriage, so he thought about not having children. When the smoke and rain come out of the shadows, they are talking about the baby. schoolbag
At present, the most important thing is to treat Yan Yanyu's depression well, and other things are not ready to put any pressure on her. They still have to hide the matter of Yan's father, if they let him know, it is estimated that the Yan family will be in chaos.
Because of the topic of giving birth, everyone ate this meal more depressed. After Yan Yanyu and Bai Tian finished eating, they returned to the room with no interest.
"Daylight, do you want to call your aunt?"
Yan Yanyu saw that Bai Tian had been following her all the time, and she didn't have any time to make a phone call. She felt that it was still a little inappropriate for Bai Tian to live in Yan's house, and if she said it and let Bai Tian go back, it was estimated that Bai Tian would be very angry.
But I think she's thinking too much now, and she can't keep the day away like this. Thinking that they are husband and wife and should be together at all times.
Bai Tian nodded at Yan Yanyu and came to the balcony. took out her mobile phone to call Wang Lihua, and waited for a long time before being connected.
"Auntie. Yanyu and I stayed at Yan's house today, so you should rest early. ”
"Daylight, you two are not coming back, is it because of Lin Weilan, so Yanyu is angry?"
Wang Lihua has been tortured by Lin Weilan for the past few days, Lin Weilan came to the Bai family every day, and she didn't think it was a bad thing at first. Usually she and Yan Yanyu go to work during the day, and she is quite lonely at home.
Originally, she could also do beauty with those friends, rubbing mahjong and the like. I don't know what's going on in the last few months, sons get married, sons get married, and grandchildren give birth to grandchildren.
It's really hard to find a mahjong partner, so if you call and ask those good sisters to go shopping and beauty. Either at home to see the grandson, or to accompany the daughter-in-law for prenatal checkups. After a long time, she also felt bored, so she didn't take the initiative to call those people.
She also envies those who look after her grandson, but Bai Tian and Yan Yanyu now pay more attention to their careers. She also knew that the last time she mentioned giving birth in the hospital, it had already made Yanyu very unhappy.
She didn't dare to talk about having children anymore after that, but she didn't even have anyone to talk to at home alone. Lin Weilan's arrival made her life not so boring, at least she could talk to her.
But after a long time, I found that Lin Weilan didn't seem to be as beautiful as he imagined. Sometimes she can't hide her viciousness when she speaks, which makes her a little afraid.
Later, she and Lin Weilan rarely spoke, but Lin Weilan always asked her about Bai Tian and Yan Yanyu. It made her quite embarrassed, and she politely proposed it several times to let Lin Weilan leave.
But Lin Weilan didn't seem to understand the meaning, and left every time after dinner. Every time Yan Yanyu came back and saw Lin Weilan, she felt as if she had done something wrong.
She shouldn't have allowed Lin Weilan to enter and leave the Bai family like this, and she also felt regret. But it's too late, if you really force Lin Weilan to tell it, it is estimated that it will make the Lin family unhappy.
"Auntie, don't think too much. It's not that Yan's father has just been discharged from the hospital, and Yanyu wants to stay with him. ”
Bai Tian didn't want to put too much pressure on his aunt, as long as Lin Weilan didn't act too much, he still didn't object to her going to Bai's house. My aunt is usually quite bored at home alone, and it's good to have someone with her.
It's just that Lin Weilan goes in and out of the Bai family so frequently, there must be other purposes.